₦airaland Forum

phorget:
It was PDP that caused it...

BLESS YOU!

LordBiden:
He didn't collapse its just a trick to avoid jail term.

I agree with you100 per cent! And suspect there is element of destiny snatching.why Christmas's party in an Islamic school? 35 children ! All those involved should be arrested ,investigated and prosecute if not for anything for negligence.

[quote author=Oluwadarasimi19 post=126885194]OK. Is she alright? [/quote
MAYBE SHE WENT FOR REHAB.

Anny69:
You're pained. Tell your gender to stop killing for money.

Stop killing Women!!! Tell your fellow gender and stop looking for excuses to justify the killings.

AND OK LEASE TELL YOUR GENDER TO LEARN, WORK HARD AND STOP FUCKING FOR MONEY!

Little21:
Dating Nigerian mens, is just like waiting around for the day of your death. And it's just gonna happen all suddenly.

Next thing you are with all the people wearing white, asking where you are.

MUST YOU DATE?

SIN IS EXPENSIVE!

BlindAngel:
Good afternoon Nairalanders,

Please read to the end, It'd be quite an episode.

My marriage of 6 months has almost finally come to an end.

On my previous thread I have posted a lot about trouble we've been having during and after the marriage.

- How she manipulated me with her tears into marrying her despite the fact that I wasn't in anyway ready.

- How she manipulated me with her tears, and refused my pastor to conduct our baby's naming ceremony, therfore giving way for her pastor to conduct our baby's naming ceremony. And called me all sorts of names while crying when I refused and insisted that my pastor will be the one to do it.

Plus other's that I cannot even remember.




Now back to the topic, I will be extremely sincere to you all, I won't add anything and will not remove any. Everything started two day's ago, I was lying on the bed and she came to me crying and begging for me to love her that she's tired of begging for my love all the time, that I should give her just 1% of the love that I've for our son. Just 1% is all that she asked for, I didn't answer her, but later told her that I've tried in the past and still trying but the love isn't there naturally that maybe it's because she forced me into marriage when I'm not in anyway ready that in my wildest dream I never believed that I'd be a married man this year. Then she started crying heavily, went to look for rope and started strangling her neck that she will kill herself that there's no life for her to live, I rescued her. Then, I went to bath and before I came back she has locked the room door, I was hearing endless cough outside the door and pleaded with her to open the door but no response. Thank God the door key is somewhat faulty, I managed to open the door and saw that her eyes are already extremely red and spit drooping out of her mouth, the rope was so very extremely tight to her neck. "I'm still wondering until date how she managed to hold on tight and not let go despite the great pain she was in" next she went tho get knife that she'd stab herself. I was late for work and with the anger inside of me, I walked out of the house, she called me on video call immediately and showed me that this is the end that I should take care of out baby, I immediately ended the call, put my two phones on flight mode until I few hours later.

Immediately I on my phone my mom called me, she has reported a lot to my mom, my mom talked to me and when the heat was too much I walked out of her.

After that day, which is a day before yesterday, she totally changed, she no longer respect me, she talks to me anyhow, she insult me and talk back at me. These are things she does when I newly met her until she totally changed, now she has turned to something else, she bought a school form without even informing me. Two weeks ago she brought one of her friend to stay with us without informing me, when I confronted her she said she forgot.

Today she told me that I'm treating her bad and expect her not to revolt and continue keeping quiet, that this is the end road for me. I guessing that she got this advice from a friend, because she told her friend that she met at antinental everything that has been going on and she gave her some advice.


Today a huge quarrel broke out today which I'm clearly the cause, we were watching a Nigerian movie and I saw a chubby girl and complimented her that she's sweet that this is the kind of body I like that I'm going to search for her on Instagram just to see more of her. I said all this because I've been singing in her ears that I love dark skinned or chocolate women that are extremely chubby or fat. She also don't always fail to tell me that she's on weight reduction therapy "I'm always pained whenever I hear this words from her because she's not in anyway fat, she's fair too and rubbing cream to make her fair more, all these is paining me, she knew what I want but always doing the opposite. I can't resist a chubby girl, but coming home to see her how slim she's always makes me so heartbroken and weak.

The quarrel led to insult, we started insulting each other. She told me to shut up, that I'm an idiot bastard, a fool at 30, mumu, Goat etc.

And I insulted her as well, I'm pained by her insult because as she's supposed to give me some respect.


During the heat of the quarrel while we were still dating, I reminded her how she cheated on me by going to sleep with a stranger In a hotel until dawn, and denied that nothing happened, that the man didn't touch her.

I got to know all this when I she was sleeping and I used her finger print to open her phone and saw her chat between her and her room mate In school, she was still a student then.

"her friend asked her not to go, but she refused and went, on the chat she made mentioned that she didn't shaved that she'd be ashamed if the guy want to have sex with her.

