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Sapasenator:
If she cheats on me, I will move on with another girl and cut her off and she knows the consequences. If I ever have a reason to doubt or suspect, That is what I will do instead going physical with her.

lol,ok oh

Sapasenator:
Do you doubt me?

am nt doubting u oh,am wishing u d best and praying dat u dnt change ur mind of buying her car and allowing her party by den,cuz words are easy said dan done

Sapasenator:
Don't worry, I am the type of man that allows my wife to go to a party alone with her friends. I have no jealous bone in my body.

hahahaha,alrt sir

Sapasenator:
I can't because I will buy a car for my wife and she will never be needing a lift from co-workers. If I ever suspect the guy, I will ask my wife to invite him home so I can have a chat with him.
I am not the jealous or suspicious type.

i jst pray u remember all this things ur saying wen u get marrid,wish u d best

ottajah:
I think these may have been the reasons he asked you to take down that introduction...It is because (1)You can never tell who is trailing you to hurt you seeing you are a manager work for the former governors wife..Even if the position sounds big with small salary..this could become a danger to your safety or security...
(2) Secondly... careful and do not show too much emotions as it could paint a different picture about you...Just maintain some level of balance...When I saw where you come from .,.it caught my attention cos i ocmw from the same state...
I care about you so much ..I can also see you spent a little bit above just two days on this platform...
thanks Princess

tnks a lot fr atleast beliving dat am nt fake,,cuz i notice dat any little comment i make on this forum,people do say am a guy and d call me names like moniker,whch i dnt even knw d meaning of that

Sirhush:
You see female don't just understand there self. Yes because as a married woman I don't see any reason you will be close to other gender and you think nothing will happen. Abi no be we men ni

But the way I see that marriage, is going

my dear dnt mind all this people dat pretains not to see anythng wrong wit wat she is doing

Sapasenator:
Starvating the baby was a reaction after the man went "physical" on her because of a mere suspicion.

Do we even know the level of the "physical" altercation? The man had hurt his wife and expected her to carry on as if nothing had happened. This singular action will draw the wife closer to the other guy if there is anything going on.
He will be the one consoling and helping the woman to heal from the abuse of the husband.

dis is nt an excuz at all

Sapasenator:
So taking a free lift to work, saving on transportation cost, so she and her husband can have more money at their disposal is now tantamount to cheating.

Just pray you never come across or marry an insecure sensitive man like the op. Your eyes go see pepe.

ok oh,v heard u,,bt wat abt u marring dat kind of wife? Dat wil starve ur bby n stop cooking fr u all in d name of seeking attention frm men outside?

FRANCISTOWN:
I would appreciate if you would delete your personal information from this post abeg.

i dont know how to do that deleting oh,cuz am using a small phn

FRANCISTOWN:
If you're indeed a lady. Then you are trolling. 21st century Nigerian girls' IQ be like 0.2

itz ok sha,i dnt jst wanto creat any issues or cause problems,bt am saying wat i would v done if i was in his place

Sapasenator:
Is there any evidence of cheating other than the suspicion of the husband? Did he catch them red handed in the act?

Are you saying giving someone a lift is tantamount to cheating? You don't known how stressful and costly transportation is in Nigeria.

you dont really get it,go back to the storyline u wil see were d man outlined that she is starving their bby,and she has stopped cooking in d house,,and dis her co worker has being dropping and picking her ,wat are u saying? Look cheating is not only by having sex with another persn outside,,what she is doing is cheating,and she is disrespecting the man by doing that,and she dosnt v regards for him,,imagin collecting another man malt wit prinklings fr ur hubby,datz see finish and manipulation abeg,,anyways me i read meanin to little thngs oh,bt itz ok sha,he should handle it his own way

Sapasenator:
You support domestic violence right?

i dnt support domestic violence,bt i dont support cheating and manipulative women always trying to claim right

Jackanda1:
A woman throwing around private information like this recks of insecurity and desperation.

I suspect you are 40years and above or you're physically challenge?

Whichever your situation, i hope you achieve your aim. Everyone deserves happiness

plz am nt being desperate,am jst trying to clear u dat am a girl,,search fr Dee prin cess on facebook datz my accnt,am jst new to dis forum,and besides am using a small phn,i jst read news and comment,datz all i do here,if u guys wants me to stop commenting,i will

Blackbishop:
This kind of reply don't come from ladies which begs the question if truly you be woman

hmmm,am tired of people asking if am a woman or not,plz u people should allow me rest,,search facebook for Dee prin cess datz my accnt,am a lady plz,or abi i shouldnt b commenting on any post again?

Jackanda1:
A woman throwing around private information like this recks of insecurity and desperation.

I suspect you are 40years and above or you're physically challenge?

Whichever your situation, i hope you achieve your aim. Everyone deserves happiness

hmmmm,plz rest

FRANCISTOWN:
It's either you are above 40 or you are trolling or it's a male behind this female moniker. Most likely it's a male behind this moniker 'cause you laid lots of emphasis on "being a woman" in your posts.

A 21st century woman cannot have the sense your moniker has displayed so far.

Anyways! Nice strategic moves.

ur nt d first persn saying dis,,bt am a gir,my name is Joy,from cross river state,am 24yrs old,i base in calabar,i work at AD_PLAST NIG LTD,for the wife of the former deputy governor of cross river state,as a Manager,,,,,,,supply/sales of plastic products,and kitchen utensils at Bassey duke along bedwell,,,wat else do u wanto knw abt me? jst dat am a total different specie,i dnt entertain rubbish and irresponsible humans

Proserpina:
Go and help her pack her bags then.

