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Romance10 Bad Behaviors That Make Men Dump Their Girl Friends by dotman19(op): 2:13pm On Jan 01, 2015
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Men and women are Created differently. They have different ways of expressing and varying levels of emotional understanding. Avoid making silly mistakes by getting a few simple things right. These are some of the ten most common mistakes women make in a relationship.

Firstly!!! STEALING!!!!!

1. Too many questions about the past:The fact that your man is in a relationship with you currently is proof enough that he is in love with you and has already gotten over his past relationships. While it’s good to know a little bit about his past, don’t take the liberty of digging so deep that his wounds freshen up.

2. Visiting his workplace: This is quite a sensitive issue as most men don’t like their girlfriends dropping in at their workplaces without being told. It is only if you are in a steady relationship from a long time or engaged that you can take the liberty of dropping into your man’s workplace uninformed.



3. Bringing up marriage: If you have been in a relationship for a long time, it’s but natural that you will talk about marriage and settling down at some point. You may have a conversation about this once but don’t bring up the topic again and again. You will be at a loss if your man gets irritated by the same conversation taking place repetitively. It’s not that men are averse to commitment; it’s just that they take some time in taking these important decisions.

4. Pretending to be someone: If there is anything that men hate, it is lies and hypocrisy. Many women make the blunder of pretending to be what they are not in reality. For instance, if you don’t like putting on makeup and dressing too much for a party, don’t do it just for him. He will immediately sense your discomfort. He would much rather appreciate and love your honesty and expect you to be what you are.

5. Compare financials: How would you feel if someone compared your salary figures to that of your contemporaries? Terrible, surely! Although in today’s world, women see themselves as equals to men, men still think of themselves as bread earners of the family. Treat your man with respect irrespective of his earning. Don’t ever make the mistake of comparing his financials with others.

6. Don’t attempt to mend him: Accept him with all his flaws and abilities. Don’t try and mother him to change his habits according to your needs. Give your man his space and watch how that automatically brings him to you.

7. Giving too much freedom: If you see your man talking to other women at most of the parties and even going to the extent of flirting with them when you’re around, take that as a warning signal and strike on it as soon as possible but don’t be rude, do it politely and in style. You may be making a terrible mistake by trusting your partner blindly with such behavior.

8. Expecting expression of feelings all the time: Men are not used to constant expression. For instance, you should expect a compliment from him once in a while but if you start expecting it every day then you are calling for trouble. You have to understand that just because men don’t express the way in which women freely do; it doesn’t mean they don’t love with passion.

9. Talking negatively: If you Naughty Lady about others in front of your man all the time (once in a while is acceptable of course), it will make him feel that someday when you are not together you will talk about him in the same way with other people. Don’t make an impression on him that you are a negative person.

10. Comparing Looks: Impress your man by showing some confidence about how beautiful and attractive you look. It’s not your outfit but your confidence that attracts your man. In trying to fish for compliments by comparing your physical appearance with other women, you are just making matters worse.In-addition: Women often commit blunders with men in relationships.


It’s a matter of understanding that men have a certain way of dealing with things that is different from women. Once you get this point, you will be much more comfortable and at ease in dealing with the men in your life.

Source http://.com/2015/01/10-bad-behaviors-that-make-men-dump.html
PoliticsJonathan Has Run Out Of Ideas – Buhari by dotman19(op): 1:35pm On Jan 01, 2015
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The candidate of the All Progressives Congress in the 2015 presidential election, Maj.Gen. Muhammadu Buhari, has said President Goodluck Jonathan and the Peoples Democratic Party have run out of ideas.

He also noted that the administration had equally run out of excuses for its inability to provide quality leadership for Nigerians.

Buhari said this in a New Year message to Nigerians on Wednesday.

He noted that announcements made by the Presidency and its agencies over the last one month, had dampened the morale of many Nigerians.

According to him, President Jonathan and the ruling party have devalued the Naira which means that the price of goods and services will rise thus increasing the burden of ordinary Nigerians.

