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Another big scam!!!

She is as big a clown as her husband!

So much for having faith in Nigeria. Smh

At this point, the minister for power should be sacked. Heck, everyone in the power sector should be sacked and replaced immediately.
Since they dunno what to do.

ElliotP:
Don't marry him, because you may end up cheating

Well, I haven't decided yet.

I am actually starting to see things from a different perspective based on the opinions of some men on my post. Realistically, nobody is 100 percent.

pryme:
You have to ask yourself what you can live without.

It's not everyday you find a man that is complete in every facet,
The ones that are rich may have sacrificed their time learning what it takes to be successful, thus their bed skills take the back seat,
Same goes with men that knows their way around the women body, they must have invested a considerable amount of time learning this, while their drive to make money and be successful takes the back sit.

Your decision should be based on an honest question and an honest answer to yourself.

If all fails, let your man know this will be the deal breaker (for you), no point tiptoeing around it.

Thank you so much.

I am happy for her.

EllieJune:
While I advocate s3xual satisfaction for both men and women, I do not advice you to base your entire life decision on that.

I understand. Thank you

Mryacks:
You have said what you want. Forget any negatives you get on here. If you and the guy are not in tandem in that regard, you may eventually cheat in the future onces you find someone else who does that to you. But the thing is, I see you actually ike him and admire those characteristics of his that you mention. Since no one is 100% perfect, you have to really know what you are willing to sacrifice

True!

Thank you

EFCC is probably seeking their own share of the loot as usual. Smh!

RealSolution001:
I have been searching, scanning and doing all sort of Gulder ultimate search, no way.

Is it the economy?

I mean I'm yet to see one lady convincingly beautiful which would prompt me toasting her.

Mind you, even in campuses where I work, how come I can't find beautiful girls?

All looking tired, stressed, worn-out and hagged.

Una see wetin T-Pain don cause?

Kindly post your own picture so we can see if you even deserve to have a beautiful female in your life. We also have eyes you know :/

AllBlack:
Good thing you know the females in my family from your phone screen. What phone is that? zPhone? 😁😂

And please, do not elevate yourself so high. Gold digger and LEECH are two different things, you are a LEECH. 😁😂😁

And you were senseless enough to assume my financial state as compared to my boyfriend?

You are just another pathetic slowpoke looking for attention. I will simply ignore you because you're not even worth it.

Obviously another broke loser pouring his frustration on a beautiful lady like me.

AllBlack:
forget all those nice things you said about him. You are just hanging on to him for the money.

Unlike the females in your family, I am not a gold digger!

janetakan:
See someone's father.

OLD he goat with plenty small goaties...

You no get shame I swear. Animal get a job!

Olodo, open a business. Fool, have some self worth! Stupid smelling he goat.

Girl, that man isn't worth it. Please stop giving him attention. Whenever he gets tired of being a nuisance, he will disappear. He is a typical Nigerian clown. Lol!

IMAliyu2:
Honest some of us men can be very dense sometimes, and maybe you'd need to spell it out bluntly to him, there's a chance he just hasn't understood you yet.

If after being direct and straight forward about your needs, he still remains stubborn, then maybe just weigh the pros and cons.

If he's great in every other aspect apart from the bedroom, and you can live with that. Then the logic next step is, you'd have to take your own satisfaction into your own hands going forward here.

Thank you. I appreciate it.

janetakan:
If a man cannot control his mouth or hand in this case, why should a woman?

I live to handle foolish stupid fools like him.

You don't even need to reply. Leave him for me. What nonsense is this?

On top your post again. See me see wahala.
I am sure he is one smelling big stomach, poverty stricken slowpoke. Mtchewww

Lmao!

janetakan:
You're the one looking for attention on her post. Old fool! Leave her alone.

OLD FOOL, GO AND FACE YOUR WIFE AND KIDS!!

My sister, leave the old pathetic man alone.

I have learned to ignore brainless males on nairaland. They are just not worth it.

Konquest:
Aisha (@AishaDant), I've got some moments on my hands to step into your fascinating thread post before moving on to something else, but I want some CLARITY here in order to give you more insights.

I can see that you have become wired up in such a way that the desire for "cunnilingus" has become a part of your "love language" here. You also assume that giving a "head" is widespread among men worldwide which is NOT so. Only a few percentage of men compared to the over 4 billion men on this planet earth engage in it based off of previous sexual studies.

