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Hope777:
Always thought securing a future is always about working hard today and reaping the benefits tomorrow, however I am a now convinced that this is only an ideal case and your future is not in your hands like people say. There are external factors that interfere with our future.

I have basically been a hardworking person right from school, working hard to ensure my parents are proud and giving my best in any way I can. Unfortunately it seems like I am not destined for the great future I have always dreamt about.

I noticed early this year that I have a condition that makes me impotent. I can get erections while laying down but lose it while standing/sitting (I wouldn't mind if it will always remain this way but I hear it only gets worse) I visited several specialist doctors and it appears they barely understand this condition and end up saying it is psychological.

I have done my research for a long time now from global writings and forum and discovered I have a venous leak: this is a condition where the veins in the male genital drains blood faster than the inflow of blood through the arteries making normal erection impossible. This may be caused by an accident/damage to the veins.

There have been times where I have had traumas to my genital but I never thought this will be an issue and didn't even notice this condition because I haven't been sexually active.

Now from my research there is no cure to this condition and it only gets worse (meaning even erection when laying down may go eventually).

I havi e been depressed and sucidal; I feel like there's no point to my life if I can have such a damaging condition. Not being able to have sex isn't the problem, however the pyschological trauma this gives me about my future is the problem. I am still very young!! Will I ever get a wife? The thought of not being normal kills me!

I wonder what I did to deserve this, I am sad, depressed and sucidal. Why does God allow bad things happen to people? I feel I am running mad because I cannot stop thinking about this. I just want to sleep and not wake up, or discover this is a dream if I do. Cc: dominique could you move this to.

be happy u can stil experience some erection while laying down. am 24 now since age 10 i don't know erection feel like. i don't think about girls coz there's nothing i wan use them for. that life. we are not equal. there are people who's situation worser than this.

DrHoganObi:
Unrelated to impotency. Do you have sickle cell anemia? This condition is rare but manageable. It can't stop u from getting a babe pregnant, it shouldn't.

am a sickle cell. SS.

DrHoganObi:
Hmmm Who diagnosed you with impotency at the age of 10?

its priapism

LillyVal:
Are you for real?

yea, since age 10

LillyVal:
Are you for real?

yea

derrick015:
Thank you all for the advice

Somethings have been unraveled here that I really appreciate.

Well I think I am a shy introvert.

I have seen a lot of introverted persons do things.

I work in a bank now. I need to get rid of shyness and maybe low self-esteem to be a great banker.


I can't say because I am an introvert I will drop the job. That will be foolish of me. And there are little jobs out there.

Please help me.

find more thing to addict urself. like Supporting a club, and make sure u go watch it outside so u can react with people.

impotency. not able to sex with girl. so sad.

pocohantas:
What makes a man worth it?

You mean some men do not deserve the pussy. Like undergraduates or men that can't pay (bride price)?

Do whatever u like.
give whoever u want.
its free gift of nature.
use am how u like.

Thegamingorca:
The fact that you acknowledge beasts have hymens makes your rubbish assumption about hymen relevance to marriage, void

do beast married, they don't. so don't marry coz beast don't do.

pocohantas:
How does that answer the question;

What do you mean by FREE PUSSY? Should pussy come at a cost?

if u will give let the man worth it.

I can't just see my self dating a non - virgin, I can't imagine having sex with a girl tens of guy don had experience with.
I can't just imagine dating a girl who don had countless abortion.
I can't just imagine dating a girl that's has been manhandling anyhow(just imagine what kind of style them don use am perform).

pocohantas:
Does that mean (subconsciously) men think sex should be paid for? Men want to pay for sex? I keep seeing this "free fück" as an insult.

Is my pussy a bargaining chip in a relationship? Or high bride price via marriage.

a child who work for money will no the worth of money than a child who never work but take from parent.

Thegamingorca:


Do you also think sheep, chimpanzees, elephants, whales, and horses that have hymens also get married?

u don see hymen for horse body b4. even of it present, do u understand there behavior. we are talking about men not beast.

pocohantas:
Who told you an SU lady is a saint? Who told you a non-virgin is not a saint?
Who told you??

na u know. keep dashing free Bleep about.

pocohantas:
No religion support sex before marriage.

Which religion supports MEN having sex before marriage?

Religious laws are for women I suppose. Seeing that no one expects men to give us brand new pricks.

am a virgin, am still on the right way.

pocohantas:
We all know someone that fits the example we want to give. I also know a guy who is a church guy, but he married a slay queen. We all expected him to marry a church sister like him. Tell me about another guy you know?

who tell u that church guy na saint. the real male aristo are from church queer. so he date who fit him.

Ayotemide:
I don't deal with shallow minded individuals who think having an hymen is a qualification for marriage. I can't see how the biological process of fucking is the reason some guy thinks I am wife material.

Don't engage me in needless banter tori olorun. Goodluck on your Hymen search.

hymen is part of qualification of marriage. if not y is it created, no religious support sex b4 marriage, so as our culture. bcoz u aren't a virgin no more does not mean u should criticized it. do u know how happy a man will be to met her beautiful wife a virgin.

GLYCOLYSISS:
That's guys for you.
A guy can date anything that have pussy,big ass and Boobs for dating & boyfriend/girlfriend sake.
He don't care if she is a virgin,guys prefer them non virgin self at these stage,because of the emotion and whatnot that comes with dating a virgin girl.

But when it comes to marriage ?
The priority changes.

Virginity signifies purity,self control & virtuousness,that's why most girls gets pissed off when asked if they are virgins ,because most are not.

Of course,guys do the deflowering, but most cases,the same guys still go out searching for virgins when it comes to a very serious relationship that will most likely going to lead to marriage.

Who takes a girl serious that he have fuvked over & over again Done different kind of sex position on her pussy ..
The girl end up taking postinor tablet every now & them after the sex,even go as far as committing abortion for the guy & you think the guy is that stupid & dumb to make you the mother of his kids

Guys are not stupid,but most women will never learn.

reason I don't with to have female kids. no mater how u thought them they will still do their own.

GLYCOLYSISS:
Are you done ?

I repeat, no guy meets a girl for the first time & go straight to asking her if she is a virgin or not,unless very little exceptional cases.
And to that little cases,I agree it's silly & rude to be asking a woman you just met her virginity state.

You could put out many examples as you want to,but it still won't change the state ,that virginity should be one of the greatest things a young woman should take pride in,unless some cases of sexual molestation,even if our society have gone to the dogs.
You don't have to agree with me ,which I really don't mind.

It doesn't make her "prideless", but if obviously sent a message to anyone she is dealing with,to understand what he is going into,love her for who he met her as,or go exactly after who he wants, a virgin.
Every guys dream is to marry a virgin,you can't change that,even the most sexually active guys out there knows that a virgin is the goal.


Is that all you got ? Insults ?

Smiles...

Take care.

I know a guy who had many gf he date, but there is one S.U among them he never do rubish with, we notice he's keeping her for marriage while bleeping the other.