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Romance › Re: When Is It Okay To Have Sexual Relationship With A Widower? by bidemib(f): 7:53pm On Oct 28, 2018
Hmm
Romance › Re: When Is It Okay To Have Sexual Relationship With A Widower? by bidemib(f): 3:57pm On Oct 28, 2018
But will he ever love you the way he loved his wife? Will you ever measure up? Will you be able to live with all these things at the back of your mind?
Politics › Re: Nigeria Labour Congress Strike Not Effective In Lagos by bidemib(f): 7:10am On Sep 27, 2018
Strike with mouth, everyone is still going about their normal activities....
I didn't even hear about the strike till this morning
Most people don't know
Politics › Re: Minimum Wage: NLC Begins Nationwide Strike Today by bidemib(f): 6:54am On Sep 27, 2018
Geeez, donno why, but I'm so happy about the strike, need the break....I want to sleeep... goodluck Nigeria
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it should last a while
#truthful
Phones › Re: Unlock Your Fones Free Of Charge by bidemib(f): 1:01pm On Jan 25, 2018
Pls, can I get an unlock code for Samsung a5 IMEI 352602/09/470863/0 S/N R58J870E6ZP
Properties › Re: Mini Flat@onike N Akoka:350k N 300k Per Annum by bidemib(f): 11:18am On Feb 19, 2017
Pls, I'm interested. How do I get to see the place as soon as possible?
Properties › Cheap And Affordable Room In Yaba by bidemib(op): 12:22pm On Feb 16, 2017
Hello
I am about to rent a 3 bedroom apartment with a colleague of mine and we are looking for someone else that's interested.
it's a 3 bd, for 600. To pay 250 each, and I would pay 300 (master bedroom). That price because we are paying for agreement, caution and agent fee. I heard the place is a good deal and might be taken soon.
For matured working class ladies.
Properties › Re: In Search Of Private Working Class Hostels In Yaba by bidemib(op): 9:02am On Feb 08, 2017
ademeedee:
Hi I went to see the place now and it's around Yaba. I am looking to share with a mature person hopefully. You can send an email to me at midebad@Yahoo.com so I can give you more details.
I'm interested, what kind of place is it? A hostel or just an apartment?
Properties › Re: In Search Of Private Working Class Hostels In Yaba by bidemib(op): 8:59am On Feb 08, 2017
ademeedee:
Hi I am looking to get a private hostel somewhere in Yaba. I should be going to look at it today hopefully. If you haven't found any and you are interested I could give you details about it.
Sorry, embarassed I'm just seeing this now
Properties › In Search Of Private Working Class Hostels In Yaba by bidemib(op): 10:35pm On Feb 03, 2017
Does anyone have an idea about the private hostels in Yaba, for postgraduate and working class people? Serviced hostels? Rent per year? Location? Security? Perks? Etc. Thanks
Romance › Re: The Romance Diary For Today....lets Hear It by bidemib(f): 5:52pm On Apr 21, 2016
Oh well, didn't meet anyone like that today sad sad sad
Romance › Relationship Advice Needed by bidemib(op): 5:07pm On Apr 21, 2016
I'm a 22yrs old girl, done with school, done with Nysc, done with masters, working and I have a side business. I'm in a 6months relationship with a guy (duh), I would have called him the best guy ever, but he's surely the best boyfriend I've had. He's 34, he's Ibo, I'm Yoruba. He has a small business, He treats me well, buys me things, doesn't mind the fact that I'm plus-sized, is a Christian, always going to church and all. He's practically what every girl would want. He wants to marry me, I've met his sister, who loves me, he wants me to meet his mum, but I said I'm not ready, I'm 22, am I ready for marriage? My elder siblings got married really late, that they had started fasting and praying for husband, I really dont want that to happen to me, besides, I'm done with school and working, what else is left for me to do.... The thing is..... sometime ago, I found out he has a white lover. Well, she's in her 60s and I'm sure we know what that means, #scam! Found out when I checked his phone, they had exchanged nude pics and love messages. He denied at first but ended up confessing after weeks..... I come from a wealthy family and I can't help but to think that this is just another scam. I started thinking- this guy doesn't really make any effort with his business. It's a small business and I don't see it moving forward or bringing in any large amount of money(not a curse, he's just not serious), I even advice him on steps to take, business ideas, he just never seems interested. But he spends, spends on me too, and I've asked so many times how he's getting the money, says he has some money saved up. I am beginning to see him as a lay about. Don't get me wrong, I don't have a problem with dating someone who isn't really financially buoyant but, he's not doing anything about it. Monday morning, 10am, he's still on his bed while I'm at work. I'm like WTFhuh Through out the course of our relationship, we have never fought. Now, I feel I'm his ticket out of being broke (no offense but it just seems that way...but, I may be wrong). Recently, I have tried so hard to bring up arguments or fights, but we never do. This just increases the level of suspicion......... another thing is for about 2 months, he hasn't been able to rise up to the occasion during sex, and he doesn't want to talk about it, even tho I see him drinking some native stuff, but it doesn't seem to be working. It's just frustrating. Another thing is that, he always wants me to make the decisions, like I should be the guy in the relationship... I really don't want that, I'm like decide what you want yourself. Recently, I can't just stand him, I don't wanna talk to him, don't wanna chat, I don't even wanna see him. I've been a very neglecting and annoying girlfriend,hoping he would breakup, but no, he's still loving, doesn't want to let go or breakup. I don't know what to do anymore, I don't know how to breakup with him, and sometimes I feel that what if I breakup with him and no guy loves me the way he does? What if I end up being old and single? I know most of u would say I should focus on my life, but I have a fear of being single and lonely. So, my story might be scattered but I hope you understand it. Please no insults, I just want advice. Am I overreacting?

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