When I saw her chat she blamed me, that I didn't gave her attention on that particular day. This is a woman whom I'm always chatting with all the time, except that particular day that I was extremely busy and told her that I'd be busy but when I'm less busy we'll chat. She said I told her that I was busy but I was online on whatsapp that she sent me messages but I never opened them, that her emotions got the best part of her.

I also reminded her of how she chatted a guy that was always disturbing her. She told the guy that she's ready to date him that he should go and rent house so that she would be coming to sleep there. What made her to write the guy? We had a quarrel, her friend that our last born was far older than, insulted me and instead of her to scold her friend she joined her friend and starter insulting me that I was the one at fault. Note : we were still dating back then when all this happened, today's argument made me to remind her.

I also reminded her of her chat with her friend when she told her friend that I'm a broke guy she's just managing.

But she said she was naive then that things have changed now which I can't deny. I then told her that I will call a family meeting and state all these that sha did during the past, I won't have done it but all her 4 sisters excluding her mom and one of her sister, think I met her a virgin, the remaining 4 of her sisters think I met her a virgin, so I want them to know that I didn't met her a virgin that she has already dis virgined when I met her.


Now back to the deal breaker, she said everything on my body is small including my penis, that whenever she's holding my penis when not erect, God forbid that it looks like a baby's penis. That God forbid our son having such a small penis.

Then I told her that her vagina is very wild that I don't feel anything when having sex with her, that all the prostitutes and my ex that I've slept with are far tighter and sweeter than her that she's has the worst and bitter vagina I've ever tasted in all my life and day to day existence.

Then she kept on hitting about my small penis that my penis is small and that's why I haven't felt anything. Then I told her how many girl's that have cummed during sex, even prostitutes. "Note, I'm not lying, this is 100% true" Then she said I'm lying, that my penis only long but it's small bla bla bla.

Few minutes later, I dressed up and went to church, while going she again called me a Goat, a fool and a Dog.


The decision I intend taking, I intend doing out child's dedication next week Sunday, so in order for anything not to connect us ever again after I've gotten back my bride price.

I have blocked her both numbers on whatsapp and Facebook, and on calls although she doesn't know yet. "note : this is the very first time that I'm blocking her, ever since when we started dating, no matter the quarrel and provocation, I haven't ever done this ever before.

Nothing and absolutely nothing will make this marriage work ever again, I intend calling a family meeting immediately after the dedication to state my mind that the marriage has ended and she should leave.

To me, this marriage ended a long time ago right from the very first day she manipulated me with her suicide attempt and endless tears and calling me wicked, heartless. In which I couldn't bear and I agreed to marry her despite the fact that I wasn't ready, the love wasn't there and above all I wasn't sexually attracted to her. I wasted 4 million plus in getting married to her February this year, and I have accepted my fate. I will do the dedication and call the family meeting to make my stance known.

Thank you all for reading, although I've already made a decision but I'd appreciate your contributions and what you think about all that happened.

GO AHEAD AND DONT LOOK BACK.
BUT WHICH CHURCH YOU WAN DO THE DEDICATION?
TRY AND INFORM THE POLICE OF HER THREAT OF SUICIDE AND ENSURE SHE IS CAUGHT RED HANDED OR WHILE AT IT. BEST WISHES.

Anny69:
🤣🤣Eh, eh, calm down o. Ah, ahn, at midnight you're crying like this. Lmao!

Its my cry, let me cry whenever I like! Case closed.

Anny69:
😂😂All because a man "provides" at home you want a woman to submit to him. Lmao!

No, a woman should only submit to the one she chooses to be it a dog or donkey.

89green:
With all these happenings, if you still think Dele's book has no truth then you need to get some real medical check



You should be asking that why is the old man running kiti Kata left and right or does he think the truth can be surpressed



On point bro, Baba mind no settle at all

IS THE BABA NOT THE LAWYER THAT WAS SAID YO HAVE COLLECYED 250MILLION NAIRA FOR INCORPORATIMG A COMPANY WI 1 MILLION SHARE CAPITAL UNDER OBSSANJOS REGIME? I AM JUST ASKING...
AND IS HE THE PROORIETOR OF THAT UNIVERSITY, FROM THE PRSCTICE OF LAW without corruption? I smell truth in yhe book. My opinion.

Chaseviper20:
Uchloaded

IS THAT THE PICTURE OF HIM PRAYINGWEARING A FACECAP?
WELDONE!

NO NAMES, LOCATION AND IDENTITY, A BIG LIE!

sparko1:
I would have agreed with you except you have at some point being under a man while grinded and this statement is a REFLECTION OF WHO HE WAS, rather than ALL MEN.

GOD BLESS YOU!

maziude:
This is very shallow.

Comparing a job relationship to marriage is the highest form of irresponsibility.

