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Music/RadioRe: Moses Bliss & Chandler Moore - Your Love (Official Video) by Bordey: 7:23pm On Apr 21, 2025
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InvestmentRe: ADK Platform Has Crashed by Bordey:
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Christianity EtcRe: FOY Urges Church To Honour Gospel Ministers Beyond Money by Bordey:
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Technology MarketRe: All Offerup, Letgo, Craigslist, 5miles, Ebay, Amazon Deals.*READ FIRST PAGE* by Bordey:
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FamilyRe: 8 Situations In Life Where A Person’s True Colors Always Come Out- Psychology by Bordey: 7:29pm On Dec 03, 2024
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Technology MarketRe: All Offerup, Letgo, Craigslist, 5miles, Ebay, Amazon Deals.*READ FIRST PAGE* by Bordey:
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CrimeRe: Police Nab Wanted Armed Robber, Rape Suspect In Ogun by Bordey:
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Foreign AffairsRe: Elon Musk Is Offering $47 To Refer People To Sign His Petition by Bordey:
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Foreign AffairsRe: Elon Musk Is Offering $47 To Refer People To Sign His Petition by Bordey:
Lol
PoliticsRe: Oyebanji Gives Ekiti's Best Teachers ₦‎47.8 Million In Gifts, Berates Exam Fraud by Bordey: 5:33am On Oct 06, 2024
Nice initiative
PoliticsRe: MKO Abiola's Children Pettition IG Over Diversion Of Their Inheritance by Bordey: 2:25pm On Sep 12, 2024
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PoliticsRe: Aloy Ejimakor- Nnamdi Kanu Ill With Low BP, Shortness Of Breath by Bordey:
Christlike01:
Fvck your fada still!
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PoliticsRe: Aloy Ejimakor- Nnamdi Kanu Ill With Low BP, Shortness Of Breath by Bordey: 3:43am On Jul 17, 2024
Christlike01:
Fvck you,your fada,and Cownu! You guys dey ment!
I'm a Nigerian first. Not tribalistic like you,
PoliticsRe: Aloy Ejimakor- Nnamdi Kanu Ill With Low BP, Shortness Of Breath by Bordey: 3:28am On Jul 17, 2024
YorubaNiBaba:
Nnamidiot cownu
@seun, is it when they shutdown NL again.
Christianity EtcRe: Rev. Ogbonnaya Bartholomew Ekene Ordained A Priest by Bordey:
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CrimeRe: My Son Was Poisoned, Broke His Skull In Swimming Pool - Father Of Cadet Officer by Bordey:
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PoliticsRe: Tinubu Okays Payment Of Group Life Assurance For Troops by Bordey: 5:20am On Jul 07, 2024
Agbado
BusinessRe: CAC Extends Deadline For Registration By FINTECH Operators by Bordey: 5:19am On Jul 07, 2024
Always making policies that will frustrate the poor.
PoliticsRe: FG Increases Mining Rates, Decries Non-Remittance by Bordey:
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PoliticsRe: Imo Community Residents Decry Devastating Impact Of Gully Erosion (Video) by Bordey: 6:51am On Jul 05, 2024
Why are southeast roads always like this?.
CrimeRe: Abuja Police Chase A Fast Car Driver (Pictures/Video) by Bordey: 6:48am On Jul 05, 2024
The police are even more scared that the car should not scratch or have dent more than the owner driving the car grin #Jungle
Technology MarketRe: All Offerup, Letgo, Craigslist, 5miles, Ebay, Amazon Deals.*READ FIRST PAGE* by Bordey:
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Technology MarketRe: All Offerup, Letgo, Craigslist, 5miles, Ebay, Amazon Deals.*READ FIRST PAGE* by Bordey:
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Foreign AffairsRe: Nigerian Student Who Joined Russian Army In Ukraine Pleads For Citizenship by Bordey: 10:00pm On Jun 27, 2024
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CareerRe: Army Promotes Oluchukwu Owowoh To Lieutenant by Bordey: 9:20pm On Jun 27, 2024
tolor:
where are they currently
All came back. Commissioned. Then later One left and returned to US.

Can't put out people private life here.
Thanks
CareerRe: Army Promotes Oluchukwu Owowoh To Lieutenant by Bordey:
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CrimeRe: Anambra Govt Apprehends Retired Teacher Over Alleged Sodomy by Bordey: 10:31pm On Jun 26, 2024
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PoliticsRe: Governor Sanwo-olu Celebrates 59th Birthday With Special Needs Kids by Bordey: 5:41am On Jun 26, 2024
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FamilyRe: My Younger Brother Seems To Hate Me! by Bordey: 11:59pm On Jun 16, 2024
emma2002:
I understand your concerns and feelings. It's painful when family members, especially siblings, don't appreciate or reciprocate love and support. You've done a lot for your brother, and his indifference and lack of gratitude are hurtful.

Firstly, acknowledge that you've tried addressing the issue with him directly, which shows you care about your relationship. Since that hasn't worked, consider the following steps:

1. *Re-evaluate your financial support*: It's fair to reassess how you allocate your resources. Consider redirecting support to siblings who value and appreciate your efforts.
2. *Set boundaries*: If you choose to continue supporting your brother, establish clear expectations and consequences for not meeting them.
3. *Don't internalize his behavior*: Remember that his actions reflect his own character, not yours. You've shown kindness and generosity; don't let his behavior define your self-worth.
4. *Prepare for mother's reaction*: Anticipate your mother's potential emotional response and plan how to address her concerns. Explain your perspective and feelings calmly, emphasizing your desire to support those who appreciate your efforts.
5. *Seek support for yourself*: Talk to a trusted friend, family member, or counselor about your feelings and experiences. They can offer valuable guidance and emotional support.

Remember, you deserve respect and appreciation from those you support. Prioritize your own emotional well-being and make decisions that align with your values and needs.
I didn't know that chatgpt now has an account on nairaland and it's even commenting. Nice one chatgpt
PoliticsRe: Russia Denies Coercing Nigerian Students To Fight In Ukraine by Bordey:
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Jobs/VacanciesRe: NNPC Recruitment 2024 Is Ongoing by Bordey: 4:59pm On Jun 05, 2024
Spiffyurch:
How solid is this information?
Drop your WhatsApp

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