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FamilyRe: by BentiBenti(op): 6:04pm On Oct 09, 2017
abescom:
Listen man, if my wife had her way, she will send you more than x5 of the amount you asked for but I can't take the risk. We felt if someone could be so desperate for a mattress ( when we have 3 rooms with each having it own mattress and can only sleep on one, not trying to be arrogant but return the glory to the GOOD LORD) such a person should be helped to be dependent but you have shown yourself.

I am of the believe that we are custodians of everything we are given by the GOOD LORD and everything we are given should be spread to others but your behaviour to me and the other commenters/commentors on this thread is SHOCKING.

It is appalling, honestly. The 19k I sent you is not even close to being the problem but your pathetic behaviour.

What were you expecting? That people should not question your claim? I guess you don't expect to be interviewed when you apply for a job because it is YOU and no one should interview you.

I am disgusted.
I'm very sorry sir, I felt so bad seeing people calling me a scammer. Not like they questioned my claims like you wrote up there, but they abused and insulted me by calling me a scammer. A reasonable person would've just simply remind me of the promise I made earlier rather than jumping to start accusing me of robbing you in disguise. Go back to the comments that followed my own after I thanked you and you'll see where my anger rose from. I didn't have anything to hide from you, just that I was very busy trying to tidy up my things and my work was not even helping matters. That was why I delayed, not like I forgot. The truth is, I was just angry and I'm sorry I couldn't control my anger. That is the worst thing I hate in my life, for someone to accuse me of what I've not done.. Even my mum knows the kind of anger I normally exhibit. But apart from that, I'm a very respectful & a jovial person you'll ever come across in your life. Accept my apology sir, you've done so much for you to dislike me. I know I don't deserve anything from you, but just forgive me on this one. So many things on my mind now.. It's not easy to be an orphan and I'm fighting in every possible means to succeed in life. I apologize once again to each an everyone here I had problems with, forgive and forget.. And also be always reasonable enough before you jump to conclude on matters you know notin of

I'm sorry
FamilyRe: by BentiBenti(op): 4:17pm On Oct 09, 2017
MissIndependent:
Stop Contradicting yourself. In your previous post, you said you already took some shots and wanted to upload pics before you changed your mind.

Question 1. Did you delete the previous shots you took waiting to take another?

Question 2. You never said you were going to buy a second hand mattress is it because the issue of receipt came up that you produced a used mattress?

Not my business anyway. I`m outta here tongue tongue tongue tongue
so what is bad in buying a second hand? Or u think I can't get a fake receipt for you guys? I'm above all that pls. If u can't bliv me, then forget.. Don't want anybody here to vex me any longer.. Na poverty cause all dz nonsense sha
FamilyRe: by BentiBenti(op):
kylie01:
I'm so disappointed in you OP. When you were begging for help, you never spoke in this manner, as soon as you got what you were looking for, you started insulting every tom dick and harry. It's quite a shame and disheartening seeing this useless attitude on display.

If actually you are fake, karma will surely visit you and if you are not, you need to apologise to the person that helped you.
thanks for the advice.. Just that I hate when people criticize me for the wrong reason(s). From the inbox that my helper leaked, you saw when I told him that I'll go to my new apartment today and take some shots. He even said that he gave me just 24hrs to do that which half of it has not even gone. But jst when I came online, he already leaked our chat and started threatening me as if I stole his money. Well, to be sincere with you guys, I bought the foam, but from a friend for the sum of N24,500 and I'm still waiting for him to find the receipt and send to me. I made a better choice to buy from him instead of the new one for 19k because his own is very big. I later went to my apartment today to set things up and below is the picture of my new room. You can compare it with the first picture I posted here. This is to show my sincerity. I hereby apologized to everybody here that I offended and I beg my helper not to look into my bad side and forgive me. He promised to send me some money this week. If it still pleases him to send, I'll still be thankful.
So here's the pic

Cc: Abescom
FamilyRe: by BentiBenti(op): 12:52pm On Oct 09, 2017
abescom:
You sent me a mail at 6:51am saying " where is the picture? Mind you, I can just with a simple affidavit done by my friend have your bank accounts blocked.

