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Maeve7:
Maybe because it’s hard to respond to something this daft as this comment.

Women, generally speaking, know what to wear to church, what to wear to work and what to wear to seduce their husbands.

What each man or woman considers indecent though is highly subjective and differs from culture to culture. You can wear a bikini on the beach in many countries and you can’t even show your arm in others.

Off point 😅

This tweet has generated over 2 million views in 24 hours and not a single woman has disputed, argued, or given a clap back. Safe to say we all know what we are doing


https://x.com/shxkxbabu/status/1861146768035008584?t=ahEx8KZwhZ_KjRoEesqTnw&s=19

Please is yellow card a good platform to start crypto journey?

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Windblown2much:
Is any screentouch?

No

crackhaus:
Funny how it's been loads of personal stories and no one actually answered the question...

Very funny

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Maeve7:
Words mean different things to different people so who is a mommy‘s boy?

I have an uncle who is in his 50s and has a very close bond with his mother. He visits her (a widow) almost every day and goes out of his way to make her happy.

The mother stays out of his marriage. She and wife have a good relationship.

Not everything must be a problem.

Mommy's boy means the same thing across dictionaries: "a boy excessively attached to his mother"

Klass99:
Of course men will choose a daddy's girl any day, any time, because they know that when they are broke, lazy and slacking off their responsibilities of paying rent, school fees, and other bills, daddy will step in and step up to do what they are meant to do, because daddy can't bear to his golden child suffer needlessly.

Can you men please learn to admit the truth to yourselves and tell yourselves the truth as well. A daddy's girl will always be the best in your eyes because of all the perks/benefits you stand to gain from being attached to her, especially if her father is wealthy or from a rich household/background.

Certain perks start from the wedding day like a car gift, a house, then it contonues afterwards, proceeding to a prestigious job for the husband, trust accounts and inheritance for grandchildren etc. While daddy may not like his daughter's choice of man or hubby, he still does right by her and her family.

Daddy's girl*, not rich man's daughter*. There is a difference.


Assuming your view is true, do you agree that men raise children better than women?

EreluRoz:
No, useless men takes after their useless father, it's hereditary.

LMAO


Mommy's boy dictionary meaning: A boy excessively attached to his mother; lacking normal masculine interests.


How's the above definition related to hereditary?

EreluRoz:
Mummy's boys are the worst men to be with, marry them at your own risk

Okay, so do you agree that women raise useless boys/men??

Men will choose a daddy’s girl any day, anytime. This is because these girls are considered the best, always and forever.

But women don’t want mommy’s boys.

1. Do we subconsciously agree that women ruin their sons' lives?


2. Do we also agree that men raise children better than women?

LMAO

Acidosis:
Congratulations to you and your family. I can’t imagine what you’ve been through! But, I have a few thoughts about your experience at the government hospital.

The same frustrating and bureaucratic system you mentioned is the reason I still can’t forgive myself for my wife’s death at a government (teaching) hospital. My wife and I initially started at a private hospital, where everything was going smoothly until an issue arose, and we had to switch hospitals (that’s a story for another day).

While we were still at the private hospital, we went through a few episodes of threatened miscarriages, intense vomiting (no food stays in her stomach for weeks), and bleeding at different times, yet her pregnancy remained intact. Her experience was though, and we had to undergo a cervical cerclage at 16 weeks, which was successful at the private hospital.

Because of "that issue," we had to move to a government hospital at 24+ weeks, based on her consultant’s advice and other people's recommendations. On the day she was to deliver, I was, as usual, given a prescription to get Vitamin K1. I searched the entire hospital (which has more than 10 pharmacies), but it was nowhere to be found. I then went to some of the largest private pharmacies in Ikeja, Opebi/Allen, and Ogba (Alpha Pharmacy, Boluke, Healthplus, etc.), but still couldn’t find it. By the time I returned to the hospital, about 2-3 hours later, my wife had already delivered our babies. One of the babies came out pale and needed a blood transfusion. Meanwhile, my wife was still in pain and hadn’t recovered. But thankfully, the husband of a friend my wife made at the ward was able to help with blood test and all. Like my wife, his wife was pregnant and also admitted.

Anyone who has used a government hospital knows that they won’t give a patient even basic medication like paracetamol unless someone is there to pay and get the drug. Throughout the time my wife was admitted to the government hospital, every blood test required me to go get the collection bottle from one location, find a nurse to draw her blood, take the sample to another location, and then return hours or a day later to get the results and bring them to the doctor. I did this every day for a week—I suffered ehn! This was something we never experienced at the private hospital; all we had to do was pay. I hustled for every single thing myself: the blood we needed in case of an emergency after the C-section was gotten from another private blood bank, the RhoGAM injection she was to take after delivery 'cos of her (-) Rhesus factor, and more. It was a horrible experience.

