PoundedYam:
Tho i don't have any idea but be careful

Thanks. I'll be.

MRBrownJ:


come on bro, you actually believe that life is gonna be the same if/when you realise that she wasnt cheating?! that would only be the beginning as the suspicion will NEVER go away.... whenever she will be out, or a bit late, you will suspect her, every time she would be on the phone with a stranger, you will suspect her. whether you catch her or not is irrelevant, the damage has been done.

btw what makes you even think she is cheating?! have you tried COMMUNICATE with her about your trust issues?

No, it won't be like that with me...I'm in full control of my mind...I can easily switch my mind back to what it used to be once I have confirmed my suspicions to be negative.

What makes you think COMMUNICATION will make her tell you the truth if truly she is cheating? Every woman will deny it even to the point of death.

PoundedYam:
Is yours cheating on you

strong suspicion but not clear enough to nail her

hello @ all...kindly share your opinion about catching a cheating wife. Thanks.

MRBrownJ:
even if she hasnt cheated, the fact that you are suspicious is enough to conclude that there will never be peace again in your union (the worm is in the apple).... so why dont you just divorce that woman that you dont TRUST, and be merry?

also, i hope that you want proof f cheating in order to DIVORCE her, because what would be the point of doing all this nonsense to "possibly" catch her, and then at the end forgive and stay with her cheating behind?

The fact that there are issues with trust which was once very solid is enough to try and find out the reason for my fears and I couldn't just divorce her without being very certain of my suspicions.


...and of course, she'll have to leave if i found out my suspicions are confirmed to be the truth. The point is being very sure I'm not making any mistake.

hello @ all, kindly share your opinion on strategies one could employ to catch a cheating wife.

Pls mature contributions.