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Karlifate:


Lady A is not a 'relationship' option for you, but if know that she'll provide other benefits such as connections to people who can help you etc, you can keep her around.
This would be easy for you, if you've learnt detachment over time, but I doubt, because you feel 'attached' to her cos you guys have had sex, which she can still use to manipulate you, sooner or later.


Now, the Lady B reminds me of many church girls have met
Is she a pastor's daughter?

They're very wild under the sheets, if you're on top of your game & know which button to push at every point in time.

I no get strength, I for type this my NYSC church gal(s) story


But then, you're still in school, keep your options option, you'll still meet gals that are more better than those two.


Just keep working on yourself.
You won't regret it. 💯

Karlifate:
Lady A (long distance relationship) is in the same school with you?

OR

Lady B (likes you genuinely) is in the same school with you...


I don't quite follow

Karlifate:


In this day & age, long distance ships usually end up capsizing, they don't sail to the dock.

To me, it seems you know what to do but you're just scared of taking decisive action, due to reasons best known to you — Probably sunk-cost fallacy.


BTW, is the other one in the same location with you?

If yes, then she's your best bet.

Karlifate:
Self Esteem and the Truth about ego.

When can something hurt your ego?

Only when you’re not secure about it.

If a 3 year old tells you about how you look so funny, would you care?

But when the same thing is said by a friend of yours, you get defensive instead of doing some back and forth banter at each other.

This happens because

If you had 100 Women begging to Bleep you, would you care if a girl tried to hit your insecurities?

No.

Because you’re already secure in your own skin, knowing that you have an abundance of everything in life.

Her remarks cannot penetrate your skin, and if she tries to cross a boundary, you can simply next her.

When you try to defend yourself or get hurt by small remarks, it shows that you’re not secure in them.

It can only hurt your ego if you consider it as a threat.

But when you’re secure, abundant, dominating your path everyday, you simply won’t care about society and whatever it tries to tell you.

Game has a huge application here.

It will teach you the right mindset, behaviors and methods to cultivate this kind of secure life.

Learn Game, become secure.



📖 Masculinity Brotherhood

PaChukwudi44:
You yorubas are just too funny.Buhari will dump Tinubu and nothing will happen.The worst thing that will happen is that EFCC will come after Tinubu and send him to jail

Egoat:
Funnily enough, election in the southeast has been peaceful so far.
Lagos has been marred with vawulence more like the last kick of a dying horse.
Tinubu might come a distant third.

Kobojunkie:
1. HAHA! Do you do a background check on every girl you meet?

nonhuman:
who is stoping you from going to contest elsewhere if you can, local champion cowards

OlawaleBammie:
Na dem go start am, na dem go dey cry fawol

ibrahimdoc:
IF DANGOTE leaves lagos, he will not be felt economically, but if igbos leave, Lagos will sieze to exist.

Seyiemath:
All the smelling Yorubas are from Lagos, even the ones that lives in huts and shanties in Osogbo, Ijebu 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Lagos is a slum, over rated gutter.

I am Yoruba, just incase you want to quote me, We yorubas are highly stupid

BABANGBALI:
Africans and sex be like bread and beans





*Aseju ni condom🙄 flesh to flesh ti wa ok*
*To those who don't understand Yoruba!*
*It means education is the key to success*

waynetee:
They are very foolish, they do not know all this propaganda that igbos are rich is a set up by Northern oligarchs to make them sensitive and happy and it makes them easy to control since they believe anything that makes them feels good

They even told them they own 73% of Abuja and 60% of Lagos and they still believed it till date (you can google it) while on the record hausa, fulanis and yorubas owns almost all of the industries ... And they leave them with shops

How can a tribe who has never tasted federal power since 1967 have the most wealth?

In reality, hausa fulanis owns atleast 70% of Nigerians wealth today and i doubt igbos can make 5% but they will not believe it because it will make them feel bad

Ask them the name of those industries they claim they own in Lagos and i can assure you they will never be able to point at any. In essence, the rich ones are silent.

Goodconcept78:
THEY ARE LOOSING AS USUAL FROM TOP TO BOTTOM NOW

Asgard13:
Is that all?

Oya rant on

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