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Family / How To Tackle Child Abuse? by ceeejaytee(f): 3:30pm On Jul 26, 2017
Child Abuse has been a growing factor for a long time; from Catholic Priests to even the children's parents. All over the world a child is been molested everyday and nothing has been done to help them at that moment.

They are silent because they don't want to get severely beaten by the molesters. They are threatened because they do not have a say in the matter since the molester has the upper hand.

It baffles me when I think of scenarios like: a young child goes to a church to worship God, finds either an ordained brother or a church personnel there who acts like he/she wants to give counselling or advice. The child explains his/her problem and concluded to the fact that he/she has faith in that ordained brother or church personnel and trusts him/her to inspire and help uplift the child's spiritual belief. But then again, the ordained brother or church personnel after seeing this desperate child, uses the desperation as an advantage. Why? Just to satisfy his/her useless pleasure...

At the end of the day, that child is emotionally unstable, psychologically deranged and his spiritual belief will drastically burn down; is it faith the child wanted? He/she no longer needs it. As the child grows older, he/she would begin to have hatred for churches, especially for priests.

Has that child's spiritual level not gone down the drain?

Child Abuse at homes are seriously disgusting, it could be the parents or the relatives. When the child is abused by the family, he/she loses trust in anybody around him/her. There will be a time where to get into a relationship would be difficult at some point and that could be regarded as a traumatic reflection or abuse in the life of the child when he/she grows up.

What could be done about this issue?
So many children have died as a result of child abuse and some are still alive as survivors; they are seriously in pain.

What's your view on this
Jokes Etc / Any Man Gonna Do This? by ceeejaytee(f): 9:54pm On Jul 24, 2017
grin

Politics / House Committee Insists On Identity Of Owners Of Ikoyi Billions by ceeejaytee(f): 9:43pm On Jul 24, 2017
The Chairman of the House of Representatives Committee on National Security and Intelligence, Hon. Sani Jaji, has said the committee has a mandate to establish the owners of the apartment and the $43 million recently found in an Osborne estate apartment in Ikoyi notwithstanding claims by the Nigerian Intelligence Agency (NIA) that it owned both.

He told journalists that the committee was making progress in its probe, adding that the Governor of Central Bank of Nigeria (CBN), Mr. Godwin Emefiele, would have to appear before the committee this week as his submissions would be crucial to the investigation.
He said some of the useful facts and progress achieved could not be disclosed at the moment.

Jaji said had been attempts on him and members of the committee on what direction the investigation should take and the possible outcome of the report.

He noted that the pressures had no monetary inducement but were in form of text messages and physical contacts “about what we should do, what we should not do, that we should dwell on this and not on that.”

The lawmaker said: “They say this or that agency has a reputation that should not be put on the line, and so we should not go beyond certain extent but we tell them that our determination is to safeguard the name and integrity of our institutions.

“But we tell them are aware that is it is not fair to castigate an entire agency for the wrongdoing of an agency and that is why we want to protect our institutions by getting to the roots of these infractions and expose the individuals responsible.

“It is a fact that there is no way one will embark on an assignment like this without sacrifice, and in this case, our dedication will determine our sacrifice. No amount of frustration will stop us as a committee or as individuals.”

He hinted that the suspended Director-General of NIA, Prof. Ayo Oke, would also be invited before coming up with a comprehensive report which would be available to all Nigerians after the House might have considered and adopted it.

“We must however have at the back of our minds that the essence of the exercise is the protection of our institutions and should not be allowed to public ridicule,” he said.

Jaji said a recent meeting with the acting Chairman of the Economic and Financial Crimes Commission (EFCC) in relation to the Ikoyi billions had been fruitful.

He said: “We have been meeting with relevant stakeholders concerned in this matter before now, having met with Magu, it is our resolve to pursue this matter to a logical conclusion n because more revelations are coming out.”



http://www.thisdaylive.com/index.php/2017/07/24/house-cttee-insists-on-identity-of-owners-of-ikoyi-billions/
Gaming / PS4 Games: Share Your Experience by ceeejaytee(f): 3:10pm On Jul 24, 2017
From,

The Witcher
Bloodborne
Mass Effect
Watchdogs 2
The last of us

The witcher...pfft I don't even know, it's too real to be true. The graphics are madass I swear.

