Samantha125: It's the duty of men to feed us, we can't starve while you guys are around... Even if you see us seated alone in a restaurant without having ordered anything, you must come to us and make enquiries with regard as to whether we've eaten something... If our response is "no", then your next move should be that you buy us something to keep body and soul together... You don't have to ask us for our names, just buy us something to eat and God will continue to bless you in abundance...😌😌😌
youngEmelex: I have been following match making trends for years and this is my final conclusion. No single lady in her prime will need the services of match makers and dating apps to get a spouse because at that stage of her life, she is the one selecting men.
I once went through a lady's messenger and the unread messages there were close to one thousand. All classes of men were in her dm or either trying to get her attention. Some were merely reacting to her status or just sending stickers.
Although social media is not reality, the truth remains that most of the single ladies get all the attention they needed and can settle down if they wish.
Whenever a lady is the one searching for a spouse by herself, it's either her prime is over or she is a single mother. Even if she is the one searching, she can always find around her church, school, workplace etc.
The ones that are genuinely single will even have people meeting them on behalf of their sons, brothers and friends.
I was once at a place and a woman approached another woman. When I asked her why, she said her brother needs a wife.
So whenever you see any woman on any dating site or match making setup, know that she is either a retired hooker, an older woman or a single mother. People in her neighborhood know her too well and are tired of her so she is looking for a guy in diaspora.
This my observation is restricted to my tribe's setting in Africa because I haven't seen how things are done in other climes.
The kind of misinformation you people spew as fact on here is shocking.
I am on a few dating sites but I am not a hooker, single mum or advanced in age.
My job is very time-consuming and does not give me a lot of opportunities for socialising that is why I am on dating sites looking to see if I can find someone, the same thing applies to some other ladies like me
Goo0dHardDick: As a man, You need to pause and carefully study women, esp any woman you encounter. There's something cunny or rather smart about women.
They always put themselves first: Women always put themselves first no matter! You can have money and yet she'll still leave you for a guy who's by far richer than you. Women do not stay where they're not benefiting anything from.
Feelings and emotions: It is worthy to note that her feelings, emotions etc always come first. How you feel about her is completely useless. It is how she feels about you that matters Most. This is exactly why expressing yourself emotionally to a woman is considered weakness!
Decision making: Women are completely ruthless when making decisions and this is why she can a reject a man and won't feel anything about it.
Dressing: women understand this game even better. They know one's appearance can do the job very well. You'll see a broke girl with nothing in her account looking all sharp and sexy with her leggings or shorts only. It's so sad that some men can't even buy good clothes or shoes for themselves. Anytime you go out with a girl or to approach a girl, make sure you look extremely hotter than her by far!
Stinginess: women are completely selfish in nature. Buy food for yourself and for a girl, she'll eat yours and then eats hers after she's done eating yours with you. Before a woman does anything for a man, she must have calculated it properly over and over again and again to see if it's worth it and possibly to make sure she gets her return investment later.
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Now that you know all this how has it bettered your life?
ebubeson: We have good ladies who are not virgins. They may have lost theirs maybe because they were naive, deceived etc.
A good lady with good character but who is not a virgin has possibility of becoming a good wife in marriage.
Now, do not lose your virginity with the aim of using good character to substitute for it in future. Your virginity is for marriage and should not be thrown away. Again, another sign of virtue is resisting pre-marital sex and remaining a virgin till marriage.
Note, several men are looking for virgins to marry, and several ladies are looking for rich guys to marry. Your being a virgin as a lady may give you access to the man you truly want, and your being a rich guy, may give you access to the lady you wish to marry.
Do not sleep around with the aim of developing good character later, when you are done sleeping around. Being a virgin is good.
Finally, if you meet a good lady who is not a virgin, but is very good, you can go ahead to marry her if you know God is backing it. Again, as a lady, if you meet a guy that is not rich, but has potentials to succeed, you may go ahead to marry him if you know God is backing it.
I personally will not marry a man I'm richer than.
Lovelink1991: A caterer has borrowed ₦1.5 million to invest in goods for a Black Market Vendor movie event, but says she couldn't sell everything and is now struggling with the loan.
What do you think she should do next? Drop your advice in the comments
I feel sorry for her and would have asked for her contact details so I can buy turkey of 100k from her but the sight of that cat in the kitchen put me off