₦airaland Forum

Sheuns:
All thanks to Buhari and El Rufai for APC Victory in 2023.

Now both are no longer with you APC. To make matters worse, Tinubu has performed way way below expectations and has thrown more people into poverty than all previous administrations combined.

what do u have to say about this?

yaroyaro619:
Peter Obi is the main Man for the Job

in your weirdest dream

U did more than this in 2023

romklef:
As dem dey wait make the marriage fail the bond becoming stronger

stronger?

Marriage of less than 6 months

I am not wishing them bad but they should take things slow

Mrexcell:
You that's not playing politics of hate we saw how u violently prevented non indigens from voting in lagos something only experienced in ur region keep projecting what u are on others who are far more civilised than u.

non indigenes who believe in controlling the affairs of their host n will never allow that in their region.

That's suites the nosy immigrants, same thing everyone is doing to them all around the world cos they won't respect themselves.


They will blame everyone except themselves

Thailand Bangladesh Ghana south Africa India Cambodia n co are all guilty and envious of them, na only them holy

TemmyT002:
I find it hard to believe that she changed just like that.
She is probably still showing him pepper at home and this testimony is probably a message to her to change.

u Sabi

The guy just want to use that opportunity to tell church elders to speak to her wife to change.

The man is going through hell at home with this story, the woman didn't suddenly change like that

Marvieduke:
Not so many people would say they have not come across the name, Pastor Jerry Eze, at least on one of the social media platforms. Regardless of whatever faith you profess, his is a name that has become almost impossible to miss on the Nigerian internet in recent years.

For those who may not know him, Jerry Eze is a Nigerian Pentecostal pastor and the founder of Streams of Joy International, a ministry that has grown enormously through its online prayer programme, NSPPD (New Season Prophetic Prayers and Declarations). His sermons, prayers and testimonies have given him a huge following both in Nigeria and among Nigerians in the diaspora.

I just stumbled on a story said to be his testimony about his marriage, and I found myself reading it a little differently from the way such stories are usually consumed online.

He said that when he got married, marriage was “hell”. In fact, he said if there was anything “hellier than hell”, that was what his marriage felt like.

According to him, the problem was largely his wife's anger.

He recalled an incident during the first week of their marriage. They were in the kitchen and he asked her a simple question. She became angry, moved the cups and plates she was arranging with one hand and sent them crashing to the floor.

He said he was shocked.

Coming from a background where, according to him, anger was not something they were accustomed to, he did not know how to process what he had just witnessed. He went into the room, packed his things and left because he genuinely feared that he might be beaten.

And this, he said, was not an isolated incident.

He found himself becoming careful about what he said and how he said it because he never knew how his wife would react. He felt intimidated. He felt that she sometimes acted as though she was the man of the house.

Eventually, he reached the point where he told God he was done.

His reasoning was simple: he had tried. They were both successful. There was no reason, in his mind, why they could not simply go their separate ways and everyone would be fine.

But apparently, that was not the end of the story.

He recalled another incident that happened while they were in London.

His wife had gone into a shop while he remained outside. At some point, he went into another shop to pick something up. When she returned and discovered that he had gone elsewhere, she became upset.

He tried to explain that she should have told him she was going to another shop so they could have gone together because he was not used to the cold.

According to him, she looked at him and asked, “What did you say? What did you say?”

And he responded with a question he said he often asked because he felt intimidated by her: “Do you want me to be afraid of you?”

She left him there.

He did not even realise she had gone home until much later.

He eventually called her friend and asked where his wife was because he was stranded and did not know where to go. The friend contacted his wife, and the response was reportedly, “Let him find his way back.”

He eventually found his way back, packed his things again, changed his ticket and left that same night.

By the time his wife returned to Nigeria so they could live together, he said things became even worse.

Then came the moment that changed the way he looked at the entire marriage.

One day, while praying, he told God that this was the end. Let his wife go her way and let him go his.

And then, according to his testimony, he received an answer that completely changed his perspective:

“This marriage is not a destination. It is an assignment.”

He said that statement changed everything.

Instead of approaching marriage primarily from the standpoint of what he expected to receive from his wife, he began to see himself as someone who also had a responsibility within the marriage.

He had to learn to love.
He had to learn to control his reactions.
He had to learn not to respond to every expression of anger with anger.
He had to stop expecting his wife to behave exactly the way he wanted.