In the statement signed on his behalf by the Director, Communications of the Buhari Campaign Organisation, Mr. Dele Alake, Buhari said by Presidency’s own admission, he was promising Nigerians a tougher 2015.

Buhari was quoted as saying, “Our opponents have not only run out of ideas, they have run out of excuses for failure.

He said, “Indeed, the Presidency has declared a regime of austerity that will be executed in 2015. To quote the press reports, the President himself has declared that year 2015 shall be “tough” on our people.

“Against this season of despair foisted on our people, I bring to you, a New Year Message of hope and optimism. I share the anxiety of the middle class and the poor who have borne the brunt of the policies of this government for so long with increasing burden.

“I share the fear of the unemployed whose hopes for new jobs in the New Year is being dashed because companies will cut jobs to escape spiral inflation. I share the concerns of the manufacturers whose import-dominated production will be challenged by the austerity measures.”

Buhari urged leaders to eschew the cynical habit of wishing Nigerians a happy New Year when their actions were calculated to undermine their happiness.

He pointed out that it was impossible for the vast majority of Nigerians to enjoy happiness given the scale of corruption, impunity and indiscipline that currently incapacitated the Nigerian state from fulfilling its obligations to the Nigerian people.

He said the country desperately needed a disciplined and visionary leadership that had the capacity to fight corruption.

“It is only some Nigerians who have access to the corridors of power and benefit from the monumental graft that characterises governance in the country today that can enjoy their perverse and ultimately futile form of happiness,” Buhari said.

Buhari called on Nigerians to vote out the Peoples Democratic Party, promising that his administration would ensure “cheaper electricity, food security, accelerated power supply, integrated transport network, free education, affordable health care service and effective security of life and property.”

According to him, Nigerians cannot enjoy the dividends of democracy owing to corruption, impunity and indiscipline that currently incapacitate the country.

He added, “Nigerians must be the sole object and focus of government. Man must be the pivot around which governance revolves. The more the potential of citizens are maximised within any nation, the higher will be the prospects of that nation for attaining greatness. The first great task facing Nigeria today, therefore, is to put in place a government that can guarantee the safety and security of Nigerians throughout the length and breadth of our country. This is because Nigerians must first of all be alive, safe and free from fear before they can exercise and utilise their talents for the benefit of their nation.

“I declare, that, collectively, we can bring an end to this season of despair; we can bring an end to this avoidable fear; we can bring an end to this needless anxiety. On February 14, 2014, the Almighty offers us a historic opportunity to chart a new course out of the tragedy that we have found ourselves; History offers us a chance to correct the errors of the past. Great Nigerian people! This is our chance!

“…My message to you is to use your voter card on February 14, 2015 to liberate our country by voting for a real happy new year for yourselves.

“This is the type of leadership I offer and for which I humbly seek the mandate of Nigerians at the polls this New Year. I am confident that great days are ahead of Nigerians. I therefore enjoin us all to keep hope alive. The glory and pride of Nigeria will be restored both internally and externally this New Year. Renew your faith that, for Nigeria, the best is on the way and by the grace of the Almighty, I shall meet you there. Happy New Year!”

Source http://.com/2015/01/jonathan-has-run-out-of-ideas-buhari.html
CelebritiesJim Iyke & Nadia Buari Split Again? See Evidence by dotman19(op): 9:14pm On Nov 23, 2014
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Jim is calling another woman the smartest he knows..Lest we forget,that used to be Nadia's title. Last year, Jim took Nadia on a world trip for her birthday.

This year, she celebrated her birthday on Nov 21st without him.. instead he was in Vegas a day before her birthday, and he didn't even mention it..

