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@ wacky1, thanks for your understanding, for not hitting since yesterday I don't think I would ever do that again.
@Jr101, I don't know if this is called love anymore.
Am trying to c if within her she would realize she has been caught and probably change.
She asked me if she has ever avoided my calls or formed busy when I called her and what man would she be with and still take my calls anytime I called yet d man won't get angry.
She repeatedly told me it's someone she has been avoiding even before she met me.
Am considering asking her to either tell d guy off, tell him about me in my presence or we part ways...I have done d same thing for her and in my case d girl requested to speak with her and I gave her phone , she told d girl her names, d girl looked her up on Facebook and later called to tell me she's happy am not leaving her for someone better.
This other girl s story is a long one entirely.
Should I go ahead with what am thinking?

As I write this now her phonei is in vibration and she has not been taking d multiple calls that come in.
I wanted to prove a friend wrong that told me she is too good to be true.

byvan: You feel like hitting a woman you never paid a dime on?enroll into anger management classes ASAP.hit her, hopefully you ll pay heavily for your restless hands.

Pls make me understand u....are u justifying her actions because I 've not paid a dime on her? How about d few things I 've done for her in dis short time? Fyi I was supposed to give her.d balance of her school fees.

chronique: My advice: don't hit her. Act like you're not bothered and enjoy the goody bag as much as you want. When you're done with her,kick the biatch out and say bye-bye. Simple.

To b honest with you am not even interested in her "goody bag"

@ all, thanks for your contributions, I 've learnt a lot from you guys.

@ all,
I picked her up right in my car calls came in which she ignored, when we got home she took d call and lied about where she is to d first person, minutes later another call probably from a friend of d first caller insisting he and d friend are coming to meet her at where she said she was, their conversation was so audible cos it's a smallNokia phone.
I didn't say anything till dis morning, in her presence I took her phone and went thru it (I know what you would say but i 've never done dis before now, I 've alwaysbeen against it) and saw SMSs professing love, that was when I had to ask here.
Honestly speaking I know no one is to be trusted but this is my downside....I trust easily.
After more than 3hrs she is now telling me it was her friendthat used her phone to send those sms s that if it were her she would 've deleted them even when her name was mentioned in one of d sms, about d phone calls she now said it's someone she has been avoiding.
Truth is I don't believe her , between beating her up and asking her to leave tomorrow without paying her air fare back and beating her up and still not giving her anything I promised her, still contemplating which would serve her better.

Hello house,
I 've always visited nairaland as a means of keeping informed on current news in particular.
Pls I need advice on d best way to treat a girl that u discovered is cheating on you. As I type dis she is in my kitchen cooking, am allowing her continue with d cooking because I have a visitor over and he is meeting her for d first time. I won't want my visitor know am having issues with her cos of all d good things I 've told him about her.
I 've very few friends and d friend I would 've discussed dis matter wit would "yarb" me that he warned me about being too fast wit dis girl, my reasons for acting that way was because of d spontaneous way things were going between us over d little time we 've spent together.
I started a long distance with her in March dis year and dis is her 3rd visit and ever since I went to pick her last night she has been acting strangely, when I confronted her about how I got to know she s cheating on me she could not say a word. My annoyance is d fact that I 've introduced to my elder sister who is likea a mother to me.
Am kinda confused cos dis is d first time dis is happening to me, I felt like hitting but I 've never raised my hand on a woman....still considering dis though if dat would drive some senseinto her head and make her just deny or accept and probably explain her self...confused