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Nairalanders, I have something I need answers to and I think sharing it here will help me clear my head. My fiancée and I have been living together for four months, and we've known each other for two years. I work as a logistics driver, while she runs a hair salon. She usually leaves for her work by 10 am and returns latest 7 pm.

On Friday this week, I left for work as usual, I had a delivery to make far in another LGA from where I live and work, and on my way back from the delivery I decided to visit my friend quickly (in the same LGA), we had not met for about a month but we talk mostly on phone. While approaching his apartment, something within me just told me to approach quietly (we have a routine of hailing each other from a distance). His house was unusually quiet, unlike him who mostly played music whenever he was home and there was light. He has a backyard that he uses for gym so I thought he may be there working out. So I past to the backyard quietly instead. I saw my friend sitting on a chair and a girl riding him. They did not see me because they were backing the backyard entrance. I took it as a normal thing and decided to go back and wait for him at the main door and call him.

But something caught my attention, the clothes hanging on the chair looked like the clothes of my fiancee, I remained calm to see the lady believing that couldn't in a possible way be my woman but on a closer look she was the one. I was shocked, I never saw any sign of possible infidelity in her. I took out my phone, and recorded a video as evidence. I then quietly left the apartment and called my fiancée, pretending to check in on her. She claimed to be at her shop, I left and went to the shop, her worker told me that she hadn't been there all morning.

I went back to work and continued with the rest of my day. Later that day she came back to the house and I have not said a word about this. It hurts badly.

I am just confused. I am pained, I just don't know where to start from..

I don't want to handle this wrongly hence my seeking for advice, I will really appreciate advice from similar experiences.

It will affect guys at their phallic stages the most.