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MzEmeritus:
Please kindly recommend well facilitated and neat hospitals in Ibadan for expecting mothers.

nifemi120:
if you are on WhatsApp,message me

nifemi120:
Stroller 15k
Walker 5k.
Buyer gets two set of baby towels and diapers(both foreign) for free
WhatsApp or call for quick reply as am not always on nl.

StrongWoman333:
BA my pretty princess just arrived today around 8pm through elective CS weighing 3.5kg...weak and tired BS later.

CC. Rubyzz, Ayauche. Team June

QueenBeeQBQ:
Please o sabi mamas, what's the old wrappers(4) that's requested for in the hospital list for?

Akorkor:
Thanks ma, I really appreciate your reply


I really feel your pain but take one step at a time, no need to rush. Sit your husband down and have a heart to heart discussion with him. Let him know that you feel pain and you are not heal yet. Tell him you will make it up to him with different sex method you are learning. Trust me, men like lies like women too but try and calm him down. Let him wait biko.

On another note, my hubby waited for 4-6 month sef, no tears oo but na cry i go use finish am. I am like you that don't get wet but i prayed to God to let my body be totally released for my husband so that i wont just sit like a log of wood. Right now, anytime we want to do the do, i put all my mind, body and soul to it so that i can enjoy it like he does too. So, change your state of mind. I have never used any drug but the most important drug is your state of mind. Try and think about it, if you are not a really deep person, watch blue movie sef if that will make you to come out of your state. Tell him you are in this together, he should not come and carry disease to you oh because his body is peppering him.


I wish you all the best.

Liftedhands:
Sorry for you ordeal it will pass. However try and sit your hubby down and explain to him how you are feeling, let him understand that your body is still healing.

You guys can use lubricants like olive oil to ease entry, do plenty pre-intimacy setting the mood and getting you really wet.

Let him go slow and don't rush! You can guide him with your hands and tell him to stop when you feel uncomfortable.

Congrats on your baby and welcome here.

Then when you have healed and need to boost your sex life and libido try the following...

Very ripe watermelon cut it to bite sizes in a bowl, add 1 or 2 tins of evaporated milk ( peak will do) keep refrigerated to chill and then consume. This helps with libido and wetness.

There is also kunu Aya made with Aya, coconut, Debino prepare all and grind with water sieve and drink up.

Other mamas will shook mouth.