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Seyin:
ORUKA by Sonny Nneji is my preference and without a doubt getting played on my wedding day!

Haaa so sweet!!!

Lloyd ft Lil Wayne - You

Oruka - Sonny Nneji
My car - Tony Tetuila
Olufunmi - Styl Plus

@Poster - Do agree you with to a point.
Regarding the record companies and contract terms again i 2nd you on this. Every body setting up their own labels surely isn't good for the industry, but nontheless no artist in their right mind would stay with any company that isn't honest and favourable. But hell it is Nigeria what else do you expect

neelsel:
FACT!!!
Then again you have to keep in mind that we are all different, thus what may not bother me may very well ignite a fire in someone else. But the truth is, there are thousands of other females who hold and share my point of view on the whole gift-exchange issue.

And you wonder why guys are confused

The question now is as with this thread and poster would you let your man know what he is not doing to please or just bury it?

One thing that is obvious about this contest is that it's a popularity contest and not based on contestant's individual attributes (unless the rest of your voters are as weary as me) 

neelsel:
The colour thingy and the "doing something special" scenario are all aspects of creativity. And creativity and spontaneous activities, are key ingredients to fuel long lasting relationships,

Once again, it's the thought that counts!!

Everything up to that point was cool - Yes spontaneity n creativity are very much needed in a relationship - but do you expect to get rewarded for them as well?

Thought that counts? Not always, sometimes phrases like you shouldn't have bothered do come up!

I'm retaining it for the highest bidder

neelsel:
As I said, it is an individual and more so personal thing. If I am dating someone and he is not financially able to shower me with gifts from Tiffany's or Bloomingdales, so what? Let him to to JC Penny and re-gift if it so pleases him ( Fellas take note )

There isn't a time limit on how soon he should begin his kind gesture. Truth be told am not the typical "gift expector". I love being surprized. So hey! skip my birthday, but surprize me for wearing your favourite colour on a particular day, or maybe last night I did something I had never done before ( Holy Jesus deliver me ) . You got the picture, right?

I hate monotony, it kills everything,

I can relate only because i'm that same type of guy. There are thse that do not necessarily dwell into these area as it's nt in their nature.
Re-package the gift - some girlz will set out to find out how much was spent, from where and if real mccoy right.
So if yo guy misses your b'day - you wouldn't feel a way (although not mention anything to him)?
Wearing his favourite colour - that is a new one on me!
Doing something specail  - i can understand this also as long as it doesn't b'come a must and expected everytime.

Okay - You are one of the judges after all!!!!

neelsel:
Now this statement is as inaccurate as it can be.  Now I stated that I do expect to be given tangible things, however, I never debated on the issue of financial value.

I was raised to appreciate the simpliest things in life.  If it may you to know, my ex gave me frame with a picture his mom took of him at 6 weeks old, in his birthday suit, which I treasured for years( then I threw it out along with him, but that in itself is another story )  So you see, it's not the cost of the gift but rather the thought that should really counts,

Okay i can appreciate and respect that - Which is excatly what i'm trying to establish.
How long would such a gesture and sentiment suffice for - without the trips and even dinner?
Then the next complaint will be he doesn't spend his money on me and whatever else to slander the poor soul - say what you mean and do what you say WOMEN!

neelsel:
"All things else" can be material as well you know .

The truth is no matter how much a woman says she doesn't want anything from their spouse( is a lie).  Just like children look forward to being rewarded for acceptable behaviour, adults as well welcome the idea of being pampered every once in a while, C'mon, be truthful

It doesn't have to be thought, it can be spiritual, sexual and emotional.

So girlz are materialistic!!!
Fact is it's not only good enough to buy something but it has to be of value (finance), latest and bigger the better!
If he carved a wood and wrote something poetic on it is that acceptable and sustainble?  

adia:
yer watever! How will you date a girl without getting her anything? does it make sense?

Nah by force, i could take her out, on trips and travels do i have to present her with physical n material gifts as well?

neelsel:
@topic
while material things should never be the focal point in any relationship, NO ONE wants to be with someone who doesn't reward them with tangible things. I know I won't stick around with a guy for such a long time without even a plaque to show.

Despite him making you feel like a Queen and providing all things else you desire?

Ndipe:
Why do girls, in some cases, expect their boyfriends to give them gifts? @Uchetobi, attaching sentiments to gifts is a display of pettiness.

Don't 4get materialism

LOL - The one that looks too good to be true  That's a magazine cut out - You should include more pixes in natural posses unlike that one.

Tell her she's no fun, AGAIN!

Omo Eko:
Trust me sweetie my list is 110% true and my friends on Nairaland can testify to that.

And what i ask for isn't much abi you don't want me to be happy

LOL, that's heaven on earth! So what unless a guy possess all those qualities you wouldn't consider him or settle?

You're no fun!!!

Are these true pixs as i'm doubting some of these so called contestants i.e Nairaland users.

Omo Eko:
so can you point out who is lying

You for one seen your own list?

Teenie

Ask her is the guy is a dude?

Seek absolution and renounce my sins


WWYDI you had to murder 10 people in-order to save your own life?

Ask her if it involves a sex change?

How do you know who's in the lead and who should be in the lead?

Ask her what she means by MANLY - hopefully not what i'm thinking?

chidesth:
Hi [right]Genny. Never mind them
I want you to know that success is connected with continuous action. Visualize what you want. See it, feel it, believe in it. Your mind is your mental workshop. You can build anything you want in it. The beginning of your success is in your imagination. Make your mental blueprint and then begin construction. See things as you would have them be instead of as they are. Use your imagination to perceive your new reality even when it's not fully materialized. Remember, you must first clearly see a thing in your mind before you can do it or have it. Your imagination will show you how to turn possibility into reality. First think, and then organize your thoughts into plans. Then transform your thoughts into reality by taking some positive action. See the things you want as already yours. Think of them as yours, as belonging to you, as already.

Chidi

Sorry my guy but u've lost me - Wut is your point? What is it that she is visualizing that is yet to materialise? Could it be that she is not as focused on it as you are?

Nas - If i ruled the world

Tell her she's my kinda bitch

Sweet girl