Turns out, he was with there for another birthday celebration, and he showered so many praises on the mystery lady..
"Happy Birthday to arguably the smartest woman I know. Your warmth, Elegance,kindness, Beauty,utter brilliance and unnerving sexiness holds everyone in and beyond your presence spellbound. @27 and already a Proffessor of Law speaks volumes of the calibre of lady you are. We all chose Vegas to celebrate you. It's been Epic! You re friggin Alien and I love ya! #VegasChronicles"

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Source http://.com/thread/1528/jim-iyke--and--nadia-buari-split-again-see-evidence.html
PoliticsNollywood Actress Bukky Wright To Quit Acting? Goes Into Politics (see Photo) by dotman19(op): 2:19pm On Nov 23, 2014
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Bukky Wright, has joined the league of Nigerian entertainers, come 2015. She is contesting as a member of the House of Representatives at the the Abeokuta South Federal Constituency, under the Social Democratic Party.

Source http://.com/thread/1527/nollywood-actress-bukky-wright-to-quit-acting-goes-into-politics-see-photo.html
CelebritiesDamilola Adegbite & Chris Attoh Christen New-born Son, Brian by dotman19(op): 1:39pm On Nov 23, 2014
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Engaged couple actors Damilola Adegbite and Chris Attoh Christen their 2 months old son, Brian, in Accra, Ghana. Dami recently returned home to Ghana with the baby after being in New York for months to give birth. Photo credit: Ovation International.

Source http://.com/thread/1526/pics-damilola-adegbite--and--chris-attoh-christen-new-born-son-brian.html
PoliticsDSS Operatives, Soldiers Raid Lagos APC Office [see Photos] by dotman19(op): 12:09pm On Nov 23, 2014
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Operatives of the Department of State Service and soldiers yesterday stormed the All Progressives Congress data centre in Lagos located on Ajibola Street, off Allen Avenue, Ikeja, were they ransacked the duplex and confiscated computer hardware which contained essential documents of the party. They also arrested about 25 data agents and three security guards.

APC has however condemned the invasion and released a press statement to that effect.

Read the statement below and also see more alarming photos.

APC strongly condemns invasion of its offices, calls it worst political scandal in nation's history

The All Progressives Congress (APC) has strongly condemned Saturday invasion of its offices in Lagos by security agents, calling it perhaps the worst political scandal in Nigeria's history.

In a statement issued in Ijebu-Ode on Saturday by its National Publicity Secretary, Alhaji Lai Mohammed, the party said the invasion can only be likened to the Watergate Scandal that led to the resignation of US President Richard Nixon in 1974, as a result of the June 17, 1972, break-in at the Democratic National Committee (DNC) headquarters at the Watergate office complex in Washington, D.C., and the attempted cover-up of its involvement by the Republican Nixon Administration.

It therefore called for an independent inquiry to fish out those who ordered the needless and unprovoked attack on the offices of the APC and ensure that they face very serious consequences, irrespective of their status

''Saturday's attack is another one in the string of attacks and illegal actions of the PDP-led administration. The attack was unwarranted and unjustifiable. To attack one of the offices of the opposition party, APC, where legitimate operations of the party were being undertaken is an act of fascism and totalitarianism. To the point of brigandage, the invasion of the APC centre is an assault on the APC and its entire membership across the country. It must not go unpunished,'' APC said

The party said though it had been tipped off about an impending attack on the 'secret warehouse' of our leader Bola Ahmed Tinubu, ''we dismissed such plan because there was no 'secret warehouse' anywhere and also because we never imagined that the government will attack the offices of an opposition party in a constitutional democracy. Obviously we under-estimated the desperation of the Jonathan Administration and its worsening proclivity to impunity.''

Giving details of the invasion, the APC said in the early hours of Saturday morning, a combined team of men of the DSS and OP-MESA stormed the Bola Ajibola Data centre belonging to the APC in the Ikeja area of Lagos and arrested about 25 APC data agents and 3 security guards.

''In what was a gestapo-like operation, the APC membership data centre located at Number 10, Bola Ajibola street, off Allen Avenue in Ikeja, came under siege between the hours of 5:30 am and 7:30 am on Saturday. An operation of terror and brigandage was unleashed on a legitimate operation of a leading national party. They came without a search warrant for the premises. Over 50 security operatives drafted from Abuja operations blocked the two major street entrances to the APC data entry centre, pulled down the gates and spent over 2 hours ransacking and vandalizing the centre.