He said the marriage did not suddenly become perfect. It was not a magical transformation.

But eventually, he says, the woman he once described in those difficult terms became one of the sweetest people one could meet.

Now, this is where Jerry Eze's story stopped being just a story about Jerry Eze and his wife for me. It raises a much bigger question about what we actually expect from marriage, and what marriage, in turn, expects from us.

Because there is something deeply uncomfortable about marriage that many people discover only after they get into it.

We often enter marriage with an invisible list of expectations.

We want to be loved in a certain way. We want to be spoken to in a certain way. We want our spouse to understand us, respect us, appreciate us, apologise when they are wrong and change the things that irritate us.

And when the marriage becomes difficult, our first instinct is often to ask:

“When will my spouse change?”

But perhaps one of the hardest questions marriage can force us to ask is:

“What does this relationship reveal about me?”

That, I think, is the strongest part of Jerry Eze's testimony.

Not necessarily the claim that God told him his marriage was an assignment, because people may interpret that according to their own faith.

The deeper point is that he eventually realised that he too had an assignment within the marriage.

His assignment was not to change his wife.

It was to work on himself.

And that is a lesson worth considering, whether you are religious or not.

But there is an important qualification.

Marriage being an assignment does not mean that someone must endure everything their spouse does.

Patience is not permission for abuse. Forgiveness does not mean pretending nothing happened. And taking responsibility for your own shortcomings does not mean taking responsibility for another person's destructive behaviour.

Two people have an assignment in a marriage.

You have yours.

Your spouse has theirs.

You can work on yourself. You can love more. You can communicate better. You can learn patience. You can apologise. You can change.

But you cannot do your spouse's assignment for them.

Perhaps that is where the real wisdom lies.

Marriage is not simply about finding someone who will make you happy. It is also about becoming someone capable of making another person feel loved, respected and safe.

And sometimes, the person you desperately want to change is not the only person who needs changing.

Sometimes, you are also part of the assignment.

That, to me, is the part of Jerry Eze's story worth thinking about.

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All these cock n bull story

We go soon hear of divorce after u smile for camera finish

Validated:
SORRY, the iREV WILL TREAT YOUR MATTER.
MANUAL MANIPULATION IS HISTORY.
WE VOTE, FOLLOW THE RESULTS LIKE OSUN PEOPLE. WE ARE READY TO SACRIFICE SLEEP ON ELECTION DAY TILL RESUKTA ARE ANNOUNVED.

Where will Tinubu get 15000 policemen per state in 2027?

no need arguing with closed minded individuals like u

If u could still believe buhari was cloned despite the fact u could use Google to cure your ignorance then it's a pure waste of time arguing with u lots.

Don't worry reality will wake u up again n u will shout rigging again

Validated:
Tinubu in 2027? - NEVER AGAIN!!!
Oyo gone
Osun gone
Lagos gone
SE gone
NC gone
SS gone
NE gone
Kano gone
Kaduna gone
Where is Tinubu’s pathway to reelection?

no need arguing with someone like u

Reality will wake u up again n u will shout rigging again


Others are strategizing n creating pathway to winning n u are shouting gone gone gone.... okkkkkkkkkkkkkkkk.

Even rufai oseni shake head for opposition yesterday, he made it clear that they know nothing about politics. Many of them are mocking Tinubu but they really can't see the mathematical calculation n alliance on ground

Good morning everyone

First and foremost I like to congratulate Governor Adeleke for being returned elected at osun poll yesterday, one thing the opposition is missing is the race to 2027 which they seems carried away by shenanigans instead of how to make things work for good for them in 2027.

With what played out at soun yesterday, it was crystal clear from the onset that Tinubu had nothing against Adeleke, right from the onset he made it clear that APC osun chapter should adopt Adeleke but they refused and with what we saw yesterday Adeleke never had any bad blood for Tinubu.

Now to the real calculation of 2027, the total votes counted yesterday was around 784k with APC polling over 300k and Adeleke having a huge majority of the rest, with the cordial relationship between Adeleke and Tinubu it's obvious he's likely going to work with Tinubu in 2027. Now that means no matter how hard the presidential election of osun is APC will retain their supporters and if things work as planned and Adeleke works for tinubu that means apc will also have a huge chunk of accord vote.

