₦airaland Forum

Everybody has a story to tell.both the ones from rich homes and poor homes

Ema tu asiriyi arayin las las because the evil many of you politicians have done to Nigerians,you will to cry to God for months to forgive you

Na always you them dey always attack why??

Anywhere you go violence must follow. Are you the only musician? Wr have the likes of burna boy, olamide,wizkid, tiwa savage, simi, ayra star, asake etc who are doing way better than you why them no dey attack those ones.i even blame vdm for letting you off the hook.if vdm don siddon for your case well you for don learn to behave yourself

Employ who you know and can track o.

I will trust a dog a 100 times and more before I trust a nigerian whether religious or irreligious because the way a lot of Nigerians are moving mad this days and lurking at every slightest opportunity to exploit another is crazy

I remember when I was a kid and my parents were contemplating getting a security guard, my dad decided we should buy dogs and we had about 3 security dogs as at that time and thry were safer,loyal and cheaper instead of employing someone that will be orchestrating how to steal from you.even female house helps are more dangerous. Women just look at the angle that they married a man who can't keep it in his pants and might carry preek go meet the househelp. Forget that angle, she might be dating one egbon adugbo or riff-raff in the neighbourhood and invite that one into your home in your absence. Before you know it that one will invite criminals to Rob you,r@pe your wife or kidnap your kids.

You see anything househelp and security guards if you no know them to the level of knowing their family, siblings, relatives nor employ them o.na baby snake wey you bring enter your house, after feeding it fat to maturity, e go kpai you las las

Instead of househelp get washing machine to do your laundry, dish washer to do your dishes and you can just use hand do the remaining. At least machine don help you take care of 80 percent of your chores

These bloggers should stop shoving these 2 kids without parental upbringing and supervision to our faces.

This is what happens when you have children 1st without ensuring financial security 1st.na your children go dey dictate give you. You nor go even fit correct them because you have no moral justification to do so.you couldn't afford to take care of them so the children had to find their path and succeed. Now that they're successful they don't see you as anyone worth listening to or taking advice from.another person like that is mandy kiss

Happy birthday baba oyedepo

God bless you. That's all I have to say

Tochi360:
Loll na you dey in sefia emotional brutality
We go continue to dey pay tithe,make e pain you well well leave tithe payers alone nor be them tight your sense make you nor fit work na 😁😁😁.

lmao haa we need more buckets o

Wetin consain me with your tithes.na my money you dey spend . Church boys and their naive customers

Pele.i see you want more attempts abi?

Tochi360:
😁😁 Oboy go find work jareh, Church nor be d reason for your frustration na
After you carry hand vote for calamity,you go come dey expect make God help you 😁 face Tpain na im dey scatter everywhere with ebi mkpa wa .

We go continue to give Tithe make e pain una well well .

I Love God,all I have is given to me by My God, after all e nor get any amount wey I fit pay for this Life wey Him give me, serving Him with all my substances and might and essence is why I was created in the first place.

Continue to dey face people matter wey nor join you , anybody don come ya House come cry give you se them manipulate am ni

Nigerians suppose to be the World Wide Stage of Stupid People Person go vote bad govt finish come dey expect miracle from God se you neva hear se after God na government?

o don cast am,body dey pepper am..

Make I bring more buckets so you can cry me a river

Lol another lamba church boy format


Church boys and religious manipulation na 5 and 6

What is it with men and always bottling up everything sef.why can't they say I've tried but My wife/girlfriend can you intervene on this issue.at this point I can't handle it,please step in.that was how the other day I saw one man complaining on social media that he's slaving away in Italy and sending 2 million to his mother, N200k to his siblings yet they still complain its bit enough. Why don't you men know how tobsay no or its enough. Why do you always have the desire to be a hero in everyone's story even at your own detriment

autoez:
The youth in Lagos are highly informed and always ready to embrace technological advancements. Why wouldn’t they engage with the developments of their generation? Lagos State is on the verge of becoming one of the largest tech hubs in the world. After technology, young people should focus on making significant investments in modernized agriculture.

exactly. You're so spot on.but so.e people still want to be stuck in 1991

madridguy:
If the trend continues, Lagos could become Africa’s largest exporter of tech talent — but it also raises questions about the future of Nigeria’s universities. Will they adapt or fade into irrelevance?

as much as I believe in university education the yoruba elders say everybody cannot sleep and face the same direction. While some people will go to school to trained to be professionals,corporate workers or civil servants,some will opt out of school to be tech specialists it's called choice and that's what makes lagos diverse.imagine if everybody in kagos was just a 9 to 5 and traders what kind of state will that be so there's nothing wrong with that

Police don collect. You see the madness,extra judicial killings,sweeping injustice unfer the carpet after collecting bribe and illegal arrest and torture, the police themselves will be the victims of their evil deeds since they have decided not to change.since the people don't believe in police anymore because of their evil deeds,the police will keep collecting. Shebi una talk say una own justice na for sale and na for the highest bidder. Na the result be that .make una no change you hear.keep up with the wickedness

This is impressive and I'm really proud of her.i love seeing ladies succeed in whatever they do but I know poverty striken,frustrated and mental health misandrists wey envy and hate don chop their brain will come here to cry as usual

Women! I fear who no fear women.smh

You don give naija police food.even the ones with tatoos that is just for fashion that doesn't even have Chinese letters will start getting profiled as cultists or yahoo boys

Lol this people are very funny.