''More than a dozen computers were destroyed. The server was also vandalized along with other equipments in the building. Just like the Watergate scandal in the USA, the state-sponsored security operatives apparently acting at the behest of the ruling PDP government turned the office upside down, and pulled out and vandalized everything in sight.

''If the PDP-led government and the security agents had done due diligence and acted professionally, they would have known that the APC data centre is a legitimate operation and the staff are Nigerian youths who were left jobless by the Jonathan government. Apart from the Lagos centre, the operation is decentralized and similar centres are functional in about six different locations around the country.

''They chose to believe the lie that it was a warehouse belonging to one of the national leaders of the party where dangerous weapons were being kept, when in fact it is a centre for entering the data provided by the millions of Nigerians who registered as members of the party during its membership registration exercise,'' the party said.

It described the invasion as another act of impunity, now a trademark of the Jonathan-led presidency which is being edged on by the hawks in the PDP.

APC called the invasion of its offices an attempt to suppress the opposition, get details of its membership with the intention of using it to rig the 2015 elections and also to destroy the spirit of democracy.

''When in Oct. 6th, 2013 we issued a statement alerting Nigerians that the Jonathan Administration was using Rivers State as a testing ground for creeping fascism ahead of the 2015 elections, some said we were raising a false alarm.

''Well, here we are. In the past five months, the PDP-led government has stepped up its acts of impunity and terror against the leaders of the APC and all non-PDP actors. Elected officers, who are not PDP members, have had their rights repeatedly violated by the police and other security operatives. Never before has an elected government been so scared of the opposition to the point of shutting it down.

''Now that they have overreached themselves by attacking the offices of the main opposition party and destroying part of its membership database, can the PDP-led government still claim to be operating under the rule of law? Can the government sincerely tell the world it is now ready for a free and fair elections in 2015? This is one impunity too many, and we will not allow it to be swept under the carpet,'' the party vowed.

Alhaji Lai Mohammed
National Publicity Secretary
All Progressives Congress (APC)
Ijebu-Ode, Nov. 22nd 2014

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Source http://.com/thread/1524/dss-operatives-soldiers-raid-lagos-apc-office-see-photos.html
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Chelsea Vs Westbrom (2 - 0) On 22nd November 2014 by dotman19: 11:49am On Nov 23, 2014
Checkout Today's Football Betting Predictions [11-23-2014] http://.com/thread/1523/checkout-todays-football-betting-predictions-11-23-2014.html
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Arsenal Vs Manchester United (1 - 2) On 22nd November 2014 by dotman19: 11:48am On Nov 23, 2014
Checkout Today's Football Betting Predictions [11-23-2014] http://.com/thread/1523/checkout-todays-football-betting-predictions-11-23-2014.html
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Arsenal Vs Manchester United (1 - 2) On 22nd November 2014 by dotman19: 11:48am On Nov 23, 2014
Checkout Today's Football Betting Predictions [11-23-2014] http://.com/thread/1523/checkout-todays-football-betting-predictions-11-23-2014.html
PoliticsNigeria Police Release Full Video Of National Assembly Crisis by dotman19(op): 3:58pm On Nov 22, 2014
Watch Video Here

You recall that the Nigerian police had days ago fired tear gas and prevented speaker Aminu Tambuwal from presiding over a session at the National Assembly in Abuja. They later released a statement justifying their action, saying Alh. Aminu Tambuwal CFR arrived the venue with a motley crowd, who broke the cordon, assaulted the Police and evaded due process and the Police had to restore order and normalcy, using lawful means. The Nigeria Police has now released this complete video of what really happened that day to justify their action.