On this note it is save to say APC will get a majority vote in osun state, now we all have seen aregbesola political career is virtually non existent in osun state with the outcome of the election yesterday. So the question is, how will NDC and ADC penetrate the osun electorates because to them they are only focusing on mocking Tinubu who is the biggest winner in this cos he's a friend to both parties.

How do you think aregbesola ADC or a non existent NDC will penetrate the osun electorates?

Modified......to those insulting me, what do you have to say about this?

Charito1:
. Baba i dey feel your pain . Pls cry me an ocean 😂😂

it is u people from the online country that see politics as pain n war

It's no big deal here

Mrexcell:
That won't still guarantee that tinibu will win osun state next year, osun people have demonstrated with this just concluded governorship election that they have a mind of their own.

the politics of hate u play in the south east is different from what we play in the south west.

Just like abati said last night, the opposition should b worried about osun election because Tinubu and Adeleke are together n apc did well with ADC n NDC non existent.

If u ain't seeing that then u know nothing about election n politics

Lithiumite:
We told obidients that tinubu and adeleke personally don't have any issues with each other......its also note worthy where the chieftain was acknowledging tinubu for not interfering and allowing free and fair elections.......thats someone on the ground stating the matter as it is but those hate filled neo facist obidients sitting far away in Onitsha will be speaking for adeleke.

just leave them

To them politics is all about hate, u must hate your opponent but they are yet to understand that we don't play that kind of politics in the south west

Jakarta:
Honestly given the margin of this election's results despite the little division withing the APC in Osun, Tinubu winning the 2027 presidential election is almost a sure bet. PBAT can only be defeated when Atiku, PO, Kwankwaso all agree to work together.

God bless u

Instead of the opposition to see this n think of 2027 they are busy insulting Tinubu

guass:
When the masses are with u it becomes very hard to rig. The reason we say Delta will loose Sherrif and Nigeria will loose Tinubu for Ok

your delusion is second to none.

Tinubu will b reelected for 2nd term

Kdon2:
Tinubu kind of politics is really scary. You can't predict what he would do. I can't believe he just sacrificed baba Akande, oyetola and co for adeleke. And this osun election just give bites to opposition morale. It will bite Tinubu in the ass. As it stands it's risky supporting Tinubu for presidency.☹️

u obviously know nothing about politics, he supported Adeleke right from the onset n commanded osun apc to adopt Adeleke n they did strong head.

Even osun apc chairman had to say it publicly that if Adeleke likes he can go n b staying in Tinubu house they won't support him.

Tinubu didn't throw anyone under d bus, he made it clear right from d onset that he's with Adeleke

OgwuEgo:
How market who lost??

aregbesola, obi n Atiku lost cos their party was no where to b found

Tinubu won cos apc had a good outing n he will do his best to bring in Adeleke to his fold.

What u should b worried about is how will the electorates vote ADC which is buried or NDC which they don't know about?

Ofunaofu:
The good people of Osun State have spoken, and they have spoken clearly.

APC should respect the mandate of the people of Osun State and allow the people’s will to prevail.

The people have spoken. Respect their mandate. Democracy must prevail.

it is u people from online country that are hating.

I am an APC n I have congratulated accord members

Adeleke have won this election already


It's a win win for Tinubu cos NDC n ADC are buried in osun for good

MEGAWATCH:
He will still give your drug dealer criminal another bloody nose in his Lagos turned Dubai... 🤣🤣🤣🤣


Thank God El-rufia and the northerners are having sense today because of their hardship.

You think they will save Tinubu again.

This time na bloody nose home and away.


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let him win Lagos n b d president of Lagos while Tinubu wins Nigeria n b d president of Nigeria.

Talking about penny wise n pounds foolish

Shebi if e don win Lagos e don win Nigeria abi?

MEGAWATCH:
Allow him to win let's see who he will work for Tinubu na.

You foolishly forgot that he has nothing at stake if he wins this election's today.

Tell that package criminal that after this election's he must tell us his primary and secondary schools.

The most truthful criminal in your region.


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u expect me to argue with u right?

