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Kholiwe:
Why are expecting the woman to cook in a relationship and not the man? Let's start from there.

Because the man is busy being the bread winner

Why are you expecting the man to fend for the family?

raumdeuter:
Women and men are equal but different

For equality let female boxers get merged with men in the same ring

Let Mane punch Sam Kerr and the world will turn up-side-down

Kholiwe:
Did you miss my post were I said we are eliminating stigmatized gender roles.

so expecting a woman to know to cook it's stigmatisation

When you begin your journey in "eliminating stigmatsed gender role"...

...you should start from pregnancy...why should a woman get pregnant

Then anything a man can do a woman can do better...

Why we have pussies, we can have dicks and fvck better than men

Kholiwe:
I really don't understand the point you are making. What is "above men" and "rule a kingdom "?

I said it's essential for a woman to know how to do domestic chores and most importantly cook as a housewife

You guys said it's misogyny because we are "limiting women" that they're life is not in the kitchen

Then you said you don't have a problem with a stay at home dad...why?

Where did equality go?

Going by your analogy, aren't you limiting men?

I thought you're pushing for equality

Kholiwe:
so why do you have a problem with a stay at home husband?

Because of equality...

You're pushing equality but really you want to be above men, rule a kingdom you didn't know how it was built... that's selfishness not "wokeness"

Magnoliaa:
You people call yourselves names in this thread over politics.


Infact, there is no lengths y'all have not gone to in childish draggings and doxxing, but Glorious Gbola wants us to believe that the men on this thread are great and respectable family men who can never be wrong because yada yada yada.



If there are some of you supporting a geriatric Tinubu here, why should I take as a truth your judgments of women's matters and cultures, lmao?

Obi's wife knows how to cook 🌚

Kholiwe:
Do you have problem with a stay at home wife?

No

Kholiwe:
so you don't know they are stay at home husbands?

is it good?

Will you like to be the head and bread winner of the family while your husband watches plate and cook

Kholiwe:
There's nothing a man can do that a woman can't do. Gender role is a farce. They are also men who left Ukraine and they are also women who didn't leave. They are women in the Ukraine and Russian army. They are women that will beat up a man like nothing. They are women that pay their fees themselves. They are male nurses. I repeat gender role is a farce.

Are they women that'll take care of a man and his kids... the man will be the househusband

Kilishihunter:
Seems we are back to the Luis Enrique era where lesser emphasis was placed on youth, At least he has learned to trust em now
Pedrola and Alarcon are just being called up for first team training, nothing else, Alba on that LW means on thing only, Crosses both high and low since he can't use his weaker right foot to cut inside and shoot, Make we sha win, Na my own be that

me sef i nor understand o...how bad can it be that Alba will be playing wing

FirstbornWds:
It'll be very medicinal!! More so, with Jorginho scoring a goal.

broooo icing on the cake

Una wey dey wait for Arsenal downfall...

Arsenal nor get joy o

A thorough thrashing against chelsea at the Emirates will be the sweetest way to win the league

Kholiwe:
One moment you are saying women don't belong to the kitchen then another you are saying making meals is a thing of pride for women. Cooking food is a pride for women lmao. The African man at his core is sexist by nature so am not surprised.

liveLongNprospa see wetin you don cause

Alba is playing LW

Amigoss:
Fvcking 2023,we still dey drag who go cook

Let's discuss our Football and politics in peace vawulence abeg

let's discuss the Uk thief

liveLongNprospa:
Lmao I can't.. You'll learn the one you want to as you grow older 🤲

ok give me an example...you can use someone's life as a case study

Magnoliaa:
Exactly.

During the course of the relationship, you expect her to SACRIFICE everything on the altar of being an housewife, because it is the greatest honor of being a woman, while you're free to go make money and to develop yourself and your career, but if she files for divorce because of emotional neglect or you file for divorce for reasons best known to you, all of that woman's "contributions" is suddenly washed down the drain.


It suddenly becomes, "what did she contribute to his success? What has she ever brought to his table? She deserves nothing if the marriage ends."

You just want 'untaxed' and unpaid access to labour, kick her out and bring another woman in who MUST also know how to cook. Rinse and repeat.

A housewife who can't cook...does that even make sense

Please explain to me the meaning of emotional neglect

Did you miss the part where the man caters for the family including the wife and kids...is that not sacrifice

If you want to be a career woman that's fine...your husband should know your value and respect your decision

liveLongNprospa:
This angle.. Even though we've had single men who have been successful sha.. But go on😁

You still haven't answered my question o

Kholiwe:
Shedding this Barbaric mentality of yours is going to be hard work. I would have loved to try, but the problem is sexism and misogyny is rooted at the core of almost all African men.

women are meant to be pampered

"Wokeness" and "equality" is what is leading to misogyny

Magnoliaa:
This is what you people say until divorce sups and we'll start hearing "WHAT THE FUK DID SHE CONTRIBUTE TO THE MARRIAGE? Women are gold-diggers. Get themmmmm. Hide your money, keengs. Nor let them outsmart you. A woman is not your family member and she'll never love you as much as your mom." 😅😅😅😅

the moment she contemplates divorce, she's NOT my wife...she becomes a stranger...an EX-wife

Of course that's what people will think when she starts fantasizing about the proceeds from divorce, like divorce is a business

Segedinho:
Funny enough..love isnt the most important thing in a marriage but respect .