Don't forget to buy Pringles and Malt for the road .

nice rolling with u,v a nice day

Jst open up to him that u were only joking,,bt i thnk u should v done this since,,,dnt marry him witout him knowing d truth,if not ur marriage wil be ur worst night mare

Les:
i can swear it that she has done something with that man, how do you Explain the unsolicited malt and prinkles? OP the guy man piping your wife no rate you o at all, malt and prinkles for piping your wife? teach her a lesson and be willing to lose your marriage, but if you save it while doing so, your win, you are still losing now that your wife is cheating emotionally and perhaps, sexually too

swears ur on the same page with me,,,cuz a guy buying u malt and pringles to gv ur husband for house,after ur sitout date with him dun see ur husband finish,,,live all this people trying to run away frm d truth,,d lady is cheating and trying to manipulate the husband with malt and pringles,,send her back to her mother abeg,,mayb at 40yrs she wil start runing frm prayer house to prayer house,looking fr serious man and happy marriage,tomoro d wil say nigerian ladies,,i dnt even knw y i came as a lady sef,cuz dis genda detest me a lot mitcheew

[quote author=Proserpina post=131137821]Lol... Park and go . That's how easy it is to dissolve marriage. If he has problem with the new person coming, he will send her away too right? .

From Op's story, his wife is naive (only a naive person will give a gift from opposite gender to his or her partner) . She's yet to understand what marriage entails and I believe she has a lot of growing up to do, same as Op. Both of them need to learn to settle misunderstanding

There is nothing like the wife being naive the,,she dosent place Value on herself,,and u said no cheating,,wat is the meaning of allowing a man pick u to work from your marital home with a car,and drop u back,without u as a woman thnking how ur husband wil feel?? and starving ur own child,and not cooking fr ur husband? not giving ur husband attention,bt seeking attention frm men outside,is dat wat u call wife??already d other guy is making way to have sex wit hr,,nothing like naive,send her to her mothers house,let her go n continu d

Cesarr1:
Name ?

The Witch

dhiqson:
Sigh Okay i said Your message was duly noted I was being sarcastic with my comment

seen

Proserpina:
So in all, Op's Mother will bear the brunt of two stupid individuals' failure. Do you know what it takes to raise a child especially for an aged person.

Lol.... My our mothers get the rest they need

so you advice the man to go beg the wife like the other commentator did? Or he should continue accommodating a cheating wife? Cheating is nt only by having sex outside,,bt wat his wife is doing is cheating and disrespecting him,,she dosent even have regards for him,,my dear better fr him to look for another option and send her out,cuz giving another man outside that go ahead to come and pick u from ur marital home to work and drop you back,is a red flag shikina,i hate rubbish,u wil park and go back to ur mothers house asap

[quote ae not having an affair with the man is already wrong, worse is that you don't even know it's wrong and worst is that shes standing tall trying to outshine her husband in an argument over his security. Igno.[/quote]i agree with wat ur saying,duo some people here wil take my advice offensive or wat ever,bt a man dat dosent behave like a man is a red flag for me,wat his wife is doing is cheating in relationship,duo some peopld belif that cheating is only by having sex outside,bt it not,,her eye is outside already,and she dosnt even have regards for the man any more,by collecting malt from another man for the husband,for me i take that as mind games and ways of manipulating him,,if its me i wil send u parking,bcuz a guy coming to drop and pick u from ur marital home hmmm, me like this i do read meaning to little thngs oh,datz y i jst hate rubbish

dhiqson:
Sarcasm flew over you ma'am


Ohh, and i just skimmed over ur posts on nairaland and im quite impressed... No unnecessary vile comments

But I'll like to say, most ladies that make sense like this (referencing ur post) they are averagely fine like me
Or body wise, it's just not there
So which is which??



If it sounds offensive, you don't need to reply

plz can u type n drop dis comment again? Cuz i cnt get ur writeup here,tnks

This is rubbish,tomoro d wil b moving frm one prayer house to another looking fr husband and happy home,,,women with small brain,,am a lady bt i jst hate all this unnecessary complains,starving ur own baby and husband and seeking attention from men outside,,usless,,if ur my brother,i wil advice you to throw her out,call your mother to help u with the baby while u do ur business and move on with ur life..i hate rubbish

dhiqson:

Man
You're insecured!
It's just help assistance and harmless malt nd biscuit
Why are u gettin so worked up...
Pls go and beg ur wife
And let peace reign

ur not talking like a guy,,am a girl bt i wil never advice dis guy to go beg her,fr wat?Wats his offence that his wife dosnt plce value on herself? What should he beg her for if i may ask? If ur my brother i wil advice u to take the baby to ur mother or invite her around to hlp u take care of the bby while you do ur business,wen she is tired of rubbishing herself,u ask her to park her things n live ur house,,her eye is outside already,d is ntin u cn do,move on with ur life,,tomoro d wil say nigerian girls,,mitcheew

I need a friend till the End like Chuky

Watch an interesting movie,the witch about a girl with misterious powers,crushing thousands with just a flip of a finger

Minimum wage has being increased to 70,000 for the government workers,,what about the self employees and the private workers? how are there going to cope with the economy? cause it is affecting everybody

Peacfulmindset:
Is there a way I can politely decline sex from my man?

3 times per day is way off the roof for me.

look for somethng doing,get ur self busy and live d house,,cuz d more he sees u,the more he gets honey,jst get a job and b occupied,u wont b having dat chance to stay at home for him to b having sex with u 3times a day