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SportsRe: Punting And Rollover Sanctuary by ATEAMS: 11:35pm On Feb 25, 2025
thelivingpunter:
Bookie: Betking
Booking code: HP17NW
Odds: 28+

First game begins by 5 p.m.
Not bad !
PoliticsRe: Nigerians To Get People Oriented Constitution - Deputy Speaker Kalu by ATEAMS: 9:28am On Feb 24, 2025
We still de wait
PetsRe: Lion Found In Abuja, Kept As Pet (Video) by ATEAMS: 2:21pm On Feb 23, 2025
LoL you

Good na blood o
RomanceRe: I Don't Regret Making Friends With Drug Addicts And Prostitutes by ATEAMS: 12:50pm On Feb 22, 2025
Blunting
PoliticsRe: Police Advises Immediate Suspension Of Osun LG Election by ATEAMS: 9:45pm On Feb 21, 2025
LoL
HealthRe: India’s Opioid Kings: Pharmaceutical Firm Behind West Africa’s Drug Crisis Unmas by ATEAMS: 6:01pm On Feb 21, 2025
Hidusm
FamilyRe: After 17 Years Apart, Man Reunites With Wife In UK As He Cries (Pics) by ATEAMS: 5:05pm On Feb 21, 2025
embarassed
PoliticsRe: Dangote Refinery Has 500 Million Litres Of PMS In Stock by ATEAMS: 4:20pm On Feb 21, 2025
Brutality!!!
PoliticsRe: Babangida's Autobiography: Results Of 1993 Elections "Won" By MKO Abiola by ATEAMS: 11:10am On Feb 21, 2025
They compromised the country so bad
PoliticsRe: Natasha Akpoti: Akpabio Clashed With Saraki (Throwback Video) by ATEAMS: 11:06am On Feb 21, 2025
Internet na your mate ?
HealthRe: These 5 Everyday Habits Are Secretly Damaging Your Kidneys! by ATEAMS: 3:11pm On Feb 20, 2025
Hmm
Christianity EtcRe: Do You Still Link Terrorism To Islam??? by ATEAMS: 8:47pm On Feb 15, 2025
Killers for hires are ?
CelebritiesRe: Lucky Udu Expose Nedu to VeryDarkMan ! (video) by ATEAMS: 8:27pm On Feb 15, 2025
Omoh
RomanceRe: Five Ways To Make A Woman Fall In Love With You. by ATEAMS: 8:21pm On Feb 15, 2025
Simp handbook summarized

FamilyRe: What Has Secretly Disappeared In Nigeria In The Past 20 Years We Don't Notice? by ATEAMS: 1:03pm On Feb 15, 2025
Famous dead people..


TB Josh
FoodRe: Get Garri And Rice From Benue by ATEAMS: 1:00pm On Feb 15, 2025
Which location in BN and what are your prices?
PoliticsRe: We rejected Gambaryan's $5million bribe, disregard his false allegations - FG by ATEAMS: 7:28am On Feb 15, 2025
U wasn't there
CrimeRe: Nnayerugo 'Killaboi' No Longer In Custody - FIJ by ATEAMS: 3:49pm On Feb 14, 2025
Damn
RomanceRe: I Think This Is The Main Reason You Can't Achieve Your Dreams [bitter Truth] by ATEAMS: 2:23pm On Feb 14, 2025
So deep Bro.




SuperOnyi:
shocked




I know your brain is too soaked up on dopamine search so reading this might be hard for you but it's okay...

I have been thinking about this but I think I have finally figured it out. Why is it so hard to achieve those things you see in your mind's eyes? It's like being that nice guy seeing the promised land but unable to take that one move to get your share.

I just figured that to achieve your own success, it is important to understand how the human mind works. This is not just about understanding the minds of others but also yours. The reason you're stuck in the same position for so long is because your brain is already connected to that spot. We all cherish a comfortable life, this is why we have this innate fear whenever we leave our comfort zone.

Regardless of how powerful our brain is, it wouldn't mind choosing to remain stuck in one position. We humans are programmed to embrace consistency. We can hold on to something even if it's falling apart right in front of us, we would rather lie to ourselves than take that first step.

That first step is the catalyst you need to create that life you want for yourself . Sadly, it's the heaviest and most difficult step you'd ever take.

This is why you'd rather lie on the bed and watch porn videos instead of doing those "hard" things on your to-do list. This is why you feel so vulnerable when you attempt to leave your comfort zone. This is why you would rather do other trivial things to prove and lie to yourself that you're being productive than focusing on things that truly matter.

