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The mods can close the thread. Prof still dy para 4 me. This should be my first and last thread on prof's profile. Will open one soon.

MissSlimbody:
Dnt let my size n baby face deceive u.

I'm closer to 30 dan 20

Seriously? *shaking my head*. You're sure its not the reverse?. Baby face? Lol. You're funny.
Thanks for contributing.

Prof don dy vex. How do I delete this thread self?. Didn't mean to use his profile.

CyberWolf:
dont misunderstand me, when I said your, I don't mean you in particular, it can be any guy since the thread is refering to we guys..

Ok. No problem.

MissSlimbody:
You've modified ur post nah.

Here is it.
I don't do Pre-Marita Sex

I'll always say this b4 committing myself in2 any relationship

So, if u value me, u'll keep ur hands 2 urself.

Sorry but, I checked out your pic. You're young, hope you still have this mindset four years from now. The world needs girls like you to give hope and inspire.

nykolaax:
a positive chemistry doesn't mean she would dance to ur tune but just make your move regardless..... don't be afraid of losing her no matter how pretty... dere is always gonna b sum1 more cute Dan her...and u ain gonna die if she leaves.... no disrespect meant

Lol. We're not talking about me, none taken. Thanks for the advice though. The reason I cam up with thread was because I have a lot of friends who have experienced this rubbish. I've seen marriages built on this pretense. It sickens me.

MissSlimbody:

You dropped a smiley? Seriously?. Give me your perspective.

nykolaax:
my opinion.... as a guy..... if a lady comes to your Ouse for d first time and you've not being friend zoned right from d outset.... dude cmon.... make a move.... might not be too fast and sharp bout it but den I wud..... but I feel d whole issue depends on d chemistry u are sharing b4 her visiting

Funniest thing is; at times a positive chemistry doesn't correspond to a positive response. That is what confuses me about this issue.

MissSlimbody:
Why do some ladies (and some guys) pretend?

I have just one for them

Hypocrites

Seriously, the perfect word. Some guys?. Harsh, but totally agree. I believe some do it cause they don't want to feel guilty after the act. So they pretend, you fall for it, and life goes on.

Nothing is more painful than sleeping with a person who doesn't value you. It leaves a very bad taste most times. So pretending to me is like taking panadol before the headache comes.

Spoken from a guy's perspective, purpose of thread is to hear from a lady's perspective.

MissSlimbody:
Yes, a lady can decide dat.

Jst as you've said it all depends on d nature of d relationship.

One thing we must know is not all gals/guys are the same.

That some ladies made fun of guys who didn't take advantage of them, doesn't mean all ladies are like that.

Hmm...like the way you think. Agree with the last paragraph. So, why do some ladies pretend? If you want it, say it. Its as simple as that. Why the charade?. If a lady is cheap, she is cheap. Respect to all the ladies out there who value themselves.

CyberWolf:
but that's the first time of showing your hauz na...

Hold up, who said I was talking about me? Lol. C me c wahala!! Nairalanders no go kill person. Know a lot of people on this site. Abeg no implicate me.

Mirexx and co, u guys should stop derailing abeg.

MissSlimbody:
That a lady is not a virgin doesn't mean she should continue in d act. She can decide 2 stop having s.ex until marriage.

And dat a lady comes 2 visit u is not a license 2 make "moves".

Finally!! A lady responds. Good point. A lady can decide that? Seriously? Hmm...*nodding my head*

License? Let's talk about that. Depending on the nature of a guy's relationship with the lady before the visit, the license can be obtained.

Seen cases of guys being made fun of because they were not "sharp enough" (by the lady).

Also seen ladies who were engaged making fun of guys who didn't take advantage of them. Babe/mrs/miss, like I said depending on the nature of the relationship before the visit.

CyberWolf:
I mean a lady that offers sex to a guy that is not her husband....

Hmm... Interesting. So a lady who offers sex to a guy, who has done his best to prove his love for her, is making a kind gesture?. That is not her husband? According to my op she is not a virgin, so why do ladies pretend to value what they don't?

No one has answered my question. Would really like a lady's response.

toecyne:
I see them as Gold

U see what?. Ladies?.

[quote author=REMMEI post=27002997]And they will be the first to say i hate pretenders..what are they?..defenders?..mtchewww..[/quot]

Imagine na!!! John terry things.

CyberWolf:
It's just pretense...it's natural in ladies..And some guys misuse the kind ge :osture sometimes,they just try to protect their dignity..

So a guy has no dignity to protect? Misuse I agree. Kind gesture?. Coming to guys place is a kind gesture? What?!!!!
Any lady who takes going to a guy's place as a" kind gesture" is brainless. Oh!! Nigerian women. I did not insult you, just making a point. No offence?

@tocyn; u c what?. @cyberwolf : pretense? Misuse I agree. So a guy has no dignity to protect?.

She's not a virgin, you're not. You love her, she knows it. She show's your place, you try your moves and it backfires. Says " you don't value me". Ladies, a guy can love you, and still want to sleep with u. What's the big deal?!! What pisses me off is how some of these "formers" are also into one night stands.

My question is: why the double standards?.
By the way I borrowed this profile (prof na my pe rson ).