if it were PDP or any other party for that matter, APC members would have storm the social media and castigate them. APC is a fraud neither is PDP any better youth shine your eye

Trust nairalanders with their views and ''yabbings. There are some assumptions you guys are making that are not correct. It takes courage to post a topic like this and want people to learn from your own mistake, if people will do anyway. I am sure some of you shouting ungrateful will say I am bragging if I said I have done this or that for her, but does that one change her status no. A poster claim the topic is gender bias well sorry for that but from experience women are more emotional and being tempt to take up such responsibilities, for instance my sister is the fourth born. Note the only reason while I post this topic is just for people to learn and that is all

Noted. if event did not overturned I already know where my children will further their education

Well I may be wrong but that is how I feel right now.All I wish and I want is my sister to regain her health back. And don't make it sound as if we were bunch of lazy bone feasting on her hustle. I practically sponsored myself through university, every weekend I traveled from Ife to Ikire for a menial job that pays #1200 to pay my bills.

I think the way some pple respond to AFONJA this AFONJA Or IPOB is like they are paying these pple for this rubbish. I am just tired the way we triabilise even the smallest thing is just annoying seriously

Last weekend we Celebrated mumssie in her 4 bedroom bungalow built by our first born to mark her 70th birthday; nice music, good food, nice wine etc. and I look at some years back when things were extremely difficult. I lost my dad when I was in primary 2 age 7yrs, our first born was in his final year in university.

Things were extremely difficult and that was how my sister comes in a dad figure.I can not mentioned all her good deed towards the family but let me just site some instances.

My sister single handedly sponsor our second born wedding, she sponsor our third born through university and on many occasion she used to feed the family. We used to called her mother Theresa.

Unfortunately some years back she was diagnosed of HIV yeah you heard me right and she became the ghost of her former self. Now to the glory of God everybody is doing fine and I keep thinking who knows if my sister did not try to play god probably everybody would have eventually turn out good though things might even be more difficult then. Though we are still one big happy family despite her status but how i wish...

Ladies please don't play God over your siblings do your best not at your own expense