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AdvertsRe: Ceno Coconut Oil-100% Pure Organic Extra Virgin,Cold Pressed(Lagos & Nationwide) by charllyen(op): 3:52am On Jun 29, 2014
Experience the tropical taste.
AdvertsRe: BODY Detox And Spiritual Life by charllyen(op): 8:36am On Dec 20, 2013
@ Joagbaje. The way the lemon detox diet works is by not allowing any toxins to remain in your cells as well as releasing previous toxin build ups in your body. Because lemons are so sour, the acidic quality allows for the liver and gallbladder to purify themselves.
However, apart from mothers milk, the highest occurrence of lauric acid in nature is pure virgin coconut oil. Lauric acid is what protects babies from a lot diseases and infections. it is antifungal and antimicrobial. it also contains a special type of fat called MCT which your body does not store as fat but uses for instant energy production. so adding pure extra virgin coconut oil with a high percentage of MCT to your detox program will:

Boost your immune system by converting the lauric acid into monolaurin which has antifungal, antibacterial and antiviral properities
Boost your energy level during such period
Improve your thyroid function

and for those who want to lose weight, this is a very powerful thing to do. In all, it's very effective Joagbaje.
AdvertsRe: Ceno Coconut Oil-100% Pure Organic Extra Virgin,Cold Pressed(Lagos & Nationwide) by charllyen(op): 3:14pm On Dec 19, 2013
"eat crap = feel like crap"
Cook with good and healthy oil = Feel good and healthy.
Move to the coconut side of life Now!!
AdvertsRe: BODY Detox And Spiritual Life by charllyen(op): 3:08pm On Dec 19, 2013
Challenge yourself to live healthy. Go virgin or Go home.
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AdvertsBODY Detox And Spiritual Life by charllyen(op): 3:04pm On Dec 19, 2013
Does your spiritual life and religious activities stop you from taking care of your physical health properly? Have a Rethink and integrate body detoxification into your healthy living plan. It pays because when your body fails, the willingness and energy to serve God will diminish.

The idea about detoxification was already alive back in the ancient Egypt and Greece, when people believed that certain food or liquids can produce toxins and be bad for our body if consumed in large amounts. As a result of that - detox was born. There are a lot of things we have consumed in the past that have accumulated thus waiting for explosion. But before such happens, you can wipe them out today. You can comfortably use lemon(not lime), warm water and coconut oil(pure organic extra virgin like Ceno coconut oil) like numerous people to detoxify your body and not just be spiritually fit but physically active. How else have you successfully cleans your body?

HealthRe: This Idea Was Born Centuries Ago by charllyen(op): 2:17pm On Dec 19, 2013
Challenge yourself to live healthy. Go virgin or Go home.
08123347170

HealthThis Idea Was Born Centuries Ago by charllyen(op):
BODY Detox:
People always find it comforting if something has a famous history background, especially when it is a positive one. The idea about detoxification was already alive back in the ancient Egypt and Greece, when people believed that certain food or liquids can produce toxins and be bad for our body if consumed in large amounts. As a result of that - detox was born. Today, you can comfortably use lemon(not lime), warm water and coconut oil(pure organic extra virgin like Ceno coconut oil) to cleans your body. How else have you successfully detox your body?

AdvertsRe: Ceno Coconut Oil-100% Pure Organic Extra Virgin,Cold Pressed(Lagos & Nationwide) by charllyen(op): 3:19pm On Dec 10, 2013
Pregnant & Nursing Mothers

Coconut oil contains large amounts of lauric acid, a powerful anti-microbial fatty acid that protects the immune system of the fetus and newborn. Pregnant and nursing mothers should eat coconut oil to increase the quality of the womb environment and breast milk”
- Dr. Claudia Pillow
AdvertsRe: Ceno Coconut Oil-100% Pure Organic Extra Virgin,Cold Pressed(Lagos & Nationwide) by charllyen(op):
Cook an amazingly different delicious meal this season with Ceno Organic Extra Virgin Coconut Oil. Those who love life, love to garnish with this pure organic product. The coco-nutty taste will unknowingly get you nodding your head in acceptance as you stare at your spouse with eyes filled with emotions of love. Call now and ask how to get a jar FREE
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AdvertsRe: Ceno Coconut Oil-100% Pure Organic Extra Virgin,Cold Pressed(Lagos & Nationwide) by charllyen(op): 10:54pm On Nov 24, 2013
“As far as the evidence goes, it suggests that coconut oil, added regularly to a balanced diet, lowers cholesterol to normal by promoting its conversion into pregnenolone. Coconut-eating cultures in the tropics have consistently lower cholesterol than people in the U.S. Everyone that I know who uses coconut oil regularly happens to have cholesterol levels of about 160, while eating mainly cholesterol rich foods (eggs, milk, cheese, meat, shellfish). " Ray Peat, PhD

