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HiiiPower: I just had a heart to heart conversation with my mum about marriage, and she wants me to marry a Nigerian girl. Basically, I'm not attracted to Nigerian girls. I've only had one Nigerian girl since I started getting freaky with girls, and we never got along. We were two different people with different mentalities and outlook to life; and to be honest, most Nigerian girls bore me to sleep.

Personally, I think Nigerian girls are capricious, superficial,needy, and empty up there. And I'm not a big of people who can't inspire me intellectually and those who judge people without getting to know them. Perhaps, it's probably the ones that have met, but they all act the same to me. However, I've met a couple of highly educated ones, but they're not really attractive.

I love my mum and I sincerely want to make her happy, but where can I find this elusive breed of good Nigerian girls, if at all there is any?

Dear Mr highpower. In my opinion, Nigerian guys have problems. I grew up outside Nigeria and for some reason, all the Nigerian guys around me went after girls of different races and ethnicities...whilst we stayed away from them to honour our parents and good upbringing..what are we supposed to do?
just because one yeye girl gave you the wrong mindset doesn't mean the rest of us are like that...

I think nigerian guys can be fake, demanding, swagless, money loving and feel they are God's gift to women...I am also not a big fan of people who can't inspire me intellectually and those who judge people without getting to know them. Perhaps its the ones I've met..but they all act the same to me...LOL...I've met a few highly educated ones, but, truth be told, they are not really attractive and tend to be old and want young girls....yet treat us like chewing sticks....
i beg your pardon and ask you to reconsider. Maybe its you with the problem. Maybe you have a wobbed mindset of nigerian girls...are you seriously worthy of a good nigerian girl?