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VinnyBaba:
RIP to her.

Just hope it's not a case of a Girl who Pursues PREEK bcus of iPhones.

It might be a case of a jilted lover who has gone rogue or a jealous lover who felt she might be cheating on him. We have handled a lot of cases like this.

ItisWell22:
What if she was killed by an angry, poor man?

You can’t be too sure sir.

Exactly. Might even be a case of a jilted or jealous lover.

cremedelacreme:
The guy na mumu man. You dey go open shop for girl wey you never marry.

Why would the girl return the shop? What of all the free kpekus you don dey chop since? Who will pay for it?

@last statement; No be two of them dey enjoy the sex? Na una they make ladies feel say na guys sex they favour.

virginprincess:
They never had any contract, if the idiot know he was serious why didn't he at least propose, he want to tie the woman down because he opened one useless shop for her, dem suppose flog the idiot sef for constituting nuisance 😠😠

Let her simply hand over the shop keys to him. Make her new hubby open her own. Simple!!

Honestly, NL has gone to the dogs. Only few mods nai get sense.

Avedonn:
He isn’t being entirely truthful. Deep down, I know he misses Nigeria. Yes, life here is challenging, but we still find ways to navigate those difficulties and live happily. Truly, there’s no place like home.

Not everyone is living happily. So many Nigerians are suffering from depression. Go out and see wat people are going tru despite being hardworking.

TinubuCriminal:
Madam Bold Ignoramus, that is not a hyena.
Where was it written that whoever kills an animal can name it whatever except in The Handbook for Illiterates?

So if your illiterate husband names the animal a pig I have to throw away my education and follow his empty brain to call it a pig??


This is exactly why the guy above is advising you that school is not scam. Enroll for adult education today.

See people wey I dey share country with.
How can anybody question the white man when they say our average IQ is 67?


Spits*

Come on man, all these insults are not necessary.

And to think his fellow terrorists were masturbating on the other thread and insulting Israel. Even a Moderator here has showed himself as a confirmed terrorist sympathizer. NL is gone to the dogs.

Back to the Issue, I blame UK. Shey na them they form woke and giving these Islamic bastards free hands to operate. They will suffer the consequences of their being woke.

UK and that Macaroni of France are amongst those giving these Islamic bastards the freedom to do anyhow. They can't try such in China. They wan die?

VinnyBaba:
Michael Jackson obviously.

But if Cristiano Ronaldo had a Noisy personality like Muhammed Ali or Davido,
He would have beaten MJ by now.

Ronaldo is too Quiet, for his Fame!

Una just dey shout Ronaldo. How many people outside the sporting world knws Ronaldo? Most Americans don't even knw Ronaldo. It's an insult including MJ with the celebrities on the list. For ur info, No celebrity comes close to MJ. Btw, where is Mohammed Ali?

Mumusaphire:
MJ, follow by CR7, follow by Beyonce. Wait, who put Eminem there?

How many people outside sport knws Ronaldo and Messi? Yes! Eminem is dammmm popular. Ur talking about the rap God.

othermen:
Not about Osimhen though.

Yesterday, I opened this platform in a conference, and a psychiatrist who sat beside me had a brief conversation with me about the platform. Nairaland was his avenue to get a position for his senior residency over a decade ago…and he spoke about a litter of forums that were on the page designed to encourage critical reflection, dialogue, and shared critique around news events too. But he spoke in such a manner that this was no longer so.

I mentioned that there were other forums that cultivate that habit, but most users are unwilling to engage. They just want the forum on the front page. Then we got into, giving back to the platform by sharing opportunities and other resourceful ideas… but he said the platform has become a garbage of “Performative Engagement.” and other things about overly tribal sentiments … that I struggled to disagree with in the face of evidence.


The conversation got me thinking about deeper psychological undercurrents that shapes user (our) behavior.

I agreed with him that increasingly the platform has become a theater which he described as ‘a place where users chase visibility through shock value and speed, rather than insight.’

Outrageous news stories, often unverified and sensationalized, are uploaded not to inform or analyze, but to bait attention. And with these deteriorated content quality, most viewers don’t even have the patient to engage reasoned comments which get drowned out by reactive posts and one-liners. He argues the forum has cease to serve its intellectual or civic function, and that he left, because he feared he is not immune from such needs, which if not met, can cause him to be disillusioned, and to compensate, he has to respond quickly without thoughts, impairing his cognitive function.

So he spoke about the race and scramble to be the first to comment. Not to contribute depth, but simply to be ‘seen’.

This performative urgency “first to comment,” “front/first page,” “top reply” … he emphasized was some sort of echo or a kind of low-stakes celebrity, and a microdose of relevance in the users of the platform.

“But relevance to whom?” I asked. “Do you know most users remain anonymous, cloaked behind pseudonyms? And that’s there are no tangible rewards, no compensation, no credits, no career gains?” I persisted.

He said such behavior spoke to something deeper than boredom or habit and that it speaks to the increasingly fragile ways in which people seek validation online. The desire to be seen, to be early, to be reacted to…even without name or face. He points out that it offers a fleeting sense of identity which is hollowed out of real connection. He said, privately, users might measure their worth by comparing how they stack up against others, but that dangerously, the users become clouded in stacking up, that their metric isn’t insight or empathy but rather, what becomes prioritized is timing, provocation, and numbers, which in reality creeps into their normal functioning, as people are mostly what they are, indoors.



