₦airaland Forum

sweetonugbu:
If it's in Igboland that a Yoruba family was wiped out like this, will the news be quiet like this?.

Must we tribalize everything? Is it a Yoruba man or fulani man that killed Dora Akunyilis husband In igbo land ?

OverCalculating:
President Tinubu has done it again!

So we should be happy despite the fact they our debt keep rising, and no fiscal improvements or developments except in the books .. are we now competing with debtors ? Because we are in the Lower index is a flex , maybe we should rise to the first position of the most indebted country…. NNPC remitted $15 billion but the citizens are still complaining and poverty index has skyrocketed

My own is that, APC has become the Enemy of Nigeria, it’s like APC and cohorts against Nigerians now .,although there are good people there, a lot are representing their constituency very well and preferred but on the federal note… problem dey, it’s them against the people, shey the money never do them? For four years of suffering people no go get any type of relief apart from sharing two cups of rice? After all the suffering and money wey dem don siphon from the masses, na these people dey fund una o

This is very nice

malcom1X:
Guy this thing has happened before. You are going to get her pregnant.
Then you guys will live happily ever after.

This I have seen.

Lastly that thing you're trying to achieve in life you won't achieve it since you'll be looking after a baby. And baby needs to eat.

If he is not double dating then why date a girl that you can’t marry? Are you just trying wasting her time? If he truly loves her, he no go reason like this , I was begging my girlfriend to move in with me in my 2 bedroom flat when her pako house burn , she lost everything I was even there to quench the fire, rented pumping machine to pump water from inside canal , yet everything went to ashes … but she refused and went to stay with other girls at another pako house again .

What’s the essence of dating if the love is not there? If he truly love her , he will be happy that she came home .. better just cut the relationship off instead of waiting to decide on a later date , he has already decided

Coder2Client:
I’m someone who isn’t ashamed of being single.

I’m 36, and I’ll be 37 in December.

The honest truth is that I’m single. I’m not currently dating anyone. It’s not because I don’t ask women out—I do. But I’m not someone who enjoys talking too much, and sometimes the thought of having to constantly communicate, explain myself, and maintain a relationship feels stressful to me. Maybe that is one of the reasons I have remained single for this long.

My lifestyle is also very regimented. I have a routine that is so predictable that someone can almost tell when I’m at home and when I’m not.

Money is another major issue.

I currently earn ₦200,000 a month before tax, and I don’t have a side hustle at the moment. Sometimes I look at my income and wonder how I’m supposed to build the kind of life people expect from someone approaching 40.

I have even lied about being in a relationship when I know I’m not.

I’ve told people I have two children, even though I have never had children. I did it because I wanted people to stop asking questions and putting pressure on me. But ironically, while trying to escape other people’s expectations, I think I have ended up putting even more pressure on myself.

For a long time, I genuinely enjoyed being single.

The peace was beautiful.

No relationship drama. No constant explanations. No arguments. No pressure.

But lately, that peace is beginning to feel like loneliness.

I miss having someone.

And that is difficult for me to admit.

Another thing about me is that I give up easily on relationships. I can enter a relationship today and, a month later, lose interest and walk away without even properly explaining to the woman why I’m leaving.

I know that isn't a good quality.

My life has also been somewhat of a slow journey.

I started school at 11. I finished secondary school at 22. I completed tertiary education at 32. I started my teaching job earning ₦20,000 a month, and today, at 36, I earn ₦200,000.

You would think that increasing my income would make life easier.

But every time my income increases, inflation seems to move the goalpost.

What used to feel like enough no longer feels like enough.

And then there is friendship.

I have always struggled with keeping friends. Even as a child, I realised I didn't really have a flair for friendship. Today, I honestly don't have anyone I can confidently call my close friend.

I even remember a time when I would give people money just so they would play with me.

Looking back, that hurts.

I don't drink. I don't smoke. I don't party. I don't womanise.

At work, I joke around, interact with people and eat good food. From the outside, I probably look like someone who is doing just fine.

But deep down, there is a part of me that genuinely misses being in a relationship.

I can go an entire month without making or receiving a personal phone call. Most of the calls I receive or make are work-related because I’m one of the leaders at my workplace.

Sometimes I wonder how I got here.

I don't think I’m a bad person.

I don't think I’m unattractive.

I don't think I’m incapable of loving someone.

Maybe I just became too comfortable being alone.

Maybe I have built such a structured and independent life that making room for another person now feels difficult.

Or maybe I simply haven't figured out how to balance my personality, finances, career, friendships and relationships.

