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All of the above.

Speechless
Baba God I degwe tank you oooo.

Lordlexyy: Things are not done rashly like that. In a multitude of councilors there's wisdom. I perceived you are up to something. Op, hope you are not serious about her advances. By the time this girl finish with you, i swear your gf would be a saint.

dont tell me you took her joke seriously.

Dyt: She don send am I love u msg
Hehehehheheh
Him don dissapear na
Na bed things go solve am

I believe you jawe;cos the way op was going about d issue , if she rub hand for he head he go agree sharp sharp.

ax2xb: Update: she is saying if i try takin d car back, she would implicate me
that the vehicle was her own share of a fraudulent transaction we did . . Like seriously . . blackmail?
How can it be your own share and yet be in my name, and yet u dont have the originals sef . . ?
How stupid . . Coming from a 29yr old lady . .

@Op, if you know your have no illegal deals she can use against you, let her go to anywhere she likes,the car is yours and its in your name. You have every right to lay allegations against her of car theft.

Smhart1: Op sincerely dont bother yourself about the car, just let her be till she realise her mistake(s)

Op should collect his car, cos the car is in his name and not hers.
She has no right keeping another mans property in her possession.

@op if she refuses, arrest her for car theft.

Dyt: Hehehehheh
She don chop her own na
Mk me too chop, I go even give d OP gd gd loving join am

Me and u contributed na, we go share am
I don't mind sef if d op say he wan date me and u
U in?
Mk we rock d guy world
Take am to planet 507
Muchechechechecheche

@Op see better offer wey Dyt dey give you so. Glab it.

Dyt: Ok na
Pull a call thru
Biatch, I want my car back
Sefini

Hehehehhehehehe
Abeg come buy my own car o, I no want much, na Range Rover 2015
Don't worry, I won't be like her
I will only ask for 500k a week, shoppin every 2weeks, vacation every mnth
Take care of my extended families too
Very simple
Am sure u can afford all those without comin here and seekin advice on how u want ur things back
Oya send me a mail mk we start frm there
See am making this official for al NLers to see o, me I won't hide our affair o, infact d whole world will know abt it
I dey wait for ur mail
*serious mode*

You nor hear op say the girl na nairalander.
Nor go let the babe waley you for road for boyfriend snatching things. I nor fit fight for you o.

ax2xb: Dyt do u wanna hear the whole story?
I am not God but what I am about to say is true.
Actually met her when I was financially unstable. She's just there, low income earner . .
Until I worked like there was no tomorrow and actually made it (not so big but big enough to spend recklessly)
She cannot survive without me, yes, even for 1 month, and still eat 3 square meals . . No insults intended but I must state the facts.
Yes she's been surviving for 3weeks on the money I sent to her before she left. . . i send her money like she's on salary, damn.
100k, 70k, 50k, as low as 10k and as much as 500k . . Pure fact !!!
She even lost her job and how much does she earn? A paltry 20k or so . . u can imagine
How can someone who earns 20k maintain a Lexus? So i av been doing the maintenance ever since . . .
I had know right from day one, she was not gonna be my wife. Yes, the handwriting were all over . .
BUt u know this kind of feelingu get, hoping one day they would change for the better
And 3 yrs have come and gone, no change . .
So i know what I'm saying . . . It's just that u are a woman and would naturally defend your people . .

You knew she can't be your wife and yet you kept spending and her,and you are complaining? I need to slap dust from you eyes.
Since the car is in your name, collect your property back if you so wish to. And move ahead. You will met better ladies that will appreciate you.

Smhart1: Op invite your gf to this thread and let's hear from her

The girl won't come base on the response she gave op when he first linked her to this thread, she won't come.

ax2xb: You can't understand . . See this lady helped me drew my budget . . Fine
the next few days, i was like let's go shopping and i withdrew a huge sum . . and i was expecting to say
"this is too much, let's reduce it and buy only the tinz we want" . . For where?
Forgetting we had a discussion on managing finances, lady threw caution to the wind and spent so much . .
Now tell me, is the woman a marriage material ?