Mass effect is just so roboticish (I know there's no word like that) it's cool with so much 'super powers'.

I personally prefer Watchdogs 2 and the last of us; they are officially my favourite.

Bloodborne is freaking horrifying cry like I can't even go far in killing all the zombies without getting killed. Plus they come out of nowhere! shocked

So gamers, I know apart from Fifa 17 and other soccer games, y'al have played others... what's your experience like?
Romance / Re: I Don't Know What To Do by ceeejaytee(f): 2:26pm On Jul 24, 2017
Khallyella:
To keep a healthy and happy relationship..
A girl must learn to persevere and be prayerful!
Just get to talk to him physically, ask him why he's being like that..
You may actually be the nagging type or one that causes trouble a lot and maybe, he's found peace in someone else...
Ask him to let you know if he's found someone else so you'd stop ignoring potential husbands..
If y'all cool again, if you nag, complain & get unnecessarily jealous, stop it! If you really want to keep him, Just stop!
If his side chic calls, hand him over the phone and tell him he has a call.. Don't pester him over his phone convo.. In fact, don't spy on his phone! Just be very patient with him and tbh, he'd change!
But while being patient, be on the look out for a replacement my dear... To avoid stories that touch...
But then again, his replacement might be worse so just chillax!
Bottomline: - Be patient & pray God changes him to a better person smiley

Wow this really got me.. I usually nag too much that I guess jealousy took hold of me. Thank you so much for this, it really helped smiley
Romance / Re: I Don't Know What To Do by ceeejaytee(f): 2:24pm On Jul 24, 2017
pocohantas:


Hehehehehehe.
He isn't working and you love him for who he is?
Who is he? grin

Maybe the unemployment is getting to him. They do have their moments when they get unhappy and uninterested in everything. You have to talk to him, firmly. Not with tears in your eyes...
Pick a time when you're strong enough to have a logical discussion and sort it out.

Thanks so much I will do just that
Jokes Etc / Drop A Sarcastic Joke by ceeejaytee(f): 2:21pm On Jul 24, 2017
*hears water splashing on the bathroom floor*
*knocks on the bathroom door*

Telemundo: ahan Gbanghan you dey baff?

Gbanghan: no oh.. I just dey stand for here dey look ceiling.

Some people can ask stupid questions undecided grin
Drop yours let's all get our ribs cracking tongue
Romance / Re: I Don't Know What To Do by ceeejaytee(f): 1:56pm On Jul 24, 2017
laiza:
You well?
First is he working? What kind of job? And was this "issue" there since inception?
Lady if you do all the calling how is that nigga ever gonna call you?
Let him miss you too now and give him space and time to call.
But pls answer this honestly "Do you love him for who he is or who you expect him to be?"

He isn't working yet. The 'issue' wasn't there in the beginning and yes, I love him for who he is
Romance / Re: I Don't Know What To Do by ceeejaytee(f): 1:49pm On Jul 24, 2017
Mirandah:
leave him alone sis. you need someone's who's gonna give you all the love and attention in the world.



that Nigga right there isn't.
move on..


Thank you... I'll try
Romance / Re: I Don't Know What To Do by ceeejaytee(f): 1:48pm On Jul 24, 2017
Dotwillis1:
my dear he's done with you.... he z only trying to push you away gradually to make you lose interest. People don't break up anymore by spelling it out. Be wiseundecided





embarassed okay thank you
Romance / I Don't Know What To Do by ceeejaytee(f): 1:35pm On Jul 24, 2017
I've been in a relationship with this guy for 7 months and we've been good. I love him so much but I'm beginning to have second thoughts.

He rarely calls me and when I do he's either busy or he doesn't pick my call. Sometimes I feel like he doesn't want to call me back because until the next day I won't see any call from him.

I've told him about this issue several times that it feels like I'm bothering him about it and he just laugh over it like it's nothing. I don't know what to do anymore...

I know I'm being selfish by needing too much or expecting too much from him but I don't just like feeling like being neglected by the person I care about so much.

Please I need you guys' advice. Thank you!
Romance / Re: How I Taught A Slay Queen A Lesson by ceeejaytee(f): 12:05pm On Jul 24, 2017
Choi slay queen oh grin

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