I don't know.

But lately, being single doesn't feel as peaceful as it used to.

It is starting to feel a little boring.

So I’m genuinely asking:

Are there other men who are like this?

Men in their 30s who don't drink, smoke, party or womanise.

Men who have very few or no close friends.

Men who have become so comfortable being alone that they don't know how to let someone into their lives.

Men who are not necessarily unhappy, but deep down, still miss having someone to come home to.

I’d really like to hear from you.

I’ve been what you are longing for but now I’m in your shoes …and that’s where I found peace ,..

I’ve live most of my life pleasing people, loyal to friends , loved women with my heart and never had bad intentions for anyone but what did I get? Betrayals , the ones that could have sent me to my grave or make me lose my sanity..

the peace that you have now is priceless and the moment you start giving people chances into your life, watch how you will lose that peace.

most people can’t even stay alone for a day, they need someone to feed on its energy, they need someone to function well .

My advice is that you should pray that God gives you a good woman , a soulmate, someone that understands you and is not coming into your life for interests or unknown intentions but true love and wants the best for both of you ..

the issue now is, that’s one of the hardest things to ask right now considering what the world has turned to ..

most people are damaged beyond repair but they all carry smiley faces . Betrayals, manipulations etc .. can cause severe damages to a human being , so be careful who you let in.

peace of mind, mental clarity and being able to be alone and be independent are priceless

A government that shows immense love for Its country as a Name and a Cooperation, instead of showing the love and loyalty for the betterment of its people will witness developments and progress in the books and not in the heart of its people

-Deetin 2026

No be only Plato and Aristotle be philosopher .

yinkus6750:
2027 election is going to be highly interesting
Spoilers everywhere, split votes across all regions.
Shocking outcome likely to be expected

There is nothing like spoilers , people will vote for who they want , just like it happens in any sane society , Kanye west contested for the president of USA and got 50 votes… nobody called him a spoiler, people are free to vote whoever they like , unlike this place where they are being forced or using fear to control the process.. i wish we can change the voting system, America takes a week if not more to vote, you can easily walk there and cast your vote when it’s Convenient for you but here , we are stuck with archaic systems but current with inflation and things that does not serve our people right .. there’s freedom to vote and be voted for so let the best candidate win

89green:
Ok, return to your hole with your story.

Return to your hole with your story, that’s all you have to say … I see .. lol … it’s stupid to engage someone like you . You’d rather scare people than be reasonable and factual, that’s the way of the terrorists

Normal normal shawa na nonsense fish I still prefer panla, Titus, cote even sabalo if you calm down to remove the bones is very sweet but this shawa, I’ll never understand, it dissolves in soups, heavy smell, bitter sometimes, and not delicious.. Easily tires me … no matter how you try to package am . It’s a waste to me

Davido should be very careful, good idea if he wasn’t flaunting cultism all these while..

they better not use it as an avenue or opportunity to recruit members or rather as an avenue to settle old scores .. Lagos no be for the weak and this thing he’s trying to do must be arranged with full security awareness and security presence if not, might be the beginning of his fall because of opportunists .

And they should all desist from glorifying cultism regarding the nature of their Occupation, including burna boy and potable , all artists that are glorifying cultism . It was called secret cult but now it’s an open cult to these people and when the gbege go start even them will not be able to control it or show face , na to run enter their bullet proof motor with their bouncer and security and japa from the scene .. let’s be guided

89green:
Una go just wake talk anything. Provide evidences that Iran is a terrorist country.

This man,so the way they are hanging their citizens every now and then , just google how many citizens Iran has executed this year, for speaking out or protesting…Iran was former Persia that was islamized in the 1970s and up till today no peace anywhere, Saudi that is one of the only Islamic countries that is peaceful wants to be dragged into the mud with them. Now they are desecrating the holy land but the likes of you will say yes that is good . Iran has backed a lot of terrorist groups and funding them .. seems your knowledge is limited to the reality of things

By the time they start kpaing them en masse now you will be hearing free yemen

This is not about Mr Easy because I think the guy is okay , hardworking on his own and not a broke guy … but what I’ve noticed is that , men that marry for money are always subjected to obedience, not like defiance is good but , if your wife is richer than you, foot the bills and literally the source of your income, you can’t go against her wish , not for once if not , you will suffer for it and be punished..

so , men that married for money are always loyal and a slave to their marriage . That is the price that they pay for being such in the first place; grandiose , respectable and rich outside, a slave inside because the rich wife is just using them to cover her own shame of being labeled as an unmarried and unlovable woman .