If you're wondering why you can't stick to your well crafted plan, you convince yourself that you can do it and the next minute, you're back in the same pit you sworn you'd come out of. Then, this is the reason. Your brain is used to that backwardness and you have no mental strength to challenge yourself to get up and fight. You're your own enemy, you have been defeated by procrastination and spat on by self deceit.

You might have those brilliant ideas in your head but your brain would rather swim in the gutter until you get up and challenge it to work. Listen, the road to success is boring — so boring. I lost a business worth millions of naira about two weeks ago and the journey to rebuilding it has been rough. I wouldn't lie, it's scary. But when I let the creative side of me take control, I can feel my brain trying to resist—trying to maintain that consistency. I'm talking about doing less work and demanding more comfort.

I have these ideas in my head but I kept noticing how I would go for the easiest ways that wouldn't give my "entrepreneur career" better boost compared to the hard things. My mind has become consistent in choosing simple methods even though they might not be long-term or give me the kind of results I seek. When I eventually try out these "hard things," it becomes clearer that they were never hard in the first place. I was only attracted to things I have been consistent with, and found it hard taking that first step.

I'm currently building another business and the risk is scary but I have decided to take on the hard things. I have decided to manipulate my brain into doing what I need and not what I want. The earlier you take that first step, the better...
BusinessRe: 10 Biggest Commercial Banks In Nigeria By Market Value In 2025 by ATEAMS: 10:35am On Feb 14, 2025
Opay finish work
RomanceRe: Valentine’s Day 2025: How Are You Spreading the Love Today? (Photos Inside) by ATEAMS: 10:30am On Feb 14, 2025
E de there
PoliticsRe: IGP Urges Senate To Conduct Closed-Session Investigation On Alleged Missing Arms by ATEAMS: 10:27am On Feb 14, 2025
Indeed
PoliticsRe: Nigeria Announces Measures To Soften Impact Of USAID Programs' Suspension by ATEAMS: 12:43pm On Feb 06, 2025
T...f
PoliticsRe: FG Begins Toll Collection On Abuja-Makurdi Expressway by ATEAMS: 6:55pm On Feb 04, 2025
Obooi
PoliticsRe: Lagos Lawmakers Write Apology Letter To Tinubu Over Removal Of Ex-speaker Obasa by ATEAMS: 4:37pm On Feb 04, 2025
Dammmn
PoliticsRe: First Lady, Senator Oluremi Tinubu Visits IBB, Abdulsalami In Minna(pics)) by ATEAMS: 4:34pm On Feb 04, 2025
Colourful
EventsRe: Truphena Muthoni: Kenyan Lady Sets Guinness World Record For Tree Hugging by ATEAMS: 4:29pm On Feb 04, 2025
Jobless
PoliticsRe: Hon. Ikwechegh Exposes Hidden Budget Leakages In Explosive NASS Session by ATEAMS: 2:29pm On Feb 04, 2025
Dammmn
TravelRe: How I Raised £15,450 In A Few Months In The UK, Nigerian Lady Shares(Photos/Vid) by ATEAMS: 9:24am On Feb 04, 2025
Ruke1989:
Well, oyibo doesn't psychologically torture, underpay, wilthold slaries or maltreat unskilled workers the way we do in Nigeria. So people can accept such jobs over there with dignity but here, if you accept such jobs in Nigeria, it's not not going to be about your humility - but about your dignity being violated by your very employer. The societal perception of unskilled labor is impacted by employee treatment mostly
On point
RomanceRe: Masturbation Has Health Benefits (lie #4) by ATEAMS: 9:11am On Feb 04, 2025
Sex and masturbation is your only teachings?

Is that your calling?
FamilyRe: Should I Believe This?? by ATEAMS: 9:09am On Feb 04, 2025
JASONjnr:
I was cooking yesterday and I was with my phone all close to the gas cylinder.

I believe this to be some fictions but then in abroad, there are gas pipes everywhere but people are there with phones in their kitchen.

We don't make research in this country.... So we just go with the stories from the internet.
Indeed otherwise alot of houses would have gotten blown of by now.
PoliticsRe: Wike, PDP Crisis Bala Muhammed To Use Gov Fubara Has Presidential Running Mate by ATEAMS: 9:05am On Feb 04, 2025
Had a good laff

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