I out of goodwill helped but your behaviour so far shows I misjudged. Losing my patience now.
are you threatening me or what? I told you I'm packing in tomorrow and whenever am chanced today that I'll go over to the place, take some shots and send it to you. Has 24hrs passed already? Or did I in anyway forced you to send me the money that you want to get my account blocked? Smh
FamilyRe: by BentiBenti(op): 6:45am On Oct 09, 2017
abescom:
this is rubbish to be honest. The onus lies on you to proof you are not a scam. Your excuses don't hold water.

I expect to see the receipt within 24 hours or will go the extra mile.
alright boss, I'm sending it to your email today.
FamilyRe: by BentiBenti(op): 11:32pm On Oct 08, 2017
Godchild2015:
Haba @ op you just disappointed the man God use to bless you. Common the least you would have done is to ignore his comment. And by doing that does not make you a fool. Trust me is not every words will must reply.
To be honest with you, the moment you said you have gotten the mattress the next I was expecting is for you to upload pic , because that was the promise you made at the early stage . But even if certain circumstance beyond your control prevented you from uploading, that does not mean you should go this far.

Do have a wonderful and glorious new week.
I'm sorry ma'am, just that some senseless people are filled with hatred here. I was about uploading the pictures until I came online and saw some foolish comments here and I changed my mind. It was my decision to upload the pix and it's also my decision not to upload it any longer. How should this be someone's headache? No be like na she dash me d moni o

Smh
FamilyRe: by BentiBenti(op): 7:15pm On Oct 08, 2017
Pidgin2:
U see your life? It's people like that person you deceived I blame for this not you.
you must be a fool. Ma come snap receipt and mattress shw u say na u give me money. When I dey beg 4 here 4 person to dash me mattress u bin dey slp. Enemy of progress like u.. Dz is why we will never be on d same level with the whites. U can't 4 once be happy abt other people's success. Person dash me mattress, instead of u 2 thank him n encourage hz movement.. U dey come here come display ur hate n jealousness calling me a scammer as if u sabi me. The person that even sent d moni is not even concern abt d pix because he knws he has done hz part.. How d pix go help u? How does it make me a scammer? That I begged 4 a mattress n someone offered to give me money instead now makes me a scammer. Quote me again n rot in hell.. Idiot of a monkey u are. Naso dat one dey enter every thread dey beg person to dash am car wey dem no dey too too use again.. But came here n criticize me 4 begging 4 a common mattress.. Hypocrites everywhere. God punish u if u've neva seek for someone's help in ur life b4. Iwang!!
FamilyRe: by BentiBenti(op): 5:56pm On Oct 08, 2017
Pidgin2:
Show us a picture of the mattress and the receipt you used in purchasing it don't come here after 3 days to post it. Do it now or we will believe that you have scammed him
na ur papa follow me scam! Idiot

"Madam if you want the mattress, come and collect it"
FamilyRe: by BentiBenti(op): 6:21pm On Oct 07, 2017
abescom:
The moderators should just close this thread to stop the replies.

I sent op the 19 and he has confirmed it. No need for the animosity.
I don't know how I should start because I'm short of words to express. By this same time last week, I was heavily heart broken and frustrated.. I never believed for once that I could get the help I seek for even when this Godsent man "Abescom" told me he was going to help. I overlooked it because I was 100% sure he won't send the money. But just today, I received an alert from my bank and 19k was credited. The kind joy wey full my heart eh! I didn't know when I jumped in a viewing center and broke the plastic chair lol.. Naso I rush comot go straight to where dem dey sell mattress. Bought a new one and went straight to my new apartment to tidy up and keep it there.
Sir I'm so grateful for helping me out of this mess.. For not putting a smile on my enemy's face.. Thank you. May the good lord bless, give you the happiness you deserve and make you prosper more in life, Amen.
FamilyRe: by BentiBenti(op): 10:56am On Oct 05, 2017
enoqueen:
The same person with different monikers.