I didn’t know when I kept nodding as he said that Nairaland has become an extreme echo chamber of digital desperation. He added that it is not simply the platform problem although Reddit didn’t reward such behavior, allowing comments that appears to be based on ranking; but he say, all of our cultural anxiety from using social media is spurred by a fear that we nurse of not being heard in a world where everyone is speaking.

I left, saying, well, I will be less reactive , and not necessarily address the forum topic, rather, there will be an intention going forward, and a realization that attention is not connection. Noise is not relevance. And racing to be first is rarely the path to wisdom. That way, I contribute to the platform devolving away from a space where performance trumps substance, and virality trumps value.

The discuss above has been on my mind for a while now. Nairaland has bcom a shadow of itself.

Thewrath:
6yrs ago,you won’t look sexy enough for someone to rape you,go and sit down!

U never see men dey sleep wit animals like goat, cow etc for news?

Agbegbaorogboye:
Your friend should have taught you how to spell thousand instead of gossiping

Ur tears are tasty and sweet.

A friend told me wit 5thousand naira only u can get a human head in the South West. I wasn't surprised because that is the land of great skullers.

Krismas:
Show me the clip of civilians shot and raped mumu LIAR.
All the guls killed and abducted at nahal oz were IDF but were all in plain clothes.
Hamas didn't know the carnival will hold. Most of the people who died in the carnival were burnt to death by Israeli Apache helicopters.
Look at the video of Hamas operation at nahal oz, were majority IDF died. And some, from Israel bombardment. Cos Israel even bombed their own military base


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E_cS6X0V7kg

The photo is from the carnival. Hamas does not have the fire power to do such kind of damage as u see in d picture.

Now, show ur own evidence

This ur fake news has bn debunked severally. It was totally made up by Hamas Coward lying terrorists. Guy stop lying. I'm the wrong guy u should try this wit because it won't work. Kolewerk!!.
That was how Hamas lied that IDF was responsible for the Al-Ahli Baptist Hospital bombing, which was later confirmed to be caused by Hamas mumu rockets. All these fake narratives have all been debunked except ur living in denial.

Krismas:

How can we verify the authenticity of those pictures u posted?. Ok. Lets assume it's authentic, how many more hostages released has bn found to b a military personnel?

aremed:
Wotowotorism
Am very sure Trump supporters are in pain already, full of regrets

How did u come to this conclusion?

Mariangeles:
Your last comment before this one was on March 29th.

Lol. U b CIA?

Angelfrost:
You are right... anything is possible!

Barcelona did it successfully in the past against PSG, even though it was quite controversial.

Still can't see it happening... Madrid have been uninspiring this season.

Liverpool did it against Barca. Barca won 3 goals to nil at Anfied only to lose 4 goals to nil at Camp nou. But I don't see such scenario playing out again. Madrid tink say na City wey them dey use luck win always. 😂

Arsenal give me joy this night.

Krismas:
Hamas is not boko haram.
Hamas attacks on oct7 was mostly against Israeli military, where about 700 of them died.
Israeli government figure moved from 1,500 t0 1,200 meaning they are just guessing.
And the Israeli health authorities couldn't identify more than 800 people who died oct7, of which 700 is military or related to military.
Rape and beheaded is all lies by the Israeli government

Krismas stop lying. So those civilians I saw on clip being dragged, shot, raped are all military personnel? Military personnel without uniforms?
The carnival they attacked was equally a military carnival filled wit military personnel right?
Pls, answer this question; Which of the released hostages are military personnel? because all the hostages released so far are civilians including Israelis and foreigners.

Moniya4Real:
For the record bro,Hamas really committed a great blunder but Israel has been grabbing lands even long before October 7.

Did u just call wat Hamas did a blunder? U call massacre of thausands Israelis and foreigners a blunder? U call raping them, dragging them around the streets and taking hundreds hostage as a blunder? Maybe we should start calling wat Bokoharam and Fulani herdsmen are doing in Nigeria as a great blunder too.

Salewa97:
Israel is a terrorist state.

The world should stop pretending and call them what they are.

Keep crying for ur tears are tasty and sweet!! Get ur throat cleared up for u shall gnash ur teeth and cry ur throat out!!

FunkyAlhaji2015:
Osihmen is a better striker than Mbappe

Wetin sum of una dey smoke like this?

Fake news

fritiyo:
So India is a mushroom country? Would u allow people to keep exploiting u, cos u want be seen has good person.

Some of u lack sense to understand what Trump is doing or maybe u just hate him for doing the things that put his people

Wat do u expect from an APC miscreant.

Hehehe

Saga16:
But you are ibo na.

North Central ma Chief.

zero8zero:
President Tinubu is far more democratic than Trump. You should be locked up in jail for putting Tinubu and Trump in the same sentence.

By democratic u mean conducting an unconstitutional overreach by removing an elected official by declaring a state of emergency because the governor had issues wit his friend. I hear u sir.

goslowgoslow:
How do you know that he supports Tinubu?

Who in local politics section doesn't knw zero8zero and his cohorts?

cucumbar:
imagine the double standard….these agbadorians are useless hypocrites!

Their level of stupidity needs to be studied.

Chief it's actually annoying to say the least. They are the biggest hypocrites on earth. U will see them in foreign affairs insulting and instigating hate against Trump. But same idiotic elements are the retards constituting a nuisance in local politics section defending Tinubu and insulting opposition voices and tagging them Ipob, Igbos or Obidients. U can imagine the fvkry.