This match the sweet me because I know we will win

Straight win for us today

Xscape1993:
Now you know it is disrespectful.

yes I know better now

MatrixReloaded:
I wore a baseball cap to church, came earlier, at the entrance of the church I bow and removed it, placed it on my knee as the church commence, during worship I place it on the chair, and after church as I walked outside I wore it to prevent sun from damaging my face.

seriously, I taught it is only during prayer a man is not expected to wear a cap

Deepspirituals:
I'm a Spiritualist ..

SPIRITUALS are real ...

Using head to carry Cobwebs in a well clean serene Environment ,You look around you can't find the Cobwebs ,Next is FAILURES ,Promise and FAILURES all over ..

omo I experienced that thing eh, my forehead and two hands...



God!!!I didn't even know where the attacks came from self

CC: lalaticala

Nairaland,I never knew wearing of hat or any covering in the church as a man is a disrespect to God.




I came late to church today, and stand outside.when It was time for offering,I enter inside with my cultural cap to offer my offering to God only to hear an underground whisper from someone criticising my cultural covering in church.



I had taught it is only inappropriate only during prayer. But what I just googled showed that it is a sign of disrespect to God.


I did not only came to church late today but also disrespect God ontop



I pray God have mercy on me. Amen

Hi

I won't be surprise if op take permission from his wife before going for DNA test...

adieora:
Your brother has a mental health illness. Make sure he is not using drugs either.
Finally,free yourself from mental slaveryband leave your neighbour alone. They did not kill your father or are hurting your brother. Free yourself Pharisses who prophecy nonsense.

strangers don't just met you on the road and point to someone he knows not...

terrence12:
Do you know anything like post traumatic stress disorder?
I believe he was hit differently by your father's death, and he is expressing his grief in an antisocial way, which is understandable for his age.
Try talking to him from your heart, don't try to advice him or sound like the daddy he knows he just lost. Just talk to him, like two men who just lost their father, and listen too, he might choose to talk to you, scratch that, do all you can to ensure that he talks to you, treat him to something he likes if you must, if he refuses on your first few tries keep at it, calls, texts, what have you... You could also involve a family member who he is fond of.
In my experience he just needs to vent and also accept life for what it is, and he has to be reassured that he is loved and valued.

Ps: Leave the stealing of meat and money thingy, some of us did those, he is just very angry and very sad.

You could use a professional help though. PTSD worsens with time if no treatment is provided. Let me know if you need to consult a therapist. God bless you

a therapist would go a long way please...

Imredeemed:

I'm truly sorry to hear about the challenges your family is facing. It's important to approach this situation with care and consideration. Firstly, encourage your family to consult with mental health professionals who can assess your brother's condition. Seek a psychological evaluation to understand any underlying issues.

Additionally, try to maintain open communication with your brother. Express your concern and support for him, showing that you're there to help. Encourage your family to involve local authorities if there are threats or aggressive behavior.

Addressing the spiritual aspect may involve seeking guidance from a religious leader or counselor who can provide support and perspective. It's crucial to have a comprehensive approach that involves both mental health professionals and spiritual advisors.

Consider visiting home to offer your support in person, and collaborate with your family to create a supportive environment for your brother's well-being.

thank you for this...



It will be a double approach

Momcherry:




Please take him to Zion ministry, Evangelist Chukwuebuka Anozie Obi ministry, he's a Catholic but his ministry is non denominational. Go there with faith, buy seraphic oil and water bless them and give them to him to be applying, I promise you through the mercy of God your family must surely testify. Program days are Tuesdays, Wednesdays and Sundays.

noted thank you

Jnjoku883:


What is your relationship with him before your dad demise? If it's a lovely way, you can use that method to talk to him. But still don't forget that you attach it with Prayer. Don't take him to anywhere but sit with him and have a deep talk. Those deep discussions will help by bringing out what happen and troubles him. Stubbornness can be good sometimes but let evil tormentors not take advantage over that. Maybe there is something that troubled him and he changed. One cannot just change like that. Try Prayer to God and finally sit with him and have deep discussions. Don't apply seniority on this. Also get prepared to be annoyed by his attitude to u. But get over it and be cool with it. Follow him up and pray with and for him always if truly you want him to change.

Don't forget, expect annoyed words or attitudes but be calm and patient as far as you love him and want him to stop stealing and other evil ways. Dnt be harsh and don't be authoritative on this please.

I am a first born and a first son in the family. I know wat this is by experience... Thank you. God will gladly help.

thank you

Majesty33:
Your brother is taking drugs as the symptoms u explained earlier is not different from what is happening to my brother as we speak. And I think he takes Colos. U need to act fast as I have started mine too.

I will take that into account

Shoodboi:


He won't do it at home. He'll do it outside. He may just bring some of the 'tools' home. But I strongly suspect meth.

He'd be seriously lean and dirty if he's deeply into it.

noted,I will try and observe it.

SAMBARRY:
how old is he?

14 years bro

Coldie:

Y do u keep mentioning spiritual spiritual spiritual up and down.