There is a reason man owns the house and the wife owns the home....

A man is tasked with the responsibility of providing the home needs why the woman manages everything the right way.....

Cooking is actually one of the most important techniques in managing the home's resources and this responsibility falls in the hand of a woman,The man is supposed to render "help".

If a woman provides for the home..it is termed "help" or supporting the man n not just her mandatory role.


It is irresponsible on the part of the woman if she can't cook or performs home duty.

Exactly bros

Just the way the man won't gain respect for staying at home all day without working so will the woman who can't cook

She'll lose respect and once that happens, someone who can cook will take over... I've seen this happen so many times

You can't play down the importance of cooking

liveLongNprospa:
Love is what you define it to be personally.
Your definition of love and mine are different.
It's like sexual orientation. The things that get me going sexually will differ from yours.

That doesn't mean yours is any more correct than mine or does it?

No wahala

So if people say they can't marry a woman who can't cook, women shouldn't see it as a derogatory remark because cooking it's a very good thing to be proud of

I can boldly say that a lot of men will be very proud to have a wife that can cook very well

izzou:
[color=royalblue]A country of 133 million poor people, but we need to justify why cooking is not important and a man can pay chef to cook.

If na European dey type this thing, i go understand.

When i was working, ladies bring their food flasks to work. Both single and married. Even men wey don marry sef dey carry flask come work

But online, a man can pay a chef.

Ask how many married men here have chefs on this thread or on this forum.

Make una continue[/color]

In Nigeria and Africa at large marrying a woman who can't cook is recipe for disaster

That big yansh and breast that is shacking you will clear one day and you'll have a house where your wife will be scampering every morning to look for where to buy food for kids to take to school

liveLongNprospa:
Lmao for you my brother.
My respect as a man cannot be tied to just the money I bring in.

Then what...tell me so that I'll learn

liveLongNprospa:
Lmao if a man travels and the woman buys food for the kids, will they not survive?
Abi if a woman travels and a man is getting food from eateries for the kids will the kids die?

Abi something special dey Inside the meals?

Being responsible to your family means to provide for them.
The woman can pay a chef to cook and that sorts it out.
Some of these things na lack of money dey reduce ability to navigate simple issues sometimes

someone here is saying cooking in a relationship doesn't matter, all that matters is love

What is love?

"Abi something dey special inside the meals"

is there something special in opening door for someone?

Is there something special in hugging and kissing and fvcking... something you can get from an ashawo who will do it much better

Do you love the ashawo?

So what is love if cooking is not among

liveLongNprospa:
So basically you are saying the thing that gives a man respect in the home is only or let's say majorly his earning power. 😁

I nor disagree but kinda sad sha that as a man our perceived position is due to our earning power

it iz what it izz

The truth is that if the woman start going to work and earns just as much as the man, equality will set in and the opinions of the women carries the same weight as the man's.

It may lead to clash of egos... nobody is going to back down for anyone.

To me, I prefer the man working while the woman stay at home and do domestic chores and most importantly know how to cook

Cooking is a big deal

izzou:
[color=royalblue]Everything about this guy don turn to lamba.

I hear say Mummy Payment method sef na lamba [/color]

nawa o...lolz

afrodoc2:
Na so we see am.

Meanwhile let me kill that lamba about Hakimi’s wife. She was never the richest Spanish actress.

When Penelope Cruz, Elsa Pataky, Paz Vega and co never die.

she's a B-list actress at best...her last major role was in 2014

In 2019 Hakimi was already a champions league winner and with his potentials...we all know it'll go better from there on

So that talk of him not earning as much as now when they met is BS...she knows Hakimi has the potential to earn much more

swiz123:
Dude is fond of hating on people for something they have no control over. It's obvious that shorter Goalies concede long range shots and fail to claim corners, the question is, how will Kepa suddenly improve his height at the age of 28?

Kepa was benched for a long time, he was patient and worked hard. When long arm Mendy started drinking goals like kunu with high profile mistakes in high stake matches, Kepa reclaimed his place. Now, even the blind can see that Kepa has improved his reflexes to a significant extent.

He has pointed out Kepa, Jorginho and Felix as our fundamental weakness just because of their physique. These 3 will leave and our problem will still be here and the fools who support everything he says will wait for him to Identify another fundamental weakness in our team.

While Kepa might not be world class, I fail to see how he is the cause of our terrible form which is magnified by that bloody scammer Lampfraud who has come again to steal a living off us!.

I'm guessing he'll call Iniesta and Modric fraud

Iqtest:
You keeping giving excuses for xavi ineptness
Inter Milan lost key players before the UCL clash also.
Only dembele was out in first leg of UEL clash with united, yet we begged for draw at home.
Btw united were missing Anthony, Martinez and eriksen too

Naso we see am o

Leyqute:
They've lost all hope.