Weldone.

U need the money to get the mattress urgently and yet u cannot sweep the room.

Contunu......
by the way, before u misquote me, I never asked for money to buy any mattress, God is my witness. I don't know the motive behind all this tantrum you're displaying.. I only asked for a used mattress and I specifically mentioned "To be from a person that stays in uyo".. It was a shock when that Godsent man came to say he will give me money instead. So before you say anything unmeaningful to spoil my name here, have in mind that I never begged for money. Thanks
Since you cannot be happy for a brother!
FamilyRe: by BentiBenti(op): 10:44am On Oct 05, 2017
enoqueen:
The same person with different monikers.

Weldone.

U need the money to get the mattress urgently and yet u cannot sweep the room.

Contunu......
Good morning sis, I went through your post and I'm still confused about what you meant by different monikers. And about my room not being swept, I actually did completed painting the room the day Heddies came to take the pictures. I never knew he even took those pictures cos I went out to get something. I see you're from uyo, at least it will be easy for us to see so that you can also verify my post instead of trying to condemn me here. Peace! By the way, I stumble on your post looking for who to dash you a used car. You're not different from me but I don't know why you're hating from another person's success. If you want to see my house, I'm always ready to take you there thanks.
FamilyRe: by BentiBenti(op): 5:48pm On Oct 04, 2017
Biliamin:
God bless you and reward you handsomely
Amen!
FamilyRe: by BentiBenti(op): 5:48pm On Oct 04, 2017
abescom:
Sent you mail. You will be sent the money. If it is a scam na you know. Just want to help.

Have a good day.
thanks alot sir, I just replied your mail. Will let Nairaland know with pictures of the money and the new mattress once I get the alert. God bless your hands.
FamilyRe: by BentiBenti(op): 8:54am On Oct 04, 2017
Foxyn:
I like how God has touch your heart to help the Op. For the fact that this thread has upto 200+ views with no negative comment should prove to you that there's no danger in helping the Op. So it's up to you bro. There's no need waiting for the NHN as there's nothing negative to say about this case. But if there's something to say, then they executives should let us know rather than ignoring the thread. Thanks. My opinion though
hmm, I'm not after d money but jst d mattress tnx
FamilyRe: by BentiBenti(op):
abescom:
Nairaland helpers network ( is this what it is called) can you all verify this please. Will gladly send op the 19k if someone who is established on here verifies this.
Good morning sir. I'm really happy that you're going through all these to help. You're like a Godsent and I'll forever be thankful whenever I turn to look at the mattress I'm sleeping on. But the problem now is, I really need to pack in as my days are already numbered. I've already paid the house rent and it's jst left for me to pack in. In my post, I never ask for MONEY, I only ask for a mattress old or new because of it's urgency. But since you took it upon yourself to help me with money, I don't think it needs the whole world to verify my situation before you give out. One of the nairalanders came to my place yesterday and confirmed my case. I jst need d mattress urgently I beg you sir. If u can snd d money today, I'll get d mattress 2day, snap n upload it here. Or if u wish 2 snd d mattress, i'll still be grateful.. Pls consider dz and help. God bless u.
I'm still ready to take another nairalander for verification again incase anyone is available
FamilyRe: by BentiBenti(op): 8:42am On Oct 04, 2017
Wow! I'm sorry I've been away from this thread since yesterday. Had a low battery. Bro Heddiebanks, it was a big privilege meeting you yesterday. You really helped and I appreciate that.
FamilyRe: by BentiBenti(op):
abescom:
Can someone verify this please? Would gladly give op the money if the claim is genuine.
God bless you sir, I'm willing to take the verifier to my place if he/she is available. Thanks
FamilyRe: by BentiBenti(op):
To show how serious and real I am, I had to go down to my new apartment to take a shot of the room I'm about to live in. I just need a mattress pls. Help me
FamilyRe: by BentiBenti(op): 2:58pm On Oct 02, 2017
Still in..
FamilyRe: by BentiBenti(op): 12:01pm On Oct 02, 2017
28views no comment.. Plz help!
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