Will they be happy if someone comes from no where and says he wants to be oba of anambra or emir of enugu. Always dishing what they can't take

Cromagnon:
if you understand then you will not be talking about supporting small businesses for no reason
only value is rewarded not sentiment
What is the value in giving small biz awoof? cos if you give the woman you will have nothing left to give Geh Geh
Opportunity cost is real
Scarcity is real
Nobody is stopping you from dashing all your money to random ppl that do nothing for you let's see how long you last Nigerians voted for them again and again
They're OK with it again nobody hold you why would I help a stranger when I haven't helped mysel
What will I get out of it
That's not reality

lmaooo chaiii you're mean

So you are one of the people who follow the principle of nothing goes for nothing? abeg let's make the world a better place like micheal Jackson will sing.heal the world ,make it a better place fir you and for me and the entire human race. Ok agreed you cannot change or heal the world but if you give a small road trader a push, you don't have to expect a retun. Nor be everybody you give you're supposed to expect a reward from.

The bible says he who gives yo the poor lends to God

Cromagnon:
there's no value in giving to entitled family who did nothing for the money
It's not ego, it's to support the message. Ppl approve the message and want to see more
What has family or students or street boys done to earn the gifts.? pos and akara sellers provide value and are paid accordingly. their money
Their show
No one stopped you from sharing your money to strangers have you notice they give who they get something from. Yes ego is something. It's branding to use to get more money or women. it will change her life, not yours
Humans only care about their life
Ppl give peller cos he entertains them
Pepper grinder should go and entertain if she wants peller money how is he others concern
What has he done for the money
Why can't he too go online if it's laziness why everyone no do wetin dem de do

I totally understand the angle you coming from and I get it that the world doesn't owe anybody shii and rewards only value. While this may be true there's nothing wrong in supporting small small Buisnesses and just giving them a push for them to even come up.the economic system is already toxic so what's wrong in showing small encouragement to the mama selling corn by the roadside by giving her the N10k you want to give ghe ghe and the likes.the politicians dey show Nigerians premium shege banza,so I just make life a little bit easier for the downtrodden struggling with their small businesses like the boy hawking zobo or the girl selling fruits.

Ok let's assume you don't want to help your family members because a lot of them usually feel entitled, what of those mamas in orange jumpsuit that clean the streets of lagos,pack wastes on the streets?

Many Nigerians gifting online strangers do it from a place of ego or to show say I get money because if it was coming from a place of sincerity, are there not poor people on your family? Are there not students and unemployed boys living around your community or street you can give money,are there no pos agents or akara seller around your street you can give that money to? But because its not coming from a place of love,you want to use money to show.more so have you noticed a lot of Nigerians don't give the people in actual need they give people who already have.abeg tell me wetin peller or ghe ghe or other social media influencers wan do with your N10k or N50k meanwhile there's a woman that grinds pepper at the market that if you give N50K it will change her life,there's a man in your church that if you give 50K he will be able to eat and feed his family

Am I encouraging laziness and stup1dity absolutely not but be strategic in your giving.giving peller gifts be like going to pour bucket water inside an ocean when there are thirsty people around who have not drank water or bathed in days.

Lol I know a lot of actresses do dirty stuff for money but this una obsession with nollywood acress is funny

SmartPolician:
Some people get mind o

How can a woman be comfortable marrying another woman's husband?

The truth is, the females only have dos and don'ts for broke men.

pickmeshas never learn.while ann is Barbra the builder, natasha is a chronic pickmesha so leave the 2 clowns natasha and 2face to be entertaining us.the show will soon be over.judy talk pass this one and today both buddy and her ex husband are making a fool of themselves

Kobojunkie:
I will start with the last part of your submission before addressing the former. Wisdom isn't stewpidity. Standing one's ground as far as one's right is not gra gra. It is simply one standing one's ground on what rightly belongs to one. It's simple!

As for your suggestion that the woman let the sister into her train just for the sake of keeping the peace, well, that is what your mothers and grandmothers also did. In the name of keeping the peace, they ended up elevating the egos of the other party above their very existence in this life. (So, that scenario you described, thinking it amounts to wisdom, rarely plays out in the good of the woman who starts by caving in to pressure.) If we were to chronicle the experiences of older generation women in books, you would find that the pages would instead document how these women, through their many acts of submission, carefully saw to it that they lost their very freedoms as individuals and human beings in the name of keeping the peace/maintaining marriage. Please, do not teach your daughters to live their lives as pushovers for the sake of keeping the peace or any of that other nonsense.

No woman should submit to control of any kind. Rather than seek to placate people who want to deny you even the little freedoms you have in this life, it would be best to forgo marriage completely.

this is not about compromising on your standards to lower the bar.its emotional intelligence and wisdom.if you see say this sister inlaw wan dey stress you and impose herself on you,no need to fight her or allow her domineering behaviour end your marriage before it starts, you let her do whatever she wants. Na she go play into your hands and eventually look like a clown

pocohantas:
Which one is his sister should be her new bestie and closest friend? Damn!



I like visit and go. Even with my own family. I give people their space and expect same. My SIL doesn't owe me any special friendship or servitude.

lol some women no just sabi respect themselves. You just marry you wan dey form bestie with your sister inlaw. Respect her but stay in you lane as a new bride which one be bestie. You nor get friends from where dey come from?

Baronthecelebri:
Nice 👍 one from the man, I support him

lol both the bride and groom are s+p1d.

The groom insisted he wants his sister to be in the bridal train,wetin consain you with girlie matters? You nor go face your grooms men and leave the bride to do her bridal train him she wants it

The bride too no apply wisdom, you for allow your sister inlaw I'm the bride train and then exclude her on all activities. By the time all the brides maids ignore her,don't engage her na she go dey blame herself why she insisted in being in the bridal train when she for just sit with her family or wear the family fabric and come with your friends.there are ways you deal with stubborn men. No be everything be gra gra.

Ahmed0336:
This life no hard
Make the fiancee marry her bridesmaids while the guy marry him sister.

exactly. Abi o

pocohantas:
Your sister no get friend before?
Wetin dey worry una sef?

lol na pickmesha she be