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With all these end time new abt 9ja women....i wonder if getting married is d right thing to do...as a man..
I'm scared of getting married ooo....
Is beta4me to stay single n enjoy my life...hv 2 kids outside wedlock... that's the best...chaiiii...
U are a 21st Century weakling...sorry..but u deserve it...

chrisifeanyi:
[size=20pt]Is she feeding you? Is she responsible for your children upkeep? Even if she is and then? What nonsense. Nwokem I buro nwoke( you are not a man) Do you even have relatives? Like brothers or sisters? If you are dull every member of your family won't be dull. Complain to them and if you have sisters like mine; na night bus they will use come from east come pursue am. I am very angry right now. Imagine a woman treating you like a houseboy. Which month where you born sef? Which zodiac is that? I need to avoid it for my children cos your temperament sucks. You are far from man. Continue to endure. Rubbish[/size]

Thanks my sister...that was exactly wot i told him....he's less than a man...or was he hyphypnotised?...i feel like beating him to coma....i swear...i hate him already with all my hrt...4 9ja here nai a woman go de do u like rat n being d FOOL that u are...u r there enjoying d suffering for 10yrs...if u r really enjoyin it....4 d sake of ur innocent kids...do something b4 she poisons u....she even kicked u out of ur bedroom....oga sorry but u r not a man...u r even less than a woman...n i dont care if dem ban me....de dia

Are u sure u are alive?..u ain't a man at all...u r d side bf ....u re just waiting 4 d day she'll shoot u in d head...or is she d one feeding n taking care of u n d children ? Wot kind of man r u n wot kind of woman did u get married 2?
I just don't understand hw a man canb dis weak...u r lost...d best tin nw is 2 send dat devil parking.... (that's if u hv d mind...because frm wot you stated earlier u r afraid of ur own woman..)...wit dis kind od wife i doubt if u can stay alive for d nxt 10yrs....good luck...I'm certain she's cheating on u...U BE COMPLETE ODE...that's y she's playin u like card

Hmnn na wow oo....wetin person no go hear again...u get mind tk her back....hmn ur heart big pass d whole 9ja oo...i can never 4gv dat kind woman oo..because he don fall ur hand to d ground...sleeping with men 4 your street na d biggest 4kup ever...u beta go do test...cos i doubt if those kids r yours...

B2Spirits:
My guy is obviously in love, but one thing else bothers him. He was the one that deflowered the young girl. Never used condom, and gal never used contraceptives because she want to be pregnant so that guy won't mistakenly marry someone else, and she is yet to get pregnant.

U sef u no de try at all...u left all this important info b4...na now u de drop am small small...n u expect to get d best advice frm nairalanders...nawa 4 u...edit ur post

alexialin:
Tell her the truth about your new job.. Or are u praying she will fucvk up so u can date one of those giving u green light at work?
But if it's the other way round she will quickly rush and tell u the good news that same day..
Why are men so secretive?

No matter how many times u play detective u can never know a woman till the end.
Those ones giving u green light, do u think they are better?


Well it's your choice to make.. After some years down the drain, and sleeping different ladies who will mess up even with your new status.. U will later starts regretting and remembering this your gf. We've seen it happen before. This not the first.

She'll only tell u because she's not taking care of u with her hard earn money...in this case d guy is d one financing this girl's education...which is number 1 4kup frm d guy's side. ...most guys that did that 4 dia gf ended up gettin dumped by d so called gf...I've seen n hrd of it so many times....so guys b wise...be 100% sure she's worth it b4 taking dat step...

B2Spirits:
The guy was the major financier of the girl's education until 3 months ago. She has run to her relatives to ensure the financing for the remaining final year. But she's behaving like someone in position to advice my friend on how to hustle hard.

How can one tell that her advice and biting sermons are not geared towards her own selfish needs?

Note that she has done the worst since the guy lost his job, but the love he has for her made him unable to send her packing. The gal cheated on him, she became restless until she told him and begged for forgiveness, saying she doesn't want him to find out first.

WTF....he's d one financing her education n she had d guts 2 still cheat on him because he lost his job...i think this ur guy has a very low self esteem...this gurl will continue 2 cheat on him...mk he de dia de sleep....its obvious she's just in for d money...what has she done 4 him....other than tryin very hard 2 get preggy....what is he doing with such girl wen dia are thousands of good girls that will luv/appreciate n cherish him 4 everything he has done....she doesn't even deserve a 2nd chance...pls ask ur frnd 2 grow up...he's 2 jew 4my liking...HUH....na pure MAGA ur guy be...monkey de work sharp man de chop...i can bet my asss she's still cheating...

Listen swsweetheart...don't u think u r being 2 desperate n self-centered here? When he was nobody u never wanted him even though he tried 2 show u he likes u..u practically ignored him...now u suddenly desperately want him all because he's rich ? What abt his Fiancy? Hv you tot abt hw devastated n hrt broken she'd be if he leaves her 4u?
1 tin u shd knw is ...a guy can sense a desperate woman frm miles away...he knws u r desperate n only loves him 4 his money so if u try 2 seduce him he may succumb 2 ur seduction..den turn u in2 a baby mama. Then you'll knw wot it means 2 b a single baby mama in 9ja...
My advice...pls 4get him n move on with ur life...u hv no option here dan 2 start all over frm scratch.....i hope you've learnt frm ur lesson...u can never hold a man with pregnancy...if he doesn't love u...you'll be DAMNed...
Peace dear....n b wise....