Wouldn't you rather move to the virgin coconut side of life?
AdvertsRe: Ceno Coconut Oil-100% Pure Organic Extra Virgin,Cold Pressed(Lagos & Nationwide) by charllyen(op):
Join the healthy club today and have a taste of the finest oil of nature WITHOUT even a single preservative. We offer you 110% guarantee on our Organic Pure Extra Virgin Coconut Oil. Call now and ask how to get a jar FREE. Yes! we mean it because we are confident you love healthy food and won't stop at first consumption.

Besides, you would like to try out something from this 80 Surprising Ways to Use Coconut Oil to Better Your Life>> http://www.nutridomain.com/blogs/2013/10/26/80-surprising-ways-to-use-coconut-oil-to-better-your-life/
AdvertsRe: Ceno Coconut Oil-100% Pure Organic Extra Virgin,Cold Pressed(Lagos & Nationwide) by charllyen(op): 9:03pm On Nov 23, 2013
Grab this NOW!!!!!!!
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AdvertsRe: Ceno Coconut Oil-100% Pure Organic Extra Virgin,Cold Pressed(Lagos & Nationwide) by charllyen(op): 8:55pm On Nov 23, 2013
Brain tissue is very rich in complex forms of fats. The experiment (around 1978) in which pregnant mice were given diets containing either coconut oil or unsaturated oil showed that brain development was superior in the young mice whose mothers ate coconut oil. Because coconut oil supports thyroid function, and thyroid governs brain development, including myelination, the result might simply reflect the difference between normal and hypothyroid individuals. However, in 1980, experimenters demonstrated that young rats fed milk containing soy oil incorporated the oil directly into their brain cells, and had structurally abnormal brain cells as a result.”
AdvertsRe: Ceno Coconut Oil-100% Pure Organic Extra Virgin,Cold Pressed(Lagos & Nationwide) by charllyen(op): 8:50pm On Nov 23, 2013
“As little as one or two teaspoons of coconut oil per day appears to have a strong protective effect against obesity and cancer.”
AdvertsCeno Coconut Oil-100% Pure Organic Extra Virgin,Cold Pressed(Lagos & Nationwide) by charllyen(op):
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Our quality product gives Nigerians the opportunity to experience the real tropical taste. Made from the finest, freshest and maturest of organic coconuts, not cheap copra or rotten coconuts.

Ceno coconut oil is:
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RomanceVirgin Coconut Oil: The Unbelievable Sex Lubricant by charllyen(op):
This might surprise you but numerous users of this nature’s all purpose oil swore by this one, when asked to submit different ways they have used virgin coconut oil. This and few others were the ones I found most thrilling in the report. Mind you, the oil is extra virgin without even a single preservative. Virgin coconut oil is indeed gaining so much popularity as numerous customers are exploring and expanding their circle of coconut usage.
It's a crime to compare this amazing oil with vegetable oil, they are not in the same level at all. Even the cholesterol free vegetable oils we consume daily still increase our risk of heart attack. They do not reduce the cholesterol ratio in our body which is the main reason for heart attack (this topic will be for another day). In fact, it will be hard to believe that some of our doctors are being paid by the rich vegetable oil companies to keep lying to us by encouraging us to keep consuming vegetable oils that leave us with nothing but a diminishing health.

However, coconut oil has remained the only natural oil that doesn't threaten your heart, health and peace when used either as a cooking oil or other ways. No wonder it has been one of the top selling products for months now on nutridomain online health store. Here’s the report compiled by nutridomain: 80 Surprising Ways to Use Coconut Oil to Better Your Life (http://www.nutridomain.com/blogs/2013/09/23/80-surprising-ways-to-use-coconut-oil-to-better-your-life/).

