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prettigurl16:
Hello everyone,

I would like to seize this opportunity to advertise for the position of a husband. I will not provide details about myself right away but the right candidate should consider that his prayers have been answered. However, before some very unserious nonentities begin to try to reach me, I have also listed out some criteria that must be met.
1. The right candidate must be at least 27 years old. No time to babysit anyone.
2. He must have graduated from a polytechnic (no marginalization here) or university with at least a 2.1 science degree(his transcripts and results will be scrutinized)
3.He must be willing to relocate
4. He must be religious (Christianity or Islam)

Pls. if this does not concern you in any way, kindly skip my thread. I will not respond to any derogatory comments. Too busy climbing up the ladder of my career.

Thank you.

kestolove95:
Ibos now bear yoruba name

freecocoa:
In myself and others.

limpopo:
bro.... let's chat. my mail is holaryehmi@gmail.com

neoapocalypse:
Go back to your post , you implied that since she was talking to him she was already attracted to him , put me in the clear with your analogy , you mean if she wasn't attracted to him she wouldn't even be friends with him ( or talk to him even if his best friend was dating her ) , which means we only make friends or talk to those we are attracted to.

neoapocalypse:
Yet you contradict yourself

From your post you mentioned an obvious attraction has to there before anything can happen

My sister was never attracted to her husband initially , from your post you make it sound like once a girl talks to a man then there is attraction

My sister got married at the age of 24 immediately after service so she wasn't desperate.

She wasn't attracted to the guys money but I'll admit she was attracted to his looks and he was a smooth talker , he knows how to keep people captivated with his suave person. My parents saw beyond this.

bezimo:
Love doesnt sustain a relationship. If it were people wont divorce. Its wisdom that sustains a relationship.

neoapocalypse:
This is where you get it wrong again , physical attraction doesn't always have to come first , I'll give the story of my very own sister. She's has been happily married for for 16 years now and she wasn't initially attracted to her husband , in fact she was attracted to her husband's friend , who came to ask her out. The guy was very rich , fine boy , smooth talker and all , the attraction was instantaneous. The guy used to come visit her at home then with his friend ( who later became her husband ). At a point she was always in disagreement with this guy from minor issues to major ones. Eventually she had to break up and the friend seeing my sister as a good wife material decided to ask her out , initially she was thrown aback and bluntly turned the guy down but my parents seeing a good man in him advised my sister to consider the young man. She just couldn't see herself getting married to him but the guy grew on her as time went by and she started seeing the qualities my parents saw in him. Today they are very happily married with 4 kids , you should go to their home to see what a happy family is.

LookmanTalk:
There is a catch to the story I forgot to mention. She was introduced to him (paired) so it started from a blind date.

neoapocalypse:
Lol. If you have an aunt who has been happily married for at least a 2 decades , do me the favour of asking her what has kept the marriage lasting that long. If you read my post very well you'll notice I did not rule out love but it is not the most important quality to consider , physical attraction even comes lower in the rung. Let me share my pearls of wisdom with you.

Compatibility is one quality you have to consider when choosing a life partner , compatibility isn't the same as love I hope you know.

Goals - Are your goals in contrast with each other , do you share similar goals in life

Friendship - I consider this even more important than love , a relationship with a very good and close friend will last longer than one built on just purely love.

I can mention more things/qualities to consider when choosing a life partner , love alone will die if other qualities are lacking .

neoapocalypse:
lol , you be pikin , love doesn't even come in the first 3 qualities to consider when you want a prosperous relationship , agreed that some level of love has to be there before any romantic relationship can be established it is however not in the first 3 to consider.

searching4love:
THIS IS WHY WE ALWAYS OPPOSE IGBOS FROM ATTAINING LEADERSHIP POSITIONS IN THIS COUNTRY. SUNDAY OLISEH HAS NOT EVEN ATTAINED POLITICAL POWER YET BUT HIS ARROGANCE AND EGO HAS SCATTERED ALL THE UNITY OF THE TEAM