Mr, I understand you very well. You wanted her to beg you, of which she is not ready to do.
You said she spend a lot, and you have seen that she is not ready to help you save for the future. Then mr what are you still doing with her?
You don't want to forget and let her go, that is the I won't understand you are talking about here. You are the one compounding issues for your self.
Go collect your motor, enter house and stop making noise.

ax2xb: Biased, once again.

Its not a matter of been bias here. Am telling you the plain truth.
Mr, you are the cause of your problem. She sees herself as the man in the relationship and you as the woman, that's why she is misbehaving.
Am not saying you should be a tyrant in your relationship. But stand as a man. you bought her love with money in the first place. That is the cause of this problem. And she expected more, and you started complaining of her spending excesses, she had no choice than to leave.
Mr its good to spend on your lady, but in the right proportion.
A woman should have creative ideas to help you to invest even if she has no kobo to contribute and not only to spend.

Dyt: He's scared loosin her
The fears are so obvious in his writings
Love can do person smth o

Abeg channel dat to me na mbok

Obviously, he is scared of loosing her and that is the advantage the lady in question is using against him. She knows he can't do without her and as such she can afford to misbehave and he will accept her back.

ax2xb: UPDATE:

I sent her a message on BBM, pointing to this thread. And here's her response:

Wow
That was interesting
So you need the car?
I hope you reported to the police
You?
I really have nothing to say
Whatever you like, go on and do it
I will be waiting . . .

And I guess she is among the guest viewing this thread.
@ op you need serious flogging. You be first class abaya.
What is your aim of directing her to this thread?
So that she will see your update and get scared and start begging you?
Its obvious, you love and want her back,even if she uses your head to pound. So why disturb us with your cry before?
Everybody the thread is closed. @op doesn't need anymore advise.

@op go and collect your car back jor.
and she will come back begging. Then you will know, she is jst after the material stuff you do shower on her and nothing else.
Kai! Some girls sha, can like to spoil show for other ladies. #badmarket#

But op, you sure say you nor get small fault for the matter?

Happy Birthday JekyllAndHyde. Sowi its coming in late.
Good evening everyone.

Savigne: D reason is dat most Edos are of mixed race,so abeg tench for one corner..
Proudly Safarian....Repping Delta

Mixed race from where?
Abi na u do the mixing?
Nor dey talk wetin u nor know again.
#pure Edo breed#

I know this woman very well. May her soul rest in peace.

Halleluyah !God has given me victory; it shall be permanent in my life.

HmmmmMmm...

Welcome to 2014, the year of abundant grace at work. Your every step and action this year will be graceful. Happy new year to you all.

Good night to you all.
Sweet dreams.

ninnyanny: I'm good honey,how r u?

Am great. Thanks

ItsModella1: LOOL!! Yes, I actually use glasses but even then, you wan tell me say the guy look dark for your eye? Oya, say he's not fair, he's definitely not dark. Anyways, na so my eye take see am I talk.

He is not dark, just chocolate in colour, na my eyes see.

dre11: sleep tight as you do
*hugs and *

Thanks dear.
*Hugs and *

ItsModella1: Loool!!! You look fair to me but then, it might just be the camera filter.

Fair ke?
Sis you dey use googles(glasses)?
No harm meant.

dre11: ok
are you about to sleep now?

Serious sleep beckons, can't cheat nature any more. Will off to bed soon.

ninnyanny: @agbgift report to the diary room


@ochon
@ Dre........I need ur pix Nowwwwwwwwwwww

Aunty ninny am in the diary room now.
Its been a long while. How you dey?

dre11: no i didn't see it ooooo

I will send you pm later.

dre11: most times when am here i don't normally see your moniker at all

anyway
apart from that you never respond to my request or is it out of hand
*just asking*

I replied your request on pm na. Or didn't you get it? Or is it another request I don't know off?
Just pm me.

I have seen spade pics . He is looking cute. I gave 1 like for the pics.

dre11: why do you always peep and not join us in our chitchat na
you left me all alone

Na @ the wrong time I dey always dey peep in here. When am about dozing off. Some times I sleep off while browsing in here with my phone. So it shows am online, whereas I don sleep go.