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HealthVirgin Coconut Oil: The Unbelievable Sex Lubricant by charllyen(op):
This might surprise you but numerous users of this nature’s all purpose oil swore by this one, when asked to submit different ways they have used virgin coconut oil. This and few others were the ones I found most thrilling in the report. Mind you, the oil is extra virgin without even a single preservative. Virgin coconut oil is indeed gaining so much popularity as numerous customers are exploring and expanding their circle of coconut usage.

It's a crime to compare this amazing oil with vegetable oils, they are not in the same level at all. Even the cholesterol free vegetable oils we consume daily still increase our risk of heart attack. They do not reduce the cholesterol ratio in our body which is one risk factor for cardiovascular diseases(this topic will be for another day). In fact, it will be hard to believe that some of our doctors are being paid by the rich vegetable oil companies to keep lying to us and encouraging us to keep consuming vegetable oils that leave us with nothing but a diminishing health.

However, this oil has remained the only natural oil that doesn't threaten your heart, health and peace when used either as a cooking oil or other ways. No wonder it has been one of the top selling products for months now on nutridomain. Here’s the report compiled by nutridomain: 80 Surprising Ways to Use Coconut Oil to Better Your Life (http://www.nutridomain.com/blogs/2013/09/23/80-surprising-ways-to-use-coconut-oil-to-better-your-life/).

Health5 Powerful Health Benefits Of Coconut Oil You Are Probably Not Aware Of by charllyen(op): 5:25pm On Oct 23, 2013
Virgin coconut oil has been called the healthiest oil on planet because of its surprising health benefits. It is the richest natural food source of lauric acid apart from mother's milk. Before now, there was a misconception spread among many people that coconut oil is not good for heart health. This is because it contains a large amount of saturated fats which is a known risk factor for cardiovascular disease. But research has proven them wrong. In fact, consuming coconut oil can cut your chances of heart disease better than any drug on the market. So what are the health benefits?

1) Antioxidant to Slow Down Aging

Oxidation is a natural process, which takes place all the time in nature. It is why a tuber of yam cut open turns brown. Fish becomes rancid. It is a major cause of skin aging. As your skin gets exposed by the day to UV light, oxygen, pollutions and etc, oxidation occurs to generate reactive oxygen radicals also known as free radicals which dramatically, cause significant damage to cell structures hence, degenerative disorders including aging and disease. Even though the changes may be latent but with time, manifestations such as increase in wrinkle formation, loss of skin tone, hyper pigmentation and other skin discoloration becomes evidence of your aging skin. However, coconut oil having positive antioxidant properties helps your body to neutralize the free radical thus stopping further damage they will cause to other healthy fats and cells in our body.

2) Weight Loss

Coconut oil contains a special type of fat called medium chain triglyceride (MCT). The fat structure is totally different from the ones you find in over 90% of your cooking oils like canola, groundnut, corn, soy, safflower, sunflower and numerous vegetable oils. They contain a type of fat called long chain triglyceride (LCT) and the body stores them as fat because they are large molecules which are difficult to break down in the body. But Coconut oil on the other hand, containing MCT fat is usually sent straight to the liver where it is burned as fuel to produce instant energy, much like a carbohydrate but without the insulin spike.

This promotes weight loss because the body does not store it as fat unlike vegetable oils. More so, Coconut oil improves thyroid function, the gland that controls metabolism. This is so important because, If you have a low-functioning thyroid (hypothyroid), you will find it difficult losing weight even if you cut down on carbs. This amazing oil is really a fat-burning-fat because while it is being broken down in the liver, the body’s metabolism is increased which in turn raises the body’s ability to burn fat. The story of a woman, (http://www.nutridomain.com/blogs/2013/10/21/burn-fat-with-fat/) just one of the numerous stories who was losing 1 pound weekly with this oil will really surprise you. It also curbs your appetite and craving for food when taken about 30 minutes before meal. What it does is to make you feel full so naturally so you eat less. (For weight loss, take 6-9 teaspoons daily. you can add it to you tea or take it as a supplement but it must pure virgin like Ceno coconut oil.)

3) Supports your Body’s Immune System

The medium chain fatty acids found in coconut are:

· Caprylic acid C8

· Capric acid C10

· Lauric acid C12

· Myristic Acid C14

These MCFAs are loaded with anti bacterial, viral, microbial and fungal properties. Lauric acid found in coconut oil is the same, present in mothers milk which protects the baby from viral infections. Caprylic acid on the other hand is the most potent yeast fighting substance.

