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Fakhrriyyah Hashim, a Nigerian lady, woke up to the shocking fake news of her ''demise.'' Some Nigerians on Facebook posted a photo of Hashim alongside a wedding invitation with claims she is a bride that died on Friday October 4th, hours to her wedding scheduled to hold on Saturday October 5th. Reacting to the viral fake news, Hashim wrote I haven't been on Facebook in a so long, but I've had to today thanks to Fake News. more on the news with pictures http://www.soundlala.com/news.php?id=1190 ps: bloggerssssssssss |
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1. It’s Nothing Like The Movies I grew up reading Nicholas Sparks and watching the movie adaptations and my God, did I swoon over every single one of those fictional men in all of their romantic, cliché good guy glory. And the one film that sticks in my mind, is of course, The Notebook– where Noah and Ally’s first time is in an abandoned house on the outskirts of town, lit up by the moonlight and candles, and they watch each other remove their clothes in this entirely beautiful and angsty silence- the house, I might add which he later re-builds for her in the hope she’ll come back to him (I mean, come on!). And then there’s the scene where they make-out in the pouring rain before a passionate dance-like sex scene. It’s very romantic and very beautiful, but it’s also very damaging for teenagers growing up watching those films and reading those books and really believing that sex or first love is like that. Where’s the awkwardness? The clumsiness? The guy fumbling around for a condom and not knowing where his penis even goes? Where’s the running to the bathroom after? Where’s the guy finishing in two minutes and the girl laying there feeling confused and disappointed? 2. No-One Actually Cares What Age You Lose Your Virginity When I was 16 (the legal age you can have sex in the UK), I remember the intense amount of pressure to lose my virginity/to be having sex. It felt like everyone was doing it and talking about it. If you weren’t doing it, you were “frigid” and yes, a lot of immature boys thought it was funny to call me that because I was more interested in getting good grades than getting laid. But during puberty, when everyone- especially boys- have sex on the brain, when it’s what you talk about at sleepovers with your girlfriends (I mean, I’m 28 and we still do that), you feel an incredible amount of embarrassment if you haven’t ‘done it’. But the truth is, when you grow up and talk about how old you were- whether that’s with your partner or your friends, no one actually cares. So if you want to wait and do it with someone who loves you and who you love in return, do that. If you want to wait until marriage, that’s perfectly okay too. Whatever decision you make about when to have sex, it is your decision to make. 3. The Person You Lose Your Virginity To Doesn’t Need To Be Your Forever Person Being the romantic I am, I had this belief that the person I lost my virginity to, should be my forever person so I waited until I was in a committed relationship with someone who respected me and loved me. And I don’t regret that because it was exactly what I wanted and he was special to me, but I also think the person you lose your virginity to doesn’t have to be the person you think you’ll marry. It’s like I put sex on this pedestal and I gave it so much value and importance, and I placed so many expectations on him because I always want things to feel like a fairy-tale, but sometimes they’re just not. I think if you like someone- not love them and I think if you trust someone and they respect you, that’s enough reason to share that moment with them. 4. The Things You’re Insecure About, He Won’t Even Notice Before I had ever gotten naked with a man, I was convinced that he would take one look at my body and run a mile, and it played a huge part in who I decided to sleep with. I wanted the lights off, to be under the covers and he would preferably also have his eyes closed. But the truth is, and this is really important, the things you’re insecure about- whether that’s your stomach or your breasts or that birthmark on your thigh- he isn’t looking at them in the same critical way you do. He’s more than likely thinking ‘Wow, I can’t believe I’m lucky enough to be getting naked with this beautiful woman.’ 5. Sex Can Mean A Lot Of Different Things To Different People And At Different Times When I was growing up, I believed that everything intimate meant something, and that idealized way of thinking meant I never really just went out and had ‘fun’ because I wanted it to mean something. But physical intimacy can mean many different things to different people and at different times. Sure, you can have an earth-shattering first kiss with someone, sure, you can ‘make love’ and have incredible sex with someone you see marriage and babies with, and that’s great. But you can also just make out with that hot guy in the club because he’s hot and you want to just forget about the world for a few minutes. You can send and receive dirty texts and photos because it feels dangerous and exciting, and it gives you a bit of a thrill. You can have sex with someone because the chemistry between you is so intense, you feel like your skin on fire. You can sleep with someone and never see them again because the thought of no strings attached is exactly what you need right now. Sex doesn’t always have to be about love and commitment, and that also means you can be sleeping with someone for completely different reasons they’re sleeping with you, so always make sure you’re on the same page. Sex is fun, but it can also complicate things. 6. Sex Should Be About Mutual Pleasure, It Isn’t Over Just Because He’s Finished For some stupid reason (hey, patriarchy), there’s this belief that a lot of men have, and that some women have been tricked into thinking, that sex is only for the man’s benefit and that once he’s finished, it’s over. I have had arguments with... more on the article here http://newsrounded.com/news.php?id=189 |
Kylie Jenner and Scott had decided to go on a break, and apparently, a few weeks back. Jenner has not posted about Scott on her social-media accounts since September 10. In fact, the couple hasn’t been seen together since late August, at the premiere of his documentary, Look Mom, I Can Fly. This isn’t the first time the couple has decided to take a break, and sources don’t believe this one is permanent. “Kylie and Travis have been on and off at various times throughout their relationship,” one such source told Us Weekly. “Kylie still loves Travis and this isn’t considered a full breakup to either of them.” The two first began dating after meeting at Coachella in 2017, shortly after Jenner split with Tyga. Ten months after their desert-festival meet-cute, Jenner gave birth to their daughter, Stormi, in February 2018. This past year, the couple... more on the story here http://newsrounded.com/news.php?id=184 |
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Another software developer shares his alleged experience of extortion at the hands of SARS more on the story here http://www.soundlala.com/news.php?id=1180
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http://www.soundlala.com/track_audio.php?id=1178 USE ME is not just another song. It is a burning desire to be more in the hands of the Lord. This song will revive, fire up your alter once more. #fireup #burningfortheLord LYRICS: I give all of me For your glory You are the porter I surrender your will I lay my burdens down I surrender all to you Use me Lord for your glory For your glory To you I come
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OJORO by RISKID if u love wiz kid u gonna love this one http://www.soundlala.com/track_audio.php?id=1177
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wizzyvilla:their feelings dey quick run dry |
Adele, 31, is reportedly dating Skepta ,37, following her marriage split with estranged husband Simon Konecki. The singer and rapper who hail from Tottenham have been in frequent contact and have also been enjoying a string of dates since Adele’s marriage to her ex Simon Konecki ended in April. According to The Sun, the chart-topper joined Skepta to help celebrate his 37th birthday at the Crystal Maze experience in London just two weeks ago. A source revealed to the publication: 'Adele and Skepta have been there for each other a lot after both their relationships split up. They have a close bond and there’s..... more on d news here http://www.soundlala.com/news.php?id=1176
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gloriaunobi:pant matter still dey exist? |
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have a lovely weekend |
have a lovely weekend |
9jaBloke:nope he was caught with a red gun that looks like toy that our primary 1 blogger refuse to say if it works or not |
Yemi Olaniran YOU ARE GREAT You are great and greatly to be praised Chorus There is none like you Lord Master and Lord of all Mighty in power and might You are great and greatly to be praised. Bridge You Are Great (4x) http://www.soundlala.com/track_audio.php?id=1137 |