I HUMBLY DISAGREE WITH YOU. HE IS ABSOLUTELY RIGHT. YOU GET PAID AT WORK JUST AS THE MAN PROVIDES AT HOME!

Omoawoke:
Any girl that doesnt respect her father
Any girl that is from a broken home and she’s always siding her mother and hates her father

Any girl that despises her father

No matter how pretty she is or how loving she appears to you as a man, you must be very foolish to wife her.

And any man that marries such woman deserves all the agony they get from such broken men haters

GOD BLESS YOU!

Anny69:
Correction: Men do not deserve submission.

Edit: I had so much fun replying the emotional men-children that were in my comments. Y'all don't deserve submission, cry harder about it! 💋

YOU HOWEVER HAVE SUBMITTED AND GOT HIT PROBABLY BY A TOUT, THUG, APPRENTICE MECHANIC OR YAHOO BOY BEFORE NOW. YOU MAY ASWELL SBNMIT TO YOURSELF FOR NOW BUT PLEASE DONT GO RUNNING AROUND FROM MOUNTAIN TO MOUNTAIN PRAYING FOR A MAN TO SUBMIT TO AFTER BEING THOROUGHLY BROWSED AND WASTED BY YHE TYPES YOU PREFER.

Yugoslavia247:
I'm




Please is the mother at fault.

Firstly, u cut person child hair without informing the parent.

Secondly, u no deliver the hair wey u comot from a childs hair in this yahoo era.

3rdly, goats like those above did not see the evil in that.

Me think the mum is trying hard to create a sceniario and chase clout.
There is no issue here. Make the mother show us her pictures when she was the kid's age.

THE KID KUKU NO GET HAIR BEFORE. SHE WAS BALD ON ARRIVAL AND THE MUM JUST TRIED AND GATHER GATHER THE FEW STRANDS OF HAIR WITH ATTACHMENT WHICH FELL OF IN THE COURSE OF THE KID'S PLAY. MY OPINION SHA!

Kennyswag:
https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2024/11/police-arrest-notorious-child-trafficker-rescue-three-stolen-children-in-imo-2.html

ABOKI DANJUMA NA COP FOR IMO!
NO OKECHUKU OGBONNA OR THE LIKES FOR THE WHOLE NIGERIA POLICE AGAIN?

Kokaine:
Who will buy my benz. C180 1999 model

How much? 09034002040is my whatsapp&utm_campaign number. Contact me with photos. I need it

God1000:
We all know that Kamala Harris will beat Donald trump, except his delusional fans in Nigeria

This election is a fight for good over evil, knowledge over ignorance, and light over darkness

How it a fight for good over evil?
Me think it is a fight for LGBT AND ABORTION RIGHTS over RIGHTEOUSNESS!

Berachahrent:
All things being equal, one year warranty is assured.

Is that you are keeping the price to yourself? WY not keep the batteries under your bed and let us rest?

such unseriousness! How much, no answer.

immortalcrown:
Self control is among the qualities of a Christian. Control yourself until your husband is available for you.

As long as the sexual pleasure does not come from your husband, you are cheating on him and committing adultery. It doesn't matter whether the cheating is with another man or with a gadget. You sharing your husband's entitlement with a gadget is the same as sharing the entitlement with another man.

In conclusion, seeking or getting sexual satisfaction from any source (even masturbation) other than from your spouse is a sin. In fact, using an intimacy gadget is a higher level of masturbation.

For those who will want to challenge my comment, remember that my response is from a Christian perspective because the post is about a Christian. I responded with what is biblically right. I responded with what is expected of a Christian. So, as you disagree with my comment, remember that the topic is about Christian life.

Please support this your opinion with biblical references

Is this still available?

[quote author= post=132488915]Please Anywhere You See Bad News, Draw Our Attention To It, We Will Do The Needful 😡[/quote]Is that the picture of the 28 years old man?

Prise pls

anyitokunbo:
God of the masses how Glorious is thy name.
Keep it rolling lord.
Still counting

That they may see that it is vanity to get all at the peoples expense
One by one Ina families go hear am

Gbadugbakun:
Remove law from there jare. Law in Nigeria is overhyped. You'll need real connections to make it as an upcoming lawyer.

Most of the people I know who studied law are now selling stuffs on Instagram because no firm is employing them.

Those people are not Lawyers by their calling the just studied law as privileged person s or they are women who naturally for practice

AaaTWO BANKS STAND OUT FOR WORS NETWORKS BUT DEBIT YOU FOR SERVICESR EGULARLY NAME TTHEM
I CANT EVEN CHECK MY BALAMCE ON ONE AND THE RTHER WILL NOT CREDIT YOU FOR DAYS!

Me too 09034002040

Olamideayomide:
Vanity upon vanity

Ile aye Asan

Rip to the dead soul

Upon all the thiefert he could not pay to postpone dea the nWho den dey gather the money for? Demall go die