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RomanceRe: My Woman Looks Older Than Her Age by Chemda: 1:22pm On Nov 02, 2025
Uzobejeme:
You love her that's why you are seeking a solution. For this singular reason. I will help you make her look younger again.
1. She has to go for facials. Once monthly.
2. Buy her earth creations 21 again and their collagen supplement.
3. Buy lots of fruits, encourage he to eat lots of fruits.
4. Buy Dr Rashel' niacinamide and face cream for her. I recommend this because it's cheap. If you have money go get her dang products or buy either Susan chanel or Jenny's glow facial products. ( I use Jenny glow and I look 20nyeqrs younger. Her products are awesome. Just make sure it is used according to the instructions on tbe products. Those that have complained about it, used it wrongly)
Consistency is key!
5. She should always sleep for at least 8 hours and drink lots of water daily.
That said, God bless you . A man that seeks for solution for his woman is a keeper. Some men complain that their wife is fat instead of them to start going to the gym with her. Encouraging her and buying her the supplements she needs to control her weight.
Goodluck!
How long will these supplements remain effective? And can he really keep up with purchasing such items that don’t seem cheap? There will be other responsibilities after the wedding and in marriage. Would it be wise to add these supplements to those obligations? Well, he did mention that they’re not poor, so I suppose it wouldn’t be much of an issue for him. But then, how could he introduce these ideas to her—even with the assurance that he’ll handle the cost—without making it seem like it’s all just an attempt to make her look good, and causing her to feel self-conscious, insecure or worried about her appearance?
RomanceRe: My Woman Looks Older Than Her Age by Chemda: 12:48pm On Nov 02, 2025
Vikto17:
Hello dear Nairalanders ,,, l am 32yrs and my fiancee is 30yrs... very loving ,, sweet and excellent soul... she tick everything l need in a woman and l will be getting married to her next year by God grace...

My major concern is that she looks older than her actual age,,, and this is her face alone... l have seen girls her senior who looks younger...
we are not poor .. she eats well and have all the necessary things a woman will want...
please what recommendation should one take to look their age and younger too,,, thanks
She ticks all the boxes of what you want in a woman, doesn’t she?
You even mentioned that you love her more than anything on earth — yet the way she looks is a major concern to you?

Your love doesn’t seem absolute, reliable, or sure.
Firstly, if your love is truly as you claim, her looks should be deeply appreciated by you — regardless of who is older yet appears younger than she does.

Secondly, I hope you have an idea of how pregnancy can transform a woman’s appearance, especially her face. Considering that her looks already trouble you, I doubt you’d stay faithful to her when you’re both expecting a child.

I see that as a red flag or maybe an ox blood flag for now, because one day — as humans change and sometimes lie — you may start seeing another woman behind her, someone her age who only happens to look younger or more youthful.

If your goal is to become a faithful husband from next year after your wedding, you must stop taking her looks as an issue of concern. She’s your woman! You shouldn’t expect her to look the same as others her age — that’s the beauty of life’s uniqueness. And, forgive me for saying this, but nature didn’t cheat her in any way. She’s simply her own kind of beautiful.

Just a little piece of unsolicited advice: love her for who she is, because even beauty fades with time. Youthful appearances wear away with age. Appreciate your woman, and stop comparing her to others who may look younger.

If your love is true and sincere, I strongly believe that her looks would be the last thing to trouble or worry you.

I’m heartbroken for her — that you brought this issue into the open, when instead you could be showering her with praises like Omalicha or Asa owam (even if you’re not of Igbo descent).

And about flattery — it’s saying things to people that you wouldn’t dare say behind their backs. It shouldn’t be encouraged. Don't do that!

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