Better go n give obi the next advice at upper iweka

MoneyMan5:
Obi supporters are supporting Adeleke in Osun state despite the fact he endorsed Tinubu, all over the internet it is cry of APC do these and that when both party are actually very guilty of violence and vote buying, did they really think Peter Obi have a chance in the presidential election in Osun?

Tinubu actually save Adeleke ass in Osun state or else it would be total slaughter in Osun by APC, imagine if Tinubu didn't lift that EFCC account freeze where would Adeleke get the money to be buying votes at 20k each per vote? How much can his brother loan him ?

2027 no matter which party won Osun Election the almost a million votes in Osun will be going to Tinubu not even Atiku ADC stand a chance.

just leave those ignoramus, they are calling it a disgrace for apc not knowing it's a win for apc cos as it stands now Adeleke have vowed to work with Tinubu if he wins.

Apc pulled over 300k votes n same with accord, that's close to 700k votes in osun where ADC n NDC no show at all

Meaning if Adeleke work with Tinubu as promised, Tinubu is getting at least 500k votes in osun with NDC n ADC getting very little.

A big win for Tinubu but those blind ignoramus see it as disgrace

akpumping7720:
That's a difference of 42,000. Anything can still happen.

Adeleke have won, now Tinubu should work on how to draw Adeleke closer cos that's over 700k votes in total from osun

ADC no dey n NDC is non existent

MEGAWATCH:
May God disgrace APC for trying to win elections in the midst of this suffering in Nigeria.

Is that not wickedness?

u will cry tire

If Adeleke wins he's working for Tinubu in 2027, same with ambo

Did u see NDC or ADC show face?

We yorubas are looking at 2027, u myopic haters are seeing apc disgrace.

Go n check d votes apc pulled n u will know those people will still vote apc for presidency, imagine Adeleke working with Tinubu again that means 80% of accord vote today will still go Tinubu way.

We are seeing Tinubu victory, u haters are seeing disgrace

Dey play.

U can see that ADC that showed face they were thoroughly disgraced n aregbesola career buried, tell me how your agulu packaged fraud want to get vote here?

U ignoramus will learn politics the hardway

spiSeyi:
Buy disrupting activities in Ede and other Adeleke's strong hold . Tell us more about a free and fair election were state actors like the police are used to disrupt opposition parties stronghold while APC stronghold remain peaceful

y are u people crying more than the bereaved?

What's your business with osun election?

Do u see us putting mouth in elections in your region?

Y is it hard for u lots to mind your business?

Iran2025:
So far INEC has uploaded 82% of the election results which ACCORD PARTY IS LEADING. APC will definitely cry blood.

the same mistake u people made in 2023, go n understand the meaning of stronghold

ify2016:
According to Punch, a check on the Nigeria Elections Intelligence System showed that with results in from 303 of the state’s 332 wards, Adeleke had amassed 177,572 votes, representing 50.5 per cent of the total.

His closest rival, the All Progressives Congress (APC) candidate, Bola Oyebamiji, trailed with 158,588 votes, or 45.1 per cent, putting the incumbent firmly ahead as collation neared its final stretch.

punch posted a fake news n they have deleted it from their page on twitter

Basic123:
Its very obvious.

Till today seun has not censores calling the president Drug baron

but if u mention the name of their online country na straight ban

Ignore all the fake news, so far so good 18 local government results have been released out of 30 n majority of Adeleke stronghold have been released with Adeleke leading with like 45k votes.


Will apc be able to overturn the 45k votes with the 12 local government left?

Only God can answer that

omoredia:
This APC is most likely a foreign sponsored terrorist organisation parading as a political party

only to people from the online country.

keemsleek:
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I just realised all those supporting Accord are not Accord members but NDC/ Obidients.

It shows Tinubu will never loose SW. Ndc is not on ballot box and ADC is lost, no where to be found.

don't mind them

Tell me how someone who voted either apc or accord vote for NDC?

It's the obidient that are even shouting accord online cos to them it's anything against Tinubu not knowing that even if Adeleke wins he will still support Tinubu in 2027

keemsleek:
You guys have refused to push Apc and Adc results, only Accord news. Very partial mods

just leave them

On Twitter it is accord that is leading but on inec rev it is APC.

Many of them are even cherry picking only Adeleke stronghold n saying Adeleke have won

They are not even bothered about APC strongholds n the results they have there

Seun is anti apc n he will pay for it maybe now or later