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xtervaganza:
she does not love you one bit




I sh1t you not, bro. I've had over 20 girls and I'm currently married. If a lady loves you, no matter how busy she is at school or work she would always find time to call u no less than 3 times a day.



Don't let her form busy at school for you. We all went thru school and still find time to call our sweethearts



Dump her before it's tooo late



Thanks

thanks men. I appreciate. working on doing as you said.

gentleheart1:
@op why not sit her down and talk to her?
I am not the calling and texting type but I don't beg no man for any airtime I do my stuff myself.

if she truly loves or has feelings for u she will be calling because when am I am inlove I stalk the man with calls and texts.
There are some girls out there who ain't good in calling,texting and chatting. Trust me if you check my phone you will see unread messages everywhere and my friends have ignored me because of that

you are honest person. i like you. we have discuss it over and over again. it often leads to quarrel. she claims she is not the calling type. but I don't believe that shit.

Cockyzy:
@poster: sorry,who do you say love you? A girl. A mother is not even capable of love if not for maternal instinct that possess her and force her to love her offspring. God never created women with love. If a girl says she loves you. She doesnt yet understand her nature and makeup.

men you are so so deep! would love to understand your philosophy, pls break it down for us.

Cockyzy:
@poster: sorry,who do you say love you? A girl. A mother is not even capable of love if not for maternal instinct that possess her and force her to love her offspring. God never created women with love. If a girl says she loves you. She doesnt yet understand her nature and makeup.

men you are so so deep! would love to understand your philosophy, pls break it down for us.

fuckshit:
bloody fυςk; fυςking wrong move; hope your love for her is not equally out of fυςking pity?

I fυςking detest it when a human fυςking claims to fυςking love another human out of pity;

Nope! I love her truely and genuinely. I give generously to her to a fault which made you insult me in your first post all because her background is poor just as I would anyone else in such situation even though I am not dating them.

CHESTER48:
To be sincere ad a matured guy now..I am getting enagged soon.but am even having issues with ma wife to be..she works at kaduna.am a doctor here at enugu..
She calls me very single day..sometimes if I don't call her,she call and be angry at me.she knows how busy I am but still she says we have to talk every single day..I am afraid she want me to always give her attention.What about my work..can't loose it for her..she calls like 4 times a day..and wants me to call the same..and when she calls we talk for 30mins each.and me 30mins too or 20..she sends me card sometimes and I do too when she is broke.so guy..your girl is just a student..and this happening..my girl is serving at kaduna..working there..But calls..I attend to patients but calls..beside how am I sure am not talking to a 20 year boy.anyway..focus on your books.tell me your age.lemme give you advice

I am 30 and a blessed businessman by God grace.

[quote author=unapapadeycraze post=44328482]She doesn't love you. If a lady cannot call you, she does not love you.


She is a sarewagba to someone else while she is your queen.


Na God go punish her if thats what she thinks because though I love her, the main reason why she has that access was because i was only pitying for the poverty in her family thats why I am helping her. not because I am a mugu.

fuckshit:
she's fυςking toying with your heart; fυςking use your head; to her; your nothing more than a fυςking recharge card “vending machine"; all she needs to do; is fυςking play with your fυςking emotions; with the fυςking “i love you" comment and she fυςking gets what she wants;

Na God go punish her if thats what she thinks because though I love her, the main reason why she has that access was because i was only pitying for the poverty in her family thats why I am helping her. not because I am a mugu.

Cutehector:
My nigga, take good advice from the masters...



1. Never bring your problem into social media... never ever.. dnt even mix ur offline life with it.

2: if u ever need advice, call one or two frnd's or chat with dem on whatsap and hear what they have to say..

3: quit calling that girl... and pls stop sending her recharge cards. You dnt owe her anything.

we have being dating for over a year and most of the time, its always like that even when she is on break. whenever whenever we talk about it even to the point of agurment most times, she always insist that she truely love me that she is just not the calling type. which as for me I find it hard to believe. I dont give a damn about the recharge cards I only say it so that no one will misconstrued the fact that she dont have airtime to call.

Mustack:
I am in the same dilemma...

sorry my brother may God deliver us. just follow the thread mabye u will get one advice or two also.

Yomieluv:
Ask her what she does with the cards you sent her.

She's calling the real Boo. You are the eleri-Boo.

the stupid girl says she is using it to call all her female friends and her family members. I think are right. I also think she is using me as a spare boyfriend.

Chrisjane:
No

thanks for your direct answer. I get it.

brilliant5:
She's calling her school heartrob. Go find out bro b4 its too late

thanks men, thats my thought also.

Vinshu:
So you want a reward for recharging her phone? She must be calling your phone? Besides she is a student she is busy with school stuff.

