@poster

When a woman you give all of your heart decides to be cocky with her acts as yours has done and try to play a reverse on you by going angry at your means to resolve issues and call a spade its true name, you are in for pains in the nearest future if you do not do that which is right as soon as possible except you want to look back to history much later and wished you had acted as most respondents to your post have asked you do,
Friend, kindly tell her your fears and ask to be excused from such emotional dribbles because you think its best she needs to sort herself out and wish her the best in her future endeavours.
Never let your guard down in an attempt to love genuinely as you have someway implied that you have been in your dealings with her except otherwise, because you should not cast the first stone if you are also a sinner.
The key pillars to your relationship which is TRUST and RESPECT have been taken away and sure would take a life time to build such back except it counted for nothing to you in your choice of a WOMAN you desire to spend the rest of your life with.
Be strong with your emotions and best wishes!!!!!!.

@sleekch1c

 Sooner in no distant time you would laugh at why you even bothered yourself thinking about what might have been and what might  because he would qualify as shit to you. Your thoughts about him would only be cleared when you deprive yourself of not been alone but rather with pals who do not remind you of him in any way by ensuring you smile and look good most times, visit places, avoid emotional attachments meanwhile and keep yourself busy always. Your attitude to life should be ""when one door closes, 10 others have just bin opened". Cheers!!!!!

@op
Nobody can help you except you help yourself from the wound that has been inflicted on your heart. Do yourself justice by keeping yourself busy and outline what you really want from a man to what you can also offer in return. Note that it is not fair to desire certain characteristics from a partner without also stating what you could offer in return. The simple rule to this is to NEVER DESIRE THINGS YOU CANT GIVE YOUR PARTNER.
Ensure u clear your head and heart of the feelings you still have for him so as not to end up doing that which is not right (using someone as a rebound).
Along the journey of life, you sure would meet that special person if you do that which is right.

Best of luck.

@Billsmith

You are no doubt spot-on on issues we ought to treat in our made to believe beloved country. Help spread the true gospel of truth that we me be liberated from the shakles of the thieves in power that call themselves politicians. Someone must rise up to this rogues who go the extent of buying up lower animals (the populace) conscience at the price of our country's good future.

It is so disappointing that a man who once banned politicians for practising regional and ethnic politics while he was a military dictator is now the champion of regional and ethnic politics. I urge youths from both North and South to reject this type of mentality. People like this will only divide and we have seen the, fruits of division-ethnic and religious clashes, North/South dichotomy and mutual mistrust. End this type of politics. Register today and vote for ONLY God fearing and honest leaders with a proven track record. If it is a Northerner or a Southerner so be it as long as he is a Nigerian and not follow humans in sheep clothings that are adamant on misleading the ignorant few!

Vote wisely plz.

Hello everyone!!!

You all just create issues where there is none.

Those who say ronaldinho played in a softer league seem to amaze me with where and how they get their facts.
Note that Ronaldinho played for Paris st germaine (PSG) france, Barceleona and Ac Milan
while Zizou played for Bordeaux (France), (He left bordeaux for juventus after their superlative run in the 1996 UEFA Cup run in which they beat AC Milan enroute the final), Juventus and Real madrid.
So where is the softer league in which ronaldinho played in that zizou didnt play in?

Some said Ronaldinho had a mediocre tournament at Korea-japan but failed to realize that ronaldinho provided almost 70% of the goals assists for brazil at that tournament but ronaldo da lima and rivaldo took the glory.

As to the posters comments.- Both of them are good but i prefer ronaldinho

@kenuoyibo
 
How come you say you are a banker and dont know the FD rates. No bank in the world gives rates @13% per month. Dont lure people because you want to go into a JOINT VENTURE business with their capital. Check up your FD rates at your bankvery well before you say what your bank doesnt offer.

I think you wanted to say 13% per annum and not 13% every 30days.

@poster,
please be kindly advised that no microfinance bank in nigeria offers rates as low as between 5%-7% P/A. What you have in microfinance banks is monthly rates which when compounded gives you about 60% yearly on the average. Dont get it wrong.
Happy hunting.

@Woodpecker

Pls i would like to know the probable estimate it would cost me to build a 4 bedroom bungalow with 2 of the rooms all ensuite inclusive of professional fees. Kindly give a break down of the different stages of the project like the foundation, lintel and roofing assuming the land to be used for the project is situated in lagos. thanks

Mr Poster, what about aries and leo?