Those men go through a lot , and considering our Naija guys that always go abroad, most of them na one chance - the moment they reach there , it’s like a kidnap, all your life dey the oyinbo hand , the only benefit is that you Dey abroad , you can’t help your family, if your papa or mama die, dem fit no allow you come home , you Dey find better life but now you are a slave inside oyinbo parlor , that’s the reality and if you move , dem go blow your head off with gun or you can run away and become an outcast and wanted fugitive in a strange land 😀😀… I’ve seen it

Make it an habit to ease yourself every morning when you wake up . Some people go for days without excreting, that’s why. have the habit of going to the toilet first thing in the morning to release all the waste of yesterday, that’s why you farted in the church and wanted to send everyone to early grave. If you visited the toilet before you went to church, your fart no go smell

A state without a well organized government will turn to a state of anarchy where life is Brutish, nasty, poor , solitary, ugly and short .

-Plato

That means fuel will go to like 2k to 3k per litter they will say they made profit , and the investors will be happy that they made money only that purchasing power of The naira would be worse so even if you are happy that you made a profit your body go Tell you for market , and that’s if election goes their way . We need to have foresight and understand the dynamics of the way of this country. I was telling my friend that , if this was genuine and not suspicious , It won’t be advertised to the masses like they bar e trying to help them . It has never happened in Nigeria that they want to help the common populace to get rich ,like everybody literally, instead, the elites and moguls would have shared it amongst themselves with their billions of dollars

All roads that leads to kogi from the west is blocked as we speak. No going out or in … I won’t say much so as not to offend our good representatives in the government. So pathetic

Why Nigeria as a country no get a working refinary and now relying on Dangote , an entrepreneur to serve the whole country ? . With all the trillions of borrowing and crude that we have , why can’t Nigeria build its own refinery that works to ease the stress of its people? Why is it that none of the presidential candidates has promised or use it as a manifesto to build a refinery? Why is the money for The coastal road not used to build a refinery instead? 🤔

They have light water road, employment, everything that Nigerian politicians campaigns with they have it so nothing to do again than to own the moon

Bros , stay strong , be like say life don tire you

There is a funny story, wether true or not I don’t know about a guy that found Ghana must go full of money and a pistol untop of it inside bush . He then took it to the nearest police station to report what he found , the story goes he was beaten to a stupor and detained for weeks to suffer well well for he was told ,” you be fool … you can never make it in life again “ .

Thank God say na the Masses go vote

The economy is bad , some
People can’t beg thus armed robbery , kidnapping and ritualist , drugs … but some are just naturally lazy and lack etiquette , giving Nigeria a bad name

Judolisco:
I think work is ongoing there

You think or you know? , you are not sure. Which work is going on there? I have video evidence up till this morning … people are stuck there as of this moment . Let’s stop deceiving ourselves

What about Obbo ille-Eruku-Egbe road to kogi via Kwara state is that not part of Nigeria? Federal Road for that matter..people have been stuck for days on that road ..

Dem dey kidnap NYSC members that are traveling from camp to Abuja, you Dey think to apply for agricultural bla bla for north … they wan use you as a cannon fodder … see the photo caption sef … okay , continue

Sweetie

Wow, I knew him
Personally, very nice and outspoken man , with the love of Nigeria in his heart .. may his soul Rest In Peace

Arostar2023:
Hahaha…Peter Obi was in the ballot the last time , same as BAT and Atiku. The so-called masses have experienced BAT first term as president. Both the other leading opposition candidates are well known to the Nigerian masses. What other convincing do they need at this point? What emotions are you talking about again? Nigeria is not America…vote nonsense and suffer undiluted gbege for the next 4 years. My hand no dey oO!

You might be right about what we have seen so far , it’s very disappointing, but there’s what we call “ from Frying pan to fire “ …. As for me we deserve to know what’s in stock for us , not because mr A and B has not done well then we opt for Mr C that we don’t even know what he’s capable of doing . as far as I’m concerned, I’ve not seen anything tangible thing than when I was governor I did this I did that , Nigeria is a country not a state , so let me say as we As the masses deserves to know what’s in stock for us , even if I ya the regular lies but not Wise to choose the unknown over the bearable, this is politics that we are taking about , the welfare of the nation … things can get really worse or better … a proverb says “ the devil you know is better than the angel you don’t know “ .. so we deserve to know what everyone that claims to be our angel 😇 plans to do with us .. if they lie then we can call them out