There are something's u can solve urself, but u people just declare it supernatural

put me in the right direction if u have any please

7upnigeria:
. Adasun, Adasun, Adasun. Get a professional medical personnel to attend to your brother first b4 you consider a spiritual option. Taking him to join you in school shoul not be an option for now.

you can't get such diagnosis where my family base bro...


I am not comfortable bringing over, Even my mum refused when I brought it up...but that's the options I am considering

MSN1:
I had to go back to Prison Break for the third time.
I must truly say this; Apart from the fact that scofield is the brain behind the movie, but;
The 3 best Actors in that movie are:
1. Tbag-- Very dope actor!. This dude's prowess is extraordinary.
2. Sarah--Her dope gestures and realisticness is top notch.
3. Bellick-- This Nigga killed his roles perfectly, Nigga don't joke with ANY of his words.
*What are your opinions?.

bro,how do you get ur movies and series


Free o

Advancedman:


Name and pictures please? Infact send me his full credentials

for what exactly please

CJStarz:
Not every problem is spiritual.
This person you guys are suspecting that killed your dad might just be innocent.
You younger brother is definitely on some drugs and somehow, I feel your mother is quite weak in raising kids but good at attending prayer houses and making her children suspect everyone around them.
Untie yourself from her grip and influence.

shhhhhhhh... That woman is a strong woman...



Believe me bro, the man did it...I didn't believe until I got home during the burial...


I got home the next day after hearing the news...in the middle of the night, the man was spraying something on his dormot...



Bro I am a rational thinker but believe what I said...




How do u explain a white color light emitting from our room all of sudden with no source? Burning some of stuff in the process...


Why would her wife keep saying na so we go da go one one...?

Shoodboi:


Everything you mentioned here points to drugs. Meth aka ice aka market, to be precise. Has he been losing weight? And does he look unkempt? And is he darker and dirtier than he used to be?

Search his room when he's away. Look out for lighters and broken light bulbs, long glass tubes, and long rubber cords.

non, my family stays in a room and perlour setting...


I don't think he does drugs but when I get home, I will scrutinized him very well

OfficialP:
It's teenage tendencies, nothing special. But he needs your love more at this time, he also needs guidance and heart to heart talk. Locate anyone he respects a lot and get the person to talk and listen to him.


Also watch the friends he hangs out. And try to find out his passion and get him engaged
@adasun

thank you, he have small circle as friends...my mum hardly beat him because she was told it's not normal...



The boy attitude really shocked me, he wasn't like this one bit seriously...he doesn't even like going to school anymore

SAMBARRY:
You sure say your brother don go join cult?

Because all the characteristics you put down here show say he don go join some low life riffraffs wey dey ginger am and give am narcotics wey dey mess with him mental health.you sure say the boy don go put hand inside juju wey pass am?

Because you gave the attributes of a typical cultists.na them dey steal,harass,threaten etc.anyway you need to act fast.first ensure you never leave him alone with your mother this one he's saying he hates her.he fit rape or kill her.theres no limit to the kind of absurdity people wey don join hooligans fit do.again take him out of your house and out of the reach of your mom because he can get violent and murderous considering that he's acting irrational.he has become a danger to himself and those around him

lols, the boy is a small boy, slim and not that strong to rape as u said

pirlzwestern:
Please go home more often and spend quality time with your family.

i will try this time...



Na financial constraints the cause am but I will try

do4luv14:



Consult your elders, your fathers people, Same with your mums people


Beside how sure are you that your father Death isn't natural

those my papa people no too nice...na my gran ma side na in dey try for the matter...

henrimoto:
Are you talking about the kwali and yangoji Area of the gwagwalada Area ? Is there any route that connects those Areas to Masaka?

I don't know masaka much but find out...



Transport in that part is on the high

henrimoto:
Thank God for you! You don finally get motor to dey drive. Eeyah! ..happy for you.

See, which side of Abuja you dey? Locate a farming rural communities wey get market days, people from far and near dey come there. On there market days, position your motor there. The rest.. it will end in praise.

Look for rural communities around you wey them dey do charcoal.. look around the town for food centers and restaurants wey dey cook food for public... Look around too for retail charcoal sellers . ...

.. Over to you. This small truck no go fit carry much timber woods from saw mill, na light loads e go fit dey carry dey go drop.

As per how much to deliver, ask around from people wey dey use this kind motor hustle.

I believe you know what to do with the above ideas.

Best of Luck.

yes, especially kwali and yanfoji region

Samuelojonla123:

I'll advise you visit any celestial church close to you just tell them you want to Sona for yourself in yoruba word, the prophet will understand and reveal any issue tacking your bro spiritually and give you the right solution, that's all. But if you're in Abk area I might link you up with a church.
Peace

no, I am in jos

We4all:


Then you already have the answer. Get him psychological help because it is obvious the death of your dad might have hit him hard.

for a child at that age, well I will try.


Thank you

brawlings:
'Where to go'? Seek the help of a mental health professional. The change in behaviour could be as a result of internal and external factors that can be diagnosed by a psychiatrist. As vague as this may sound; a change of enviroment and the presence of a 'caring father' figure (you) might be all he needs to restore 'factory settings'.

thank you, I will try and bring to stay with me in school