She doesn't need to call you. You do the calling.

we have being dating for over a year and most of the time, its always like that even when she is on break. whenever whenever we talk about it even to the point of agurment most times, she always insist that she truely love me that she is just not the calling type. which as for me I find it hard to believe. I dont give a damn about the recharge cards I only say it so that no one will misconstrued the fact that she dont have airtime to call.

she rarely call. I do virtually all the calling. I do the giving also. yet she claims she loves me. sometimes I wonder maybe its because she is a student. but I am not convinced. Matured ladies on Nairaland, please I need your opinion;

Is it possible for a woman to be in love with a man and yet not call him regularly or text him once in a while but flash him regularly even though he recharges her phone often?

pacino26:
Wait o, na breakup you de find strength for? Shilekeeeeeee

Do you have a job, like a job in the real sense of BUSY? I think now is the best time to volunteer for a yr long field operation, equip a sidechick to compete FASSSSSSST.

Note: my suggestions are due to the fact that you're FEEBLE MINDED no offence bro. If you really have principles and ethics you live by, then you'd know that your WORD is your bond. Start respecting yourself by keeping to whatever decision or words you've said and I promise you that automatically you will never go back.

'My balls and my words that's all I got in this world'
Rick Ross

thanks men.

ifitumiojo:
In a tym like this you should try Jesus!he will give you a helper that is for you![color=#990000][/color]

thank you my sister

ednut1:
Dis cant be real abeg. U beta go see babalawo

I wish its not my story

abimic:
Better severe ties with her, my girlfriend dare not cheat on me and tell me she loves me, God punish that mouth, I won't even talk to her again, if she like dey stay my compound. I can share everything with somebody, but I can never share my woman with anybody. I take no shit! Don't say we didn't tell u ehn, when u marry her and she brings a man to the matrimonial home, moreover, having known u can't do without her, u would still act the woman always. Brace up and slam the door on her bro, it's high time you got over her, she's not worth your anything despite the years. Or have u being enchanted?

thanks men

grimandevil:
Guy is easy but hard, u need discipline, warn her not to visit you again if she does insult d day light out of her in public. Tell her part 2 of a bigger insult go come if she decides to have contact with u again. Trust me she go run but if she no run.

If possible try play love do d sending nude pic thing first . Once u have her nude warn her if she comes close to u again, ie after the public insult, u will post her nude online. An show seriousness.

I had a girl like that na public insult and changing line for good and deactivating my fb and other social media like whatsapp. Registered new Sim and new whatsapp account. It really helped

What I wrote looks wicked but trust me it maybe d best way out of this

thank you. I appreciate your advice. I will try your suggestion.

Oktoberfest:
U are not ready 2grow

please what do I need to do to out grow the emotions I have for her.

ettaetta:
chai the juju wey she use on you really strong https://m.youtube.com/watch?sns=tw&v=0iq_pkXsMv8

so I suspect.

Meeloreh:
Is she an edo girl?

no.

ettaetta:
Did she use love charm on you? Wny not dump the b***h now before she cheats on you when you get married. That girl will bring you alot of pain in d future, i know its going to be hard but make up your mind to let go. Stop seeing her, Stop calling her. If she calls you dont pick. Delete everything that reminds you of her like her pictures, phone number etc. https://m.youtube.com/watch?sns=tw&v=0iq_pkXsMv8

I have done all that before. I it only lasted three months before our path crossed again and we started dating again and thats why I came to nairaland to see maybe someone can help me with and advice to end this sh*t for good. my brother what you are saying is like telling a lame man to run because you can see that he has leg. I have tried I just dont have enough will power to. I feel like a fool.

Daniel2289:
Are u in2 blood convenant with her If No. Then b man enough and find anoda Girl.

finding another girl is not the problem. my quest to find another girl to replace her turned me into a Casanova. I feel like a fool often, like I am not a man like I cant make a simple decision. I have tried sleeping with other women and starting other relationship but it just didn't work because I find myself coming back to her even though presently I still retain some of those women in my life . .the problem is how to end my relationship with her and move on with my life positively without her, that the problem.

yomi007k:
Go 2 ur village n find out d real cause.

ok

ehix89:
the jazz she used on u must be from edo state or ijebu ode...jeez, u cant break up wit a serial cheat wen pple r ending 40yrs of marriage cos of cheating...na wa

my brother thats the situation I find myself oh. may God save us from karashika

please I am new on nairaland and i need advice.
I have a girl I am dating for the past four years and she is cheating on me. I having being trying to break up with her for the past two years but I've being unable to achieve that. the longest time I had stayed break up from her is 3months during which time I blocked her on social media, refused to call or pick her calls and closed all ties with her but but our path crossed again and soon we started dating again. the problem is that she still cheats and I have marriage in view. she is 23 and I am 30 and can't marry a serial cheat.

Recently I asked her severally to break up and call it quit with me since she can't stay faithful but she refuse claiming that she love me and what I can't understand is how can a woman love a man and still be sleeping with other men.

I need my sanity. I feel like a fool often, like I am not a man like I cant make a simple decision. I have tried sleeping with other women and starting other relationship but it just didn't work because I find myself coming back to her even though presently I still retain some of those women in my life . I feel I have been jazzed or under a spell. I have tried prayers its not working.

she is OK if I am cheating and tends to encourage me to do so once in a while but I don't think that's how an healthy relationship be.

please call me whatever name you want to call me, insult me if you like, It doesn't matter I just need advice on how to end this relationship for good and move on with my life.