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Gentlechika:
For me, up until this moment, every mistake I've made have always been a learning curve. Probably, my only regret is not having a mentor earlier in my life. Peharps some of my mistakes, would have been avoidable.

Same with me. I still don’t have one. I mentor myself.

Chris2863:
all these yahoo boys and their doings. 100k for giving you food wey igbo full inside

Don’t believe everything you see on Nairaland

Mods pls kindly push to FP.

Well, wished I knew somethings about life earlier on. Wished I never put my trusts on humans because it so affected me and wasted my time. wished I started hustling in my early twenties, Now I’m in my late 20s. Wished I didn’t lose some life changing opportunities back in 2013 and 2016 due to ignorance and not having the right people to advice me. Wished I never indulged in masturbation also. Really suffering from the consequences of it.

Now what are those things you wished you did differently ?. Let’s hear from you, who knows others here might learn from your experiences and take the right steps.

Michelle70:
OP, let me tell u something, the moment u were born, life has already given u the certificate of survival, all u had to do is application of knowledge.

You should watch a documentary how a sperm cell survived in the vagina, swim through difficulties and fertilized an egg.
Then i will know that it is far easier to survive as a human than an egg.

The moment u were dropped into the vagina, there are like 100-300million sperm cells like u, thats like the population of Nigeria but only u was successful, the rest couldnt make it.

just keep pushing forward and u will get ur breakthrough, u did it once, u could do it again

We just have to keep pushing. Thanks bro

I’m not here to beg or ask anyone for help. I just want to share my thoughts with everyone struggling out there. And please don’t mind my errors.

Honestly it’s not easy for folks from an average home. Everyday I see legions of youths wasting away out there. You will strive so hard and sweat before getting a breakthrough and in most cases many didn’t even get that breakthrough. Many died without actualizing their dreams. I remember an old man once told me the place you will find the world greatest treasures and mineral resources is the Burial grounds.
And I agree to that, because many people came and died without achieving anything. Many folks died with inventions and ideas that would have changed the course of this world.

Like the saying goes we just have to keep pushing till we get there. Even though life is so short and the time isn’t really much. Especially for the average youth. Many have taken risks that have cut short their lives.

Honestly it’s not really easy especially in a society where the opportunities are limited. Everyone passing through struggles like me, I really hope things gets better for you because it’s not really easy. It’s damn hard. Sometimes you will wish you weren’t born in the first place.

Sometimes you really get depressed when you see your classmates and agemates doing well in life and progressing. Its not that you are not doing everything possible to change the story of your life. It’s just that things aren’t working out yet. It’s unfortunate though. I hope we all make our dreams come through before we die.