When lauric acid is consumed either from our mothers milk or coconut oil, it transforms into monolaurin which is an antiviral, antibacterial, and antiprotozoal monoglyceride that inhibits the actions of many lipid coated viruses. Researchers have found that the lipid (or fatty) membranes of the offending organisms are usually being disrupted by MCFAs because their membranes are both very similar. This confuses the microbes and viruses causing them to weaken and become easy prey to white blood cells, which in turn strengthens the body’s immune system.

4) Promotes Heart Health

source: continue here http://www.nutridomain.com/blogs/2013/10/21/5-powerful-health-benefits-of-coconut-oil-you-are-probably-not-aware-of/

Food5 Powerful Health Benefits Of Coconut Oil You Are Probably Not Aware Of by charllyen(op):
Virgin coconut oil has been called the healthiest oil on planet because of its surprising health benefits. It is the richest natural food source of lauric acid apart from mother's milk. Before now, there was a misconception spread among many people that coconut oil is not good for heart health. This is because it contains a large amount of saturated fats which is a known risk factor for cardiovascular disease. But research has proven them wrong. In fact, consuming coconut oil can cut your chances of heart disease better than any drug on the market. So what are the health benefits?

1) Antioxidant to Slow Down Aging

Oxidation is a natural process, which takes place all the time in nature. It is why a tuber of yam cut open turns brown. Fish becomes rancid. It is a major cause of skin aging. As your skin gets exposed by the day to UV light, oxygen, pollutions and etc, oxidation occurs to generate reactive oxygen radicals also known as free radicals which dramatically, cause significant damage to cell structures hence, degenerative disorders including aging and disease. Even though the changes may be latent but with time, manifestations such as increase in wrinkle formation, loss of skin tone, hyper pigmentation and other skin discoloration becomes evidence of your aging skin. However, coconut oil having positive antioxidant properties helps your body to neutralize the free radical thus stopping further damage they will cause to other healthy fats and cells in our body.

2) Weight Loss

Coconut oil contains a special type of fat called medium chain triglyceride (MCT). The fat structure is totally different from the ones you find in over 90% of your cooking oils like canola, groundnut, corn, soy, safflower, sunflower and numerous vegetable oils. They contain a type of fat called long chain triglyceride (LCT) and the body stores them as fat because they are large molecules which are difficult to break down in the body. But Coconut oil on the other hand, containing MCT fat is usually sent straight to the liver where it is burned as fuel to produce instant energy, much like a carbohydrate but without the insulin spike.

This promotes weight loss because the body does not store it as fat unlike vegetable oils. More so, Coconut oil improves thyroid function, the gland that controls metabolism. This is so important because, If you have a low-functioning thyroid (hypothyroid), you will find it difficult losing weight even if you cut down on carbs. This amazing oil is really a fat-burning-fat. The story of numerous people like this woman, (http://www.nutridomain.com/blogs/2013/10/21/burn-fat-with-fat/) who was losing 1 pound weekly with this oil will really surprise you. While it is being broken down in the liver, the body’s metabolism is increased which in turn raises the body’s ability to burn fat. It also curbs your appetite and craving for food when taken about 30 minutes before meal. What it does is to make you feel full so naturally so you eat less.(For weight loss, take 6-9 teaspoons daily. you can add it to you tea or take it as a supplement but it must pure virgin like Ceno coconut oil.)

3) Supports your Body’s Immune System

The medium chain fatty acids found in coconut are:

· Caprylic acid C8

· Capric acid C10

· Lauric acid C12

· Myristic Acid C14

These MCFAs are loaded with anti bacterial, viral, microbial and fungal properties. Lauric acid found in coconut oil is the same, present in mothers milk which protects the baby from viral infections. Caprylic acid on the other hand is the most potent yeast fighting substance.

When lauric acid is consumed either from our mothers milk or coconut oil, it transforms into monolaurin which is an antiviral, antibacterial, and antiprotozoal monoglyceride that inhibits the actions of many lipid coated viruses. Researchers have found that the lipid (or fatty) membranes of the offending organisms are usually being disrupted by MCFAs because their membranes are both very similar. This confuses the microbes and viruses causing them to weaken and become easy prey to white blood cells, which in turn strengthens the body’s immune system.