I can’t write out everything here, but one thing is certain: some of the people who advised us to use a government hospital for the "best care" later admitted that "private hospitals are better." The only advice I can give anyone is to follow their heart.

My wife had already delivered our babies before 4 p.m., but they kept her in bed over 5 hours later until she died. During my research, I later learned that the global standard for women who undergo C-sections is to get them moving/walking as soon as possible to prevent blood clots. Want to know how my wife died, according to the hospital? Pulmonary embolism (a blood clot). And guess what happened to the other man’s wife, the friend my wife made? She died two days later in the same hospital.

I’m sharing this here because my wife was a devoted follower of this page.

Another thing I’ll point out: doctors in both private and government hospitals are often no different. Many of them work in private practice and are rarely available to check on their patients' progress. The consultant who attended to my wife throughout our stay at the private hospital was the same person who performed her C-section. This same doctor works in four additional private hospitals. So, what they do is deliver your baby and then leave. Maybe that’s standard medical practice, I wouldn’t know. However, one thing I’m sure of is that my experience wouldn’t have been as bad in a proper private hospital. A private hospital also wouldn’t have abandoned us the way they did my family. Two nurses who were friends with my wife (she was extremely likable, and everyone loved her during her stay) called to check on us and couldn't hold back the tears. One even laid heavy curses on the doctors cos she knows how they operate. But there was no follow-up regarding the babies’ health and progress. Dem no send anybody papa. Well, I have since moved my family elsewhere. Lessons have been learned in the most painful and devastating way.


Sorry for the long message, and congratulations once again to you and your family.

Damn
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This is too much. If I may ask please, what made you leave the private hospital? If they have been very good like you said, leaving shouldn't have been an option except maybe their billing was too much.
I'm so sorry man.

You will regret it if your relationship with his daughter goes sour. You'll be stripped off of everything you are and have. That includes your identity, value, your children and their identity, and more.

A man who can go this far for his daughter will do more to destroy you if you if for any reason whatsoever her daughter decides to end the marriage. It is not a question of right or wrong, but power play.

spencekat:
Indirectly, you are saying there may not be anything called Karma?

Bad things happen to good people.

BigYash:
This is why I always think that any wife who fights her husband from hanging out with side chicks all the time,was once a side chick,directly or indirectly..What goes around,op does what? Lakaka!

On a more serious note.. You don’t need to sleep with someone’s partner,before they sleep with yours these days.. The world no get conscience again.. All thanks to the western world and social media.. TikTok(bad advice from finished people) ,Facebook (for connection and secret relationships) and WhatsApp (private chats that will be can always be deleted after 24hrs) These three sites en.. Lakaka

The fact that you didn't sleep with someone's spouse doesn't mean they won't sleep with yours.

Farming is only productive and meaningful when done on a large scale.

A million micro gardens won't solve the food crisis in the nation. You would even find yourself spending more money and wasting economic hours on your garden. This is the same way you people deceive Nigerians and push them into micro poultry and cat fish business. Till date, I'm yet to see a micro poultry owner who is not counting massive losses. Every single person I know has failed.

Why do you have to labour all year round just to eat a few corn 🌽 when a single day job can get you the money you need to buy a full bag of corn?

Look, Western nations are not stupid. A single farmer in Australia can feed 10 Nigerian states. That's how farming works in the developed societies.

Until Nigerians stop seeing farming as a poverty alleviating scheme or something that require petty senseless manual labour, nothing will change. Let us treat farming the way we address the oil sector or cement industry and wait for a massive transformation. We don't need 100,000 Lagos residents to plant corn on their 2 by 2 overcrowded space. All that is needed is a man like Dangote to buy up the entire Sambisa!

Alcohol influence.

Oldnairalanderb:
No o I'm not going for that one. I can't afford it. Still searching. Just sharing the alarming rate accommodation cost These days.

Okay. Good luck to you

You want to live in a 400k apartment with a salary of 120k

120k minus cost of food, bills (electricity, data, etc.), and transportation, wetin remain? You're not ready.

I hope he is not one of those men that pressure their wives for a male child?

RIP to him.

Are you people not tired of this overrated Sanusi-APC lapdog and his domestic issues??

I blame Nairaland mods mobs and his CV puppets for giving him the little"fame" he thinks he has.

You people should get done with this already and face your lives.

Dcutest:
Urhobo elders in the house I need your advice. Right from when I was little I have always been told by my mum how her dowry has not been paid because her mother in law was against her marriage to my dad so they got married at the registry. I want to know if there will be any implications if my dad receives my dowry, seeing the Urhobo has so many cultural taboos my dad has no knowledge of them has all is extended family lives in the uk and himself was born there .

None at all.

Many fatherless and motherless babies who grow up to become adults are now married. These people don't even know their village let alone some useless culture and traditions.