₦airaland Forum

Fulaman198:
No other man have I come across (except for the ones who aren't really into their culture) black, white, asian, etc. has ever said they wouldn't choose their own group of women above other women. You never even implied that you would choose your Ghanaian Twi women over White women, which tells me you have a distinct lack of respect for your respective culture and upbringing.

You would never hear me say I like Fulani women and White women or Asian women the same. Walahi Wodaaaa! completely taboo. What kind of Fulani man would I be with a complete disregard for my culture. I can see why that Somali troll has no respect for some people who claim to be West African. Because it seems to be the region that sells out the most.

Forgive him Fulaman he is still young and I guess maybe more Westernised/American. I was disappointed when I heard him say what he did. I was born and bred in the states but I am still very much in touch with my African roots and I hold Ghanaian women as number 1, then other African women and lastly any other black women and yes I have dated non-ghanaian women. If I meet two women who have both qualities I want and the one is Ghanaian, I will take the Ghanaian in a heart beat. It's not being racist or narrow minded. I was raised by a wonderful Ghanaian woman with amazing Ghanaian sisters and friends. How could I not want a fellow strong Ghanaian woman as my first choice. Yes it could happen that one can fall in love outside ones nationality and marry but it's not something that I will specifically seek out. If it happens it happens. I am not against intercultural or even interacial dating. It's just for me personally my first choice is my own nd if that does not work then others.
Secondly it also depends on where you live. I guess I am lucky enough to be in a state where I can find my fellow Ghanaian women.

Anybody can date and marry who they want too. It's their own choice. If for some reason I happen not to marry a Ghanaian will not be because I value other women above her but because I just happen to fall in love with her and things worked out.

chokl8candie:
since when did it become mandatory to wake up and comment on every nairaland topic? ....if u dont have my answers or dont hv anything nice to say I'll advice u ignore my post. thnx

Don't mind these people. As you can see you have not even received an answer to your question. Maybe you guys should just leave out the Nigerian part of the play.