₦airaland Forum

It's easy to judge
Life is complicated
Let's be slow to pass judgment
Plus sex is strong force that can mess anyone up

Brother, I hear your struggle. Thank you for being honest.

First, I agree: avoiding alcohol is a wise first step. Working in a brewery makes that hard — you may need to start looking for another job if possible, because your environment is constantly pulling you back.

Second, you’re right that this is not just a habit — it can become a spiritual battle. Sex with multiple partners (especially in that environment) can open doors you don’t see. Masturbation every day is a symptom of something deeper: loneliness, boredom, shame, or a soul that’s crying out for peace.

Here’s my advice, based on experience (I was there too, almost gave up):

1. Start with prayer & deliverance
These lust demons are stubborn, but not too strong for God. You don’t need a pastor to cast them out — you can do it from your room. Say out loud: “I renounce the spirit of lust, masturbation, and brothel bondage. I close every door opened through sex with loose women, in Jesus’ name.” Do this daily.

2. Fast — even one meal a day for a week. You said it yourself: this is an emergency. Normal rules don’t apply. Fasting weakens the flesh and strengthens your spirit.

3. Check your food — you’re right: groundnuts, milk, soybeans, eggs, spicy foods, and too much sugar can increase sexual urges. Reduce them. Eat more vegetables, fruits, and light meals, especially at night.

4. Change your environment

· Unfollow triggering content online.
· Don’t be alone with your phone in bed.
· Leave your bedroom door open if you live with family.
· When the urge comes, stand up, splash cold water on your face, and pray immediately.

5. Don’t accept this as normal — even if you fall 100 times, get up again. Repent honestly, not just with words but with tears. God is faithful. The scripture says: “Do not be deceived: God cannot be mocked. A man reaps what he sows.” (Galatians 6:7)
But also: “If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us.” (1 John 1:9)

6. You need accountability — find one trusted brother (not a girlfriend, not someone who struggles the same way). Text him every night: “Today I was clean” or “Today I fell.” Shame loses power when you bring it to light.

Final encouragement:
You will not get free in one day. But if you pray, fast, watch your food, avoid alcohol, and cry out to God honestly — He will give you the fruit of the Spirit: self-control, peace, and freedom. I almost gave up too. But deliverance is real.

Great memories, still on still buhari
Still rescued Nigeria

You they(adc) are already looking for who to blame for their loss before the election even begin

That's a popular opposition talking point, but it relies on false claims and widely debunked rumors.

Here is the reality of the situation:

· The 69-Year-Old "Daughter" Claim is False: That figure comes from old, vandalized Wikipedia edits. Multiple fact-checks confirm President Tinubu's first daughter, Folashade Tinubu-Ojo, is in her late 40s, not 69 . This means he was in his 20s when he had her—which is perfectly normal.
· Official Ages & Records: Officially, Bola Tinubu was born in 1952 (making him 74) . Atiku Abubakar was born in 1946 (making him 80) . Atiku also has 28 children , so finding the specific age of one child is irrelevant to Tinubu's records.
· Comparing to Buhari: Former President Buhari was born in 1942 and is 84 . That makes Tinubu a decade younger than Buhari, not older.

Verdict: The viral claim is a myth based on manipulated data. While Tinubu is a senior citizen, he is factually younger than Atiku and Buhari, and his children's ages are biologically consistent with his official records.

Dey whine, nothing they can do
Tinubu is ahead of everyone

But it's Tinubu that Is a drug dealer

Facts .. and he can't go close to tinubu because he betray him

Omo Lord have mercy and pity on ur so son

Them go give you five percent u go wise

She go wise
70 year old woman..

This is just the beginning

Satellite has to do with the Illuminati
So am not surprised

But tinubu is the bad person

Burna only cares about his Fancy cars not the masses

Congratulations sir

`wike effects

Lol clowns

But his brothers are calling tinubu a drug dealer

Gathering of ogogoro masters

But they always calling tinubu a drug Lord.
But they are the main representative

The game has begun
Intelligent Igbos are aligning

This has nothing to do with Wike.
This is just ipob member sad that a Yoruba woman won with Peter obi's wave .

Another rubbish Ai generated stories

Jagaban got it right with this man

Jagaban of Bogour . Greatest of all time

You people started it when u started forming coalition 2 years into Tinubu s government
.u expect him to fold hand and look?
He is a smart politician for crying out loud

Peter Obi, see Ur advicer here

Cry me a river lol

Tinubu has to be the greatest of all Time politician ... Nobody can ever match his influence

Just imagine things making nairaland front page .
What is the bigi about this now

What is humble about this beginning? Someone doing things with the president and u call it humble beginnings

God bless performing Governors .. I pray the south east gets peace from the enemies within