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My own is beans, so much like it while growing up, but can't even think of eating it now.

I will just make Abrahimovic my class captain and wisdom will prevail in the classroom.

The Anambra State government has given an executive order ending the Monday sit at home been coordinated by the proscribed IPOB in solidarity with Mazi Nnamdi Kanu it leader who was illegally arrested, detained and convicted on charges of terrorism and currently saving at the sokoto correctional center.

Your question should be , "how have you been feeding well since Tinubu became president". Life as a salary earner in Nigeria today has become the more you look the less you see.

War and it's outcome. Life goes on for the man.

Good way to go, but people will be out of job. Nothing without it's disadvantages.

I see malami serving his term in ABA .

My wife knows my password and do have free access to my phone likewise I to hers, that does not stop me from doing what I want to do, I do with respect and honor codedly . Relationship is mutual respect.

Lexzeey:
In every family there's these uncles and aunts who knows nothing about you, they don't even know your name sometimes or how you survived into adulthood but feels you owe them allegiance whenever they see you.

first off I know it's an African thing to always respect people older than you, and before you crucify me I am also an adult now with his own adult life, I keep to myself and I don't force people to respect me as respect is earned.

A family member died and we all came back for it, coupled with the holidays, the whole extended family was present including some of those in diaspora, I'm an introvert so I keep to myself, I generally greeted everyone when I came and sat in my corner.

Then there's this useless Cockatoo who drank free beer until his brains froze, first he kept talking about yahoo boys, how they dress a certain way, how they do all sorts to be rich, how they kill people to be rich, they both with soap gotten from herbalist, they don't go to work yet they're living fine, they have cars at a young age etc.

Now when you're talking and you don't call my name trust me I won't answer you. Even if it's obvious you're talking about me, and from all indication this man was talking about me, one my mom is dead, two I earn online and don't physically go to work, third I am not begging I'm doing okay, but I still didn't pay him any mind, then he indirectly started talking about how they don't respect people enough, he was so pained for some reason and condescending.

I just got up and went to a shop outside our family house, as I was buying something this weyrey came, I got what I wanted and turned to leave and that was when I felt it, waaam at my back, this guy slapped me on my back, then he asked me directly, didn't you see me? Don't you know I'm your uncle?

I lost it, and like a reflex I slapped him back hard it was a resounding slap, he staggered backwards, and my cousins held me, before I know it has spread that I just slapped uncle whatever his name is, what's painful is everyone blamed me, for being disrespectful and suddenly it didn't matter what he did, I'm somehow supposed to attone for it.

this man didn't know how I survived till adulthood, not even a penny of his went into my upbringing, I don't know why he felt I owe him respect and allegiance, even if I did, why does he have to go about it that way.

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. I can relate to your situation, I was supposed to beat up two of my uncle's this Christmas period but I avoided them and ended my stay in village for the holiday for peace to reign for now. But I fit still beat them tomorrow if them continue there nonsense behavior. So guy you could have stay away from him and avoid all this village talk.

A Keke rider here in Onitsha once told me he sometimes make upto 30-40k a day, depending on charter he gets, that normal morning rush gives him 10k - 15 after expenses. Don't no how true this is.

Albertone:
The fear is in this kind of scenario where the wife starts contributing financially, she stops seeing the husband as the head. The husband loses all forms of authority and she withdraws submission.

In my opinion, this fear is very valid as many women are like that.

A man has to be a man, when you lose guild on your authority because a woman is spending more than you then be ready to be under her, how you started and mentain your family goes a long way to determine how it will continue and ends.

Village man has posted again, travel you say no, socialize you non gree, come dey open mouth dey call South East for a common Niger thing.

This is a common fruit here in Anambra State na, it's called sycamore here, it's test so good according to my kids, I don't eat it and don't like the smile...

Albertone:
The fear is in this kind of scenario where the wife starts contributing financially, she stops seeing the husband as the head. The husband loses all forms of authority and she withdraws submission.

In my opinion, this fear is very valid as many women are like that.

I think it's valid when the man fails to stamp his authority as a man before hand, no woman takes over power from a conscious man with strong will and authority lace with appropriate leadership skills as women tends to obey and stay under a man they see as father figure and rule models.

Kobojunkie:
What you described is a mule, not a helpmate. It irritates you to use the actual word but not the description? That one is on you.

what is your definition of a mule and help mate?

Kobojunkie:
You trained her therefore she is a mule for you? Yikes! The way you put it, ehn...🥱🥱

using the word mule is just an irritating language to use for somebody's partner and help mate.