4) Promotes Heart Health

source: continue here http://www.nutridomain.com/blogs/2013/10/21/5-powerful-health-benefits-of-coconut-oil-you-are-probably-not-aware-of/

Health5 Powerful Health Benefits Of Coconut Oil You Are Probably Not Aware Of by charllyen(op):
Virgin coconut oil has been called the healthiest oil on planet because of its surprising health benefits. It is the richest natural food source of lauric acid apart from mother's milk. Before now, there was a misconception spread among many people that coconut oil is not good for heart health. This is because it contains a large amount of saturated fats which is a known risk factor for cardiovascular disease. But research has proven them wrong. In fact, consuming coconut oil can cut your chances of heart disease better than any drug on the market. So what are the health benefits?

1) Antioxidant to Slow Down Aging

Oxidation is a natural process, which takes place all the time in nature. It is why a tuber of yam cut open turns brown. Fish becomes rancid. It is a major cause of skin aging. As your skin gets exposed by the day to UV light, oxygen, pollutions and etc, oxidation occurs to generate reactive oxygen radicals also known as free radicals which dramatically, cause significant damage to cell structures hence, degenerative disorders including aging and disease. Even though the changes may be latent but with time, manifestations such as increase in wrinkle formation, loss of skin tone, hyper pigmentation and other skin discoloration becomes evidence of your aging skin. However, coconut oil having positive antioxidant properties helps your body to neutralize the free radical thus stopping further damage they will cause to other healthy fats and cells in our body.

2) Weight Loss

Coconut oil contains a special type of fat called medium chain triglyceride (MCT). The fat structure is totally different from the ones you find in over 90% of your cooking oils like canola, groundnut, corn, soy, safflower, sunflower and numerous vegetable oils. They contain a type of fat called long chain triglyceride (LCT) and the body stores them as fat because they are large molecules which are difficult to break down in the body. But Coconut oil on the other hand, containing MCT fat is usually sent straight to the liver where it is burned as fuel to produce instant energy, much like a carbohydrate but without the insulin spike.

This promotes weight loss because the body does not store it as fat unlike vegetable oils. More so, Coconut oil improves thyroid function, the gland that controls metabolism. This is so important because, If you have a low-functioning thyroid (hypothyroid), you will find it difficult losing weight even if you cut down on carbs. This amazing oil is really a fat-burning-fat because while it is being broken down in the liver, the body’s metabolism is increased which in turn raises the body’s ability to burn fat. The story of a woman, (http://www.nutridomain.com/blogs/2013/10/21/burn-fat-with-fat/) just one of the numerous stories who was losing 1 pound weekly with this oil will really surprise you. It also curbs your appetite and craving for food when taken about 30 minutes before meal. What it does is to make you feel full so naturally so you eat less. (For weight loss, take 6-9 teaspoons daily. you can add it to you tea or take it as a supplement but it must pure virgin like Ceno coconut oil.)

3) Supports your Body’s Immune System

The medium chain fatty acids found in coconut are:

· Caprylic acid C8

· Capric acid C10

· Lauric acid C12

· Myristic Acid C14

These MCFAs are loaded with anti bacterial, viral, microbial and fungal properties. Lauric acid found in coconut oil is the same, present in mothers milk which protects the baby from viral infections. Caprylic acid on the other hand is the most potent yeast fighting substance.

When lauric acid is consumed either from our mothers milk or coconut oil, it transforms into monolaurin which is an antiviral, antibacterial, and antiprotozoal monoglyceride that inhibits the actions of many lipid coated viruses. Researchers have found that the lipid (or fatty) membranes of the offending organisms are usually being disrupted by MCFAs because their membranes are both very similar. This confuses the microbes and viruses causing them to weaken and become easy prey to white blood cells, which in turn strengthens the body’s immune system.

4) Promotes Heart Health

source: continue here http://www.nutridomain.com/blogs/2013/10/21/5-powerful-health-benefits-of-coconut-oil-you-are-probably-not-aware-of/

EntertainmentRe: Test Your Brain Now by charllyen(op): 4:56pm On Jul 12, 2013
To win airtime every hour answering questions, visit: http://www.nahere.com/nahere
EntertainmentTest Your Brain Now by charllyen(op):
1.How can you add eight 8's to get the number 1,000? (only use addition).
2.In Northern part of Nigeria, you cannot take a picture of a man with a leather shoe. Why not?