Source http://.com/thread/1512/nigeria-police-release-full-video-of-national-assembly-crisis.html

CelebritiesThrowback Photo Of Lola Omotayo & Hubby, Peter by dotman19(op): 11:13pm On Nov 17, 2014
CelebritiesWow! Rukky Sanda Looking Flawless In New Pics by dotman19(op): 9:45pm On Nov 17, 2014
PoliticsFemi Fani-kayode Has Been Discharged And Acquitted Of Money Laundering by dotman19(op): 6:38pm On Nov 17, 2014
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A Federal High court sitting in Lagos this morning discharged& acquitted former Aviation Minister, Femi Fani-Kayode of 38 out of the 40 amended count charge of money laundering brought against him by the EFCC in 2008.

Delivering her judgement, the presiding judge, Justice Rita Ofili Ajumogobia, said that EFCC had not provided any evidence that proved that the former minister had in anyway laundered money through fictitious business transactions. According to her, the prosecution had failed woefully in proving that he was guilt in all the 38 count charge brought against him.
She went further to say that all the witnesses provided by the prosecution since the trial started had not provided any evidence to prove that the former Minister had any business dealings with them.

Consequently she discharged and acquitted him of 38 count charges but however instructed him to enter a defence against the two other charges counts. The case was adjourned till December 8th.

Source http://.com/thread/1415/femi-fani-kayode-has-been-discharged-and-acquitted-of-money-laundering.html
CelebritiesActor Jnr Pope & Wife Welcome Baby Boy (see Photo) by dotman19(op): 9:46am On Nov 16, 2014
CelebritiesActor Benson Okonkwo Looking Fab In New Photoshoot by dotman19(op): 9:26am On Nov 15, 2014
PoliticsCheck Out This Throwback Pic Of GEJ With His Former Boss, Alamieyeseigha by dotman19(op): 12:37pm On Nov 14, 2014
CelebritiesPhotos From Tunde Demuren's Birthday Dinner by dotman19(op): 8:10am On Nov 14, 2014
CelebritiesAnnie Idibia Celebrates 30th Birthday At Children's Hospital(photos) by dotman19(op): 11:14pm On Nov 13, 2014
CelebritiesIyanya’s Manager Leaves Us Screaming Diaris God With Epic TBT Photo by dotman19(op): 6:54pm On Nov 13, 2014
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OMG we have been seeing TBT (Throwbackthursday) pictures of celebs all morning, but we have been smiling pass them, but we couldn’t just do the same for Ubi Franklin’s throw back photo! Indeed, even if you don’t believe in God, you will agree with me that there's a God with this epic throw back photo. May the God of Ubi answer your prayers too, lol.

Source [url]http://.com/thread/1369/iyanya%E2%80%99s-manager-leaves-us-screaming-diaris-god-with-epic-tbt-photo.html[/url]
CelebritiesVideo/pic: Wife Catches Husband Enjoying Himself With A Lady In The Car by dotman19(op): 5:58pm On Nov 13, 2014
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These married man anit loyal at all,such is the story of MR kofi kwesi from kumasi in Ghana who was caught red-handed by his married wife of 7 years doing it with a young lady in the car,the wife caught her husband with a pouplar girl in the area who has been terrorizing the entire area by sleeping area with other women husband and other ladies boyfriends and finacee,so women are always watchful and always keep trail of their man anytime anyday because of the said lady,so on theis faithful day ,the left home claiming he wanted to go an deliver some goods to his business partners,not knowing that his wife is trailing him ,but the man has made arrangement to meet with the lady somewhere , The husband picked up his girlfriend and then took her to the secret location and parked his car. Instead of going to a hotel, these two love birds decided to enjoy themselves in the car. cheesy

As they were enjoying themselves, the wife caught them red handed in the act and she immediately pounced on the lady with punches and slaps. Lol,.... grin CLICK HERE TO WATCH VIDEO
Celebrities2face Idibia Goes Romantic For Annie's 30th Birthday(photos) by dotman19(op): 8:50am On Nov 13, 2014
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Annie Idibia turned 30 today and her husband 2face surprised her with an intimate birthday celebration at home..She says "I came home to this"..So romantic ..

Happy Birthday Annie..
See his message below

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Source http://.com/thread/1362/2face-idibia-goes-romantic-for-annies-30th-birthdayphotos.html

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