Funny enough my wife is a nurse and work in 2 different facilities, I trained her and paid all the bills while she was schooling without support from her family or mine and now she is working and financially doing ok more than me, so you are expecting me to still plan my family with only my income by the idea of this your post? ... The truth is that every family is unique and no family are the same, so what works for you might not work for me. To me this your post is a beautiful nonsense as far as my family is structured.

Double0h7:
I would never speak to my child like that. She is a human being and her purpose in life is not determined by her relationships with others. That’s a dehumanising statement to make about your own child.

na people like you dey spoil piking, what is dehumanizing in that statement now? .

Stephen0mozzy:
Isn't this a treasonable offence?
Oh, sorry. They're northern folks.

who order you to say soooo, don't you no the real owners of the zooo

MT:
Irrespective of what happens in Nigeria, the US has no legal right to say they want to launch military attack on another country uninvited

The US created the global rule-based system which Trump is currently destroying. There are diplomatic channels that countries use to communicate. No sane country comes to social media to plan war.

When US voted a convict as President, no one talked. When guns are killing them in their thousands, no country threatens to attack the US. US and any allies help are welcome but not through disrespect. Right approach has to be done.

Nigeria has legal right to go and kidnap somebody in Kenyan because diplomacy is not needed, so US can invade Nigeria to wep out government terrorist because us don't negotiate with terrorists. So calm down .

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thesolutions:
He said nothing meaningful in an attempt to be politically correct.

Nnamdi Kanu inspired criminals to take advantage of your people. Whether he is part of the criminal gang or not is left for him to prove before competent court. You are expected to observe and note the events that would unfold as time passes to know if he got served the justice he deserved or oppressed by the state owned judiciary.

Nnamdi Kanu created more enemies for your people by taking advantage of your people pain to create imaginary strength that the people do not possess making them claim to possess what they do not have and take responsibility of crimes they did not commit.

Peter Obi should be ashamed of himself for commenting about the case.

We all know it was deliberate witch haunt but they could have saved him by calling his bluffs a long time ago. But they kept quiet and allowed him assume the leadership of non existent Indigenous people of Biafra, a title bestowed on him by the federal government that you want to head.

Everything proves that you are not smart just like numerous of our people down home.

It will only take days before he is forgotten.
You can see the writing on the wall.
He has no militants anywhere. They are all state actors posing as his devout militants championing his ill course.

Have you said something meaningful now?

overall90:
My only problem now is that since it is a Catholic school,there might be some Igbo children there otherwise what is my own.

many of them will definitely be Igbos, with my experience serving in kebbi state, many of the boarding students in schools there are igbos so this Niger state incident that is a Catholic facility will house more Igbos. May God help us.

It's disappointing hearing this from kebbi state, a state that is already disadvantage in education, a state were school teachers can't speak simple English, even with free textbooks, notes and furniture students don't come to school, those who make attempt to come angrily go back home when there are served meal they don't like... It's was a whole lot of experience being a gwandu copper.

Rapmoney:
If you are not an 80s or 90s kid, you nor go fit relate with this photo lai lai. Can you guess the title of the movie? Fond memories. Childhood was awesome.

my kids still watch this movie till date. It's one of the collection I downloaded for their entertainment and any day they remember the film it's always on repeat until they get feed up for the day.

God bless you for this work, I just got surprised that central hospital was converted,don't no what this our leaders are doing, if I may ask is there any other hospital around king square apart from Stella Obasanjo? It's been almost 10 years I visited the city of my birth and growth.

naptu2:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2025/11/mowaa-okpebholo-revokes-land-title-as-museum-clears-air-on-status/

EmperorIsaac:
Jesus showed you mercy...it has nothing to do with oluosun

J Jesus always uses somebody to get to us in times of need.

obonujoker:
But the voters number was poor... They used to be millions people that come out to vote.

INEC has to resensitize the citizens

this time around na citizens go sensitize inec ooooo, because everything done change... You can't keep on disappointed people and expect them to keep faith.

God1000:
I think that was a hasty response from Nicky Minaj

Donald trump should mind his own business in America and leave us alone, the solution to Nigeria's problems will come from within, not from outside

and who will bring the said solution from within?

Northernblood8:
Yoruba man does not believe this

and you think you can make heaven with this your violent post? I will block you at the gate and show all heavenly travelas this your post and supporting pic.

nothingspoil70:
This Mike Arnold of a man is truly a CIA agent sent to do some dirty jobs in Nigeria but Ipobs are supporting and cheering him on to scatter their country. History will judge

you are among the problem of this country, why calling ipob in an issue of government failure that has Lead to lost of thousands of lives and properties, ending most indegens as displaced person's living in camps...