Drop your answeres here
Forum GamesTest Your Brain by charllyen(op): 4:33pm On Jul 12, 2013
How can you add eight 8's to get the number 1,000? (only use addition)
Drop your answers here.
WebmastersRe: Your Top 5 Nigerian Everyday Websites by charllyen: 8:31pm On Oct 30, 2012
1. www.nahere.com : I use it to meet people near me because I travel alot
2. www.lindaikeji..com : gossip things
3. www.nairaland.com : I enjoy the tribal fight and news
4. www.google.com : searching things
5. Others
EntertainmentUncle Jona (parody) by charllyen(op): 12:15pm On Sep 14, 2012
Uncle Jona (parody) is a fictional character on FaceBook that answers any question you ask him usually in a sarcastic way.
Ask What You Want and I will Answer How I Want.
http://www.facebook.com/UncleJona

WebmastersRe: Compare These Three Websites:nairaland,lagbook & Nahere by charllyen(op): 9:07am On Aug 30, 2012
They are all social platforms in Nigeria claiming to be more superior than others
WebmastersCompare These Three Websites:nairaland,lagbook & Nahere by charllyen(op): 8:34am On Aug 30, 2012
compare these Nigerian social platforms: WWW.nairaland.com, WWW.lagbook.com and WWW.nahere.com based on:

-The one that has more future value
-More original
-A solution to Nigerians

please remove sentiment and be objective about it
Nairaland GeneralCompare These Three Websites:Nairaland,lagbook & Nahere by charllyen(op):
compare these Nigerian social platforms: WWW.nairaland.com, WWW.lagbook.com and WWW.nahere.com based on:

-The one that has more future value
-More original
-A solution to Nigerians


please remove sentiment and be objective about it
Tech JobsProgrammer Wanted by charllyen(op): 9:16pm On Jul 16, 2012
Job Title: PHP/MySQL Developer
Location: Lagos

Responsibilities:
Web development/programming
Code according to technical specifications
Perform iterative design cycles & on-time feature releases
Develop prototypes for evaluation & validation purposes
Document code & system designs

Qualifications/Requirements
Minimum qualification is Diploma.
Required experience of 1 - 3 years.
Enthusiastic developer eager to learn new technologies
Technicals: OO PHP5, MySQL, HTML, CSS, JavaScript
Must be able to work with little or no supervision


Please call 08037924570 to apply.
RomanceCan Men And Women Be Friends? Part 1 by charllyen(op): 9:35am On Jun 19, 2012
There is no reason for a man to be interested in a woman (and for a women to be interested in a man) other than sex. Biologically and evolutionarily speaking, copulation is the only reason why there are two sexes around, and it is fundamentally the only thing for which the members of the two sexes are drawn to each other.

But before I continue, I would like to introduce www.nahere.com to you. A Nigerian location based platform that shows you new interesting people staying in your street. Socialize and do business with people nearest to you. Closeness matters.

Propagation of genes is why we are. Whatever else we think life is about is but our delusions and a part of the grand scheme of Nature the cold bitch. Not that these delusions are bad (for what choice do we have?), but to the best of human understanding that's what life is.

Man and woman can't be friends in true sense of the word. Meaning, they can't have a pure friendship. The forces governing same-sex friendships and those governing cross-sex friendships are significantly different. Think about it. To give some hint of the difference in the dynamics: one doesn't use the same criteria for evaluating people of both genders while choosing friends. The degree of influence one's male and female company exert on one (other things being the same) is not the same. And that evidences plentiful role sexuality plays in friendships involving opposite sexes. One is influenced and affected by a person of the opposite sex far more easily and deeply then by a person of the same sex.

Sexuality makes one biased towards the person of the opposite sex in every situation which has a possibility of it leading up to sex (which is almost always), no matter how remote the odds. And no, one doesn't always have to have a conscious intention of sex while exercising the bias. It just happens that way, apparently because such behavior is hardwired in our biology. This purported end of the bias, sex, would not be the goal of pure friendship. This I say because friendship is a human concept serving human goals, as opposed to Nature's goals which is sex. For a relationship to qualify as friendship the minimum condition is that it must be founded on some social purpose; the purpose that originates from one's human nature as opposed to the animal nature. Since the sexuality-encouraged gender bias is always present in a man-woman friendship, such friendship is always more or less impure, and as a consequence there are complications roughly proportional to impurity in friendship. Come back today for the part2 in this tread.

Meet new interesting people in your street Now. It’s real. www.nahere.com

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