DEMORALISING CITIZEN CAN DO ANYTHING FOR MONEY, STILL WE REMAIN POOR IN THE PRESENCE OF EGYPTIAN, WHO DON'T OWN THE NATURAL RESOURCES WE HAVE IN NIGERIA
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What are you saying, no one should leave apk government, the best political party so far, majority of you never different from tinubu, every citizen select their own type of people to lead,
NO VISIONS NO DIRECTION, WHO IS DECEIVING WHO, TINUBU LAST TWO YEARS, IS WHAT YOU DESERVE, CONTINUE TO SPEAK ENGLISH FOR THOSE WHO DOESN'T UNDERSTAND ENGLISH, CHINESE DO THINGS IN CHINESE LANGUAGE, JAPANESE DOING THINGS IN JAPANESE LANGUAGE, GERMAN PEOPLE DOING THINGS IN GERMAN LANGUAGE, PLS WHAT CAN YOU DO IN YOUR OWN LANGUAGE, MORE ISSUES TO FACE NIGERIA
drehdinho: A lady was introduced to me by a street sister after I mentioned that I was in search of a serious relationship. I gave a clear list of my requirements, among which were that she must be gainfully employed and of good character.
Two days ago, the sister finally shared the contact of the lady she found for me. I was hopeful, thinking she would at least meet 80% of my criteria.
When I initiated a conversation with the lady, I asked about her educational background. She told me she was a secondary school drop-out. I didn’t judge her immediately, I wanted to hear more and not jump to conclusions.
So, I asked what steps she had in mind to upgrade herself. She said she wanted to go into business and gave a rough estimate of ₦3.5 million as startup capital.
Still, I wasn’t discouraged. I told her that if I were to invest in the business, I would hold 60% of the company while she holds 40%. My reason was simple: I wanted her to be accountable and run the business with a sense of ownership.
To my surprise, she rejected the idea. She said she wanted 100% ownership because she is “trustworthy” and that I could observe her for one year to see if she wouldn’t mismanage the business.
I let that conversation slide.
Then, a few days later, during another conversation, I asked her what she was bringing to the table in the relationship. Her response? Just “prayer.” 😂
At this point, I started enjoying the conversation ,not because I was impressed, but because her responses were becoming increasingly ridiculous.
I asked her another question: How much do you think we would need per month to live as husband and wife? Her answer: ₦1 million.
I asked her to break it down. She couldn’t. She just kept rambling and listing irrelevant things with no clarity or structure.
This morning, she called me via WhatsApp video. While we were talking, the call ended. I tried calling her back, but the video didn’t connect. I noticed she was typing, so I waited.
Next thing I saw was: “My data got exhausted.”
From the very beginning, I knew I was way above her standard , intellectually, financially, and in life exposure. But I decided to subject her brain to an intelligent conversation to prove a point: most of these broke ladies have absolutely nothing meaningful to offer.
To my fellow hustling men who have sacrificed and worked hard to become something in life , please don’t settle for women like this. Look out for women who have built themselves to a meaningful stage in life.
I have two degrees. I’m a lawyer. And here is a lady, a secondary school drop-out , who thinks, in her oblivion, that she can hook a man of my calibre.
I called the sister who introduced her and clearly told her never to bring such people my way again.
I know how this kind of story ends: you help them build a life, and the moment they start seeing a little change, you’ll see their true colours. Many of them think the only thing they need to offer in life is their body.
I’ve cut off communication with her already, and I’m planning to block her on WhatsApp.
Her unreasonable thought process completely turned me off. So many ridiculous ideas. It’s just mentally exhausting.
THEY INTRODUCE LADY TO YOU, WHAT HAPPENED TO YOUR MOUTH, THAT YOU CANNOT TOAST WOMEN, SOME OF YOU NEED DOCTOR
You are crying because of women,but why all this behaviour, taking gen-z women serious at your own risk, double dating is their first priority nowadays
Baronthecelebri: Good for you, Jesus Christ said ask it shall be given. You ask for sex she refuse, divorce her straight up no time for nonsense, but yet you'll still be begging for sex.
you bring Jesus to this matter, you shall be free from foreign religion bondage, leave Jesus for Israeli people,
DitariIzon: My wife is an introvert that don't love social life and I'm an extrovert that love social life and it's frustrating me. She doesn't like parties or gatherings. She like inside house too much. What can I do
you need doctor, as you failed to married your own type, what should we do now?
Ndubuisipaul1: I don't blame girls who date guys because they have money. Money is a magnet that attracts anybody both male and female..
I never knew that as a guy I will fall in love with a girl because of her money..
NOW THE STORY I met this lady in lagos she came to our photo studio after taking some pictures we exchanged contact. She is not beautiful so I didn't make any attempt to ask her out. She was giving me signal by calling often, chatting me up, but I wasn't giving her attention..
I never knew she was a rich. She invited me to her place 3 times I declined. I just gave her excuse.. The 4th time when she called and I told her that I can't make it, she got angry, I had to change my mind.
When I got to her family house I froze in shock . it was a duplex, she owns a car. as if she wanted to me know her worth for neglecting her. she asked me to follow her to her shop. she drove me in her car, and when we got there, lo and behold she has 4 staffs on salary.. The funniest thing is that I couldn't hid me shame.. She was just looking at me like, so you think am a small girl.
After I Ieft alot of thought were flowing through my head. When I got home I told some of my friends and they told me to go back an start loving the lady. But deep down I know what I have made her pass through. I made it obvious that am not interested in her through my reactions.. And now it's too late..
We still chat once in a well but I dont have the courage to ask her out knowing all I have done to her..
What made me post this is that I only started liking this lady immediately I knew she has money but before that I didn't give her a chance..
POINT OF CORRECTION, YOU'RE TALKING ABOUT THOSE WHO PLACED THEIR VALUE ON MONEY, NOT EVERYONE HAVE THIS MENTALITY OF CHASING MONEY BY FIRE BY FORCE
gift2xl: Who contributed to her past, is it not men? There are more stupid men than women. A woman will love and trust a man and that same man will break her heart.
break her heart by doing what, pls be specific, we have to learn from peoples opinion