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~hmmmm ~hmmmm~ yall am eating some combination fried rice with xtra shrimp and chicken damn it taste sooooooooooooooooooooo good( i love chinese food)oh yea am drinking pepsi with it(my favorite drink too)

awwwwwwwwwwwww thank yall i feelso special (tears of joy) shout out to eveseh (nice pic gurl u look pretty)and Z4M4eva. i really appreciate it yall.

my shoutout goes to ALmighty God (creator of the whole universe),2cantango ,nwoke,and since ion know everybody elses name( sowwy bout that) my shoutout also goes to everyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyybody in hereeeeeeeeeeeeeeee .much luv

i am so addicted to just eating gari like itz some real food~ i just sit there munching on it not even with water i mean soaked gari ~ i just eat it dry like that ~ i hrd it causes chest pain but iono y i am so addicted to it.

kimba:
sorry @cutiepie18,
not at all, a guy doesnt need sex to fall in love with a girl. In fact guys tend to appreciate girls that don't flaunt the sex part. Its more like: if a girl could show that theres more to "her" girl than a night of sex, guys would want to treasure such a relationship.

If Love is all about sex, then he could as well get it from anywhere.

Love from a guys perspective, is more of the "Person", the "real she, herself" in the girl, not the "sex" he gets from the girl. I would rather say most girls percieve that if they give sex to a guy, twill make him fall deeply in love with them(as in expecting him to understand that: now that ive given myself to you, then you give yourself to me, where "self" on the girls part is understood as "sex" and on the guys part is understood as his "heart, his commitment".

Usually, the final part of the I love you to and fro boy girl - is: sex.

And many times than often, after sex, the guy's eye really opens, in fact, thats when he begins to see things as they are, he begins to think about commitment, he begins to think about possibilities: other girls. The (sex'd) girl begins to talk about "us", with a mind-set that "now that we have had sex, I belong to you and you belong to me", on the other hand, the guy, after sex begins to think "me and you, the only thing we have in common is sex", as in "me" first, and then "you". If the "us" thoughts/actions of the girl seems too much to handle, the guy begins to see possibilities: "if I could get to this level with her, then that means ive got something that all the girls want",

in conclusion, the relationship is kaput!!! The guy calls it quits, the girls heart is more broken, more and more, because she thought she has given him her love(sex), shes hurt because that(sex) was the highest act of love she thought she could show to a guy to make him believe, realize and understand the extent to which she loves him. Unfortunately, the thoughts drumming through the guys minds are: "we had sex, so what?".

all i can say is wow~i really enjoy reading ur reply thank you

my part was the coincidence part.how d hell do you think your mother and father getting married the same day is a coincidence. LOL .dat was really hillarious.

thanks guyz well am kinda looking at it another way now maybe it is true maybe it is not .anywaz thanks for yall answers

she visited u with only matchet"wat was she thinking?

I was talking to this guy one day and he told me this:" he said that girls need to fall in love to have sex but guys need to have sex to fall in love". then i sat down and i was thinking bout it and i came to a point of conclusion that it is kid of true because most guys want to get in a girls panties as soon as they see her but some girls are like that too.anywaz share wat you think too/

i don't look at whatz in vogue before i know wat to wear,i wear something that i am very comfortable in looks sexy as hell fits me perfectly and that when i wear it pplz will look and look again~ am not really a fashion freak but i do love shopping.

hecky yea so freaking tired of those shit sometimes they just dont know when to bakk up that is when they turn all irritating ans shit.xpecially some naija boiz sending me e.mail and their number and adding im me telling me all sorts of rubbish saying i love you and stuff i look at them like wat d heck do you know bout love.dat shyt be getting on my nerves sometimez

mine are ~
smoke
drink.
abortion.
prostitution

9eja,naija,niger,nigeria which ever way you want to put it but don't get it twisted

here is another one~ i just keep on remembering them~ anywaz one time two of my friend were arguing about something and i saw that it was about to turn into a fight if they don't stop so i snapped at both of them to stop because they were starting to bring the people's attention because people started gathering around them already~as soon as i snapped at them to stop that was when hell broke loosed they both turned around and started treating the shit out of me as in everybody directed their attention on me and started laughing jeez you guys should come see real embarasment it was so horrible i just left them alone.later they both came up to me to apologize but i just acted like i didn't see or hear them.i was pissed off.i regretted ever been in their buisness fiirst of all now i have learnt that when pplz are arguing even most especially friend i would let them argue and mind their own buisness ~ let them embarass theirselves then later when everything cools off i would go and talk to them then.

Hotstepper:
ma regret is having all the mosquito bites on ma legs because wheneva i remember how sexy ma legs were that in school den people were jealous and that's how they gave me diz name. I hate lagos and that's why i hardly stay dere when I visit. This is my greatest regret, can't wear ma skirts anymore, dawyn

lol well there is this kind of lotion that you can take with you when next you are going to lagos it keeps away mosquitoes and other insect from biting your legs or other part of your body that you want to leave opened

@emmeno u said it was not much to regret~ well u can say that but at that moment it meant so much to me and my feeling was sooo hurt.

anywaz here is another one~ one time this guy had a crush on me and i don't like him but i alwas feel so sorry for him because he is always trying his best to get at me~ anywaz one time i went to his crib to drop his sis off and when i was about to leave he started feeling on me and i was snapping at him to leave me alone but he was begging for a kiss and i felt soo sorry for him so i decided to give him a lil kiss on the lips ( i feel sorry for u kind of kiss) cuz his ass was thursty as hell.later sha i found out from my friends that he went around telling pplz how cheap i was and that he can get me to do anything he want.oh my God i was so freaking maddd ,and then later sha he came over to me oneday trying to feel on me agian whao i had my time cuz i cursed his ass out bigg time and he felt so freaking embarased.lol .i regretted ever kissing him cuz his ass think i liked him hell no.

When i was in nigeria i had my own cliques and it was me and this two other friend and we are known as "aro meta" anywaz sha we were friend for the longest and then later something happened sha and we split up and then during our split up time one of us started telling other pplz secret out and it really hurts my feeling because that was my hidden secret anyaz the secret got out and pplz found out about me and when i confroted her she had the audacity to lie to myface and tell me she didn't say it.i forgave her but i still regret ever been friends with her.anywaz i learnt my lesson never to trust anybody even your blood families.

@diddy wat am i forgetting?~oh yea u did treat that lil gurl.we know u got our bakk anytime

yupz.i diggggggg.pplz gon be aiit men.

hecky yea so we could have given her ass a piece of our mind.seriously some people are just so freaking wierd.i wish i can tell him to open the topic again.damn i got a lot of stuff to tell ol gurl.

gurl hell yes the user signed in with hotangel20 and she was saying lotz of bullshit bout u,nike4luv,snazzy and moi.i ws so mad but i was like they was prolly depressed or some shit.anywaz seun deleted the page.i wish he can open it so u can see it.

serves them rite~ this new user was saying shit bout people (hotangel20)or watever her name ( she said stuff bout me too)anywaz thanks to seun he deleted the page.pplz need to start respecting other especially when you don't know them stop saying stuff bout them.

wat do u want to do~ iwant to win the national spelling bee~. i can't wait to go see dat movie really badd,i t seems intereting.

yupz i will stick to padz as long as am comfortable with it shiiiiii itz all goooooood