You indicated here that you are NOT up to your mid-20s yet and studied medicine. How old is this young man? Is he over 30 years of age or even in his 40s? Speaking as an OG, I say this because of the FACT that you say he is mature and listens.

Second, it must be emphasized here that a dating time frame of NOT more than two years is the ideal period for a male and a female to get to know each other's deal breakers OR levels of compatibility before marriage. Anything longer than that, lethargy sets in and men tend to string naive young women, (especially those women they have had relentless sexual activities with) from then on before dumping them.

Worldwide, most men are averse to giving "cunnilingus" or "heads" and that doesn't necessarily mean that they are sexually awkward OR NOT sexually adventurous. It's the way men in traditional societies are wired. This mini-trend of giving "heads" to women is ONLY a very recent phenomenon in human history propounded by adult online and offline movies and adult books. Or do you want to tell me that giving a woman a head is historically part of traditional Fulani, Yoruba, Chinese, Korean, German, Indian, Arabian, Berber, Mongolian, Inuit, Edo societies, etc? NO!

I'll reserve my FULLER insights and final comments that will be of significant use to you when I get your feedback to my post

I am not looking for another argument on my post. Any man who does not see reason with me can go ahead and continue doing what he feels is right for his partner.

Apparently, most Nigerian men are closed-minded yet wonder why so many females these days turn lesbian or cheat.

You read the post and saw the part I said he enjoys receiving blow jobs but because you are also male, you feel you should defend him.

Whatever!

Been such a rough year for Bob.

So sad. I hope she receives her healing.

Proserpina:
Lol You know what endears me to this case is the qualities she listed about the man. Especially that "A man that LISTENS" .

Believe me, that quality alone takes away 60% of the challenges she may face in relationship and most importantly marriage with him . A Nigerian man that LISTENS ah! She may not know the importance of this quality until later in life.
Couples can not be equal in all aspects that's where compromise comes in .

As for her sexual dissatisfaction, does this come from the fact that her desire (Head) is not granted or her man isn't trying at all?

Has she tried holding off on the BJs he loves so he can see what he is making her miss?

Has she tried to convince him to use intimacy gadgets on her? If he is all she listed he would definitely give in with time if he see how she vibrates with the tongue intimacy gadget

You see, some things can really be worked around if couples understand one another.

But if head is paramount then she can go ahead to break up with him but believe me, she might look back and regret this . Then "head" might be very tiny to the compromise she may have to make in the future.

Head only works when there's peace of mind o

He is just very reluctant to do it. When he tries, he acts like it is about to swallow him. The drama alone is a huge turn off for me.

Anyway, he has until the end of the month to start doing it right or we are done.

As a young active couple, sexual satisfaction is important especially as I am not ready to start cheating on him.

LOL! Ghetto love

almarthins:
Time na illusion. Soon you will be 35 before you know it. Market go come scanty, then you go come wish know better then.

I am fulani, age is not my problem. We hardly really age but clearly you don't know that.

I take very good care of myself.
Keep this advice for your wife and kids okay?

Snow2six:
Y everybody jst de para for what d gal said she likes…If you can’t give head, it’s ur choice,stop condemning her on her fantasy..what if una com jam man wey de gv head and also leak ass?She knows what she wants, best she should do is to cont talkin to d guy abt it and if she doesn’t c any change,she look for someone her match

Thank you!

galantjoe:
Carry his coconut head to your pusssy. The sweet smell alone will entice him to suck it.

Let me tell you the truth it is only man of strong heart that will suck woman. It takes strong heart to do that. So force him during romance to give u head. Once he does it for the first time, he will be doing it always

I cannot force him. If it is not something he enjoys, I will not force him.

To be fair, I enjoy going down on him. If he doesn't enjoy doing same for me, I cannot force him.

TrustNone:
if I handle you one night ehn you go dump his broke and impotent ass straight up

He is not broke. He is also not impotent. He is just closed-minded in the bedroom. Please don't insult my man. Thank you.

Orlu13:
ur father there....I am sure dats how ur mum treated ur dad... useless man dat gave birth to a useless daughter like u

If you weren't a badly behaved he goat, my comment wouldn't have upset you so much.

He goat!!!

I don't feel sorry for him.

Go Kamala!!!

Arizoner:
what's your fav sex position

Your mother must be so proud of this ANIMAL she gave birth to...🤢

MrAmbrose:
Make use of intimacy gadgets.

Been there, done that.

What's the use of having him as a boyfriend if intimacy gadgets do better work than him?

I am waiting to see how this turns out. 😕😒