accordadoga25:
Hehehehe

This one is not like Elechi Nwancho.

That old man finished Ebonyi.

Ebonyi was so backward that out of the 10-12 local governments banks were only available in two (Abakaliki and Afikpo) and in the whole of Afikpo they had just two banks (Eco & Zenith)

No tarred road anywhere.

From Ohaozara through Amasiri to Afikpo is 1hr ride on the bike with full speed, na so dust go cover your body like person wey fall inside yam flour

Beremx:
Better governor wey i dey crush on.

Thanks for putting smiles on Ebonyi workers. You have done well

As announced by his Special Assistant on New Media, Leo Ekene Oketa

Woodshot:
Tryna give civil servants the needed energy and fortitude to stand and fight by him when the war becomes bloody.

jmoore:

You made this comment with a false assumption that there is 24 hours of power supply.
Many on estimated billing are paying for BLACKOUT. That's like going to a petrol station, paying 5,000 for petrol to be filled in your jerry can, they collect the money and give you back your EMPTY jerry can. 5,000 Naira for empty stuff is subsidy?

jmoore:

Poor people can afford electricity.
Everyone will find their own level.

With everyone on prepaid, you buy what you can afford. You can buy 500 naira token and load it on your prepaid to charge your phones, laptops only. It can last for more than 4 months.

cenaman:
I don't think there is subsidy in electricity in Nigeria

crossfm:
Hehehe.

Scammers,they claim they are paying subsidy,but the process and way they are paying the assumed subsidy is not clear according to the article .

They are paying subsidy and power holding companies are still on estimated billings .

Nigeria na cruise.

Raxxye:
I thought I heard that to be in US prison is even better than to walk free in Nigeria. How would a prisoner in US even contemplate coming to Nigerian prison?
Abi na fear of an.al rape by those mean-looking prison mates?

Bliss62:



They are too clanish for that

Ebonyi indegene are still struggling to get appointment in Anambra

Bayajjidda:


I have been on NL since 2006, no where in this forum are Ebonyi or Ebonyians dragged or called names, you can point me to any. It is your inferiority complex here that had had anyone dragged you here and never Ebonyi or Ebonyians.

I am a full blooded Ebonyian, I married an Abia lady, before marrying her, I had Anambra, Imo, Enugu, and other Abia ladies on their knees competing to get marry them. Today my wife is very proud to call herself an Ebonyi lady instead of an Abia lady.

I schooled in Federal University of Technology, Owerri, in all my 5 years schooling there, there was no one that ever dragged me or make mockery of me being from Ebonyi. How can you even make mockery of Ebonyians in FUTO? when they basically top class in every department; when we had high number of representatives in the SUG.

You see? Your are the problem here, you see yourself as inferior. What is even bad, low or poor about Ebonyi state? You make Ebonyi state seem inferior and bad by your posts here and in your imagination. It is in your state of mind. I am not poor, I am not inferior, I represent to the peak wherever I find myself.

Do you know why I left EBSU after first semester and left for FUTO? EBSU is a very good school, but I wanted to compete nationally and not locally. Do you know why I resigned and left my government job with prospects in Ebonyi State and went back to Abuja even though I didn't have any job offer at hand then? It is simple, I want to compete globally and not end as a local champion.

I don't know why you see Ebonyi as inferior. In reality, Ebonyi is superior. We had always topped the class both in school, office, and field. Just maybe the place you are from in Ebonyi state is inferior, but I am an Ebonyi guy from Okposi, Ohaozara. I am never inferior, rather I'm superior. I strive to be on top wherever I find myself. I hate mediocrity with a passion.

Do well for yourself by changing your state of mind. If you truly feel you're inferior, work on yourself and get yourself updated. Stop dragging Ebonyi to your inferiority.

If you are waiting for me to bring myself so low to swim in the mud with you with insults and mudslinging, you will be sitting on a long thing. I'm too global to descend that low. Thank you.

cadmanspize:
God bless

Bayajjidda:


What I am saying here is that we don't know you here in Ebonyi, can't remember anyone making you a spokesperson for Ebonyi and Ebonyians. Your family may have made you their spokesperson, keep to it and stop speaking for Ebonyians. Stop attaching Ebonyi to your political motives. Ebonyi has come a long way since its creation we can't have you drag her noble name into the mud with your dirty mentions and politics.

Ogene001:

If Ebonyi is a lucrative market, someone will buy it off from EEDC but if it's not attractive enough for a separate investor, it will remain with EEDC.

Bayajjidda:


Stop mentioning Ebonyi like you own it, we don't even know you here. Speak for yourself and your household. Desist from mentioning Ebonyi. You won't say you weren't warned.

SadiqBabaSani:
They are not handing it over to states, simply put Ikeja electric will cater for Lagos only, Ibadan Electricity Distribution Company will cater for Oyo State only etc etc yet the DISCOs will remain under Private management.

Amotolongbo:
Never underestimate what this guy is cooking with his northern counterparts

We4all:
Your wife or side chick? Once upon a time, men think they could cheat and get away with it because according to them, it's a man's world.

Nowadays, the game has changed and women are giving men a run for their money in the cheating game. To worsen matters, they are also giving men bastard children. I like the turn of events and let the best gamer win.

LocalFARMERS:
Ginger Farm

BRATISLAVA:


You cancelled marriage plans and still wanted her to be running after you romantically, pining, still calling you up 7 times a day and turning up at your office? And she's the narcissist?

Strangebuttrue:
I believe it's the benins

scoops:


Uncle, please forget that lady.
She'll keep wasting your precious time, there's always going to be someone who would love and respect you, if she doesn't respect you and she can't apologize when she's wrong then I'm sorry it's not something you should stay in or expect a positive outcome from; I understand you might have truly loved her at some point but the sad truth is she's not worth your precious attention, find someone new who would truly love you regardless of what ever might be and at all times, in the end your happiness too should be a priority, if they're happy and you're not, what is the point?
Mind you, some people don't love you; they ONLY love what you can do for them.

Aaaaarghmed:
All I know is that women cheat as much as men.but dem sabi hide am well.Since no child,you better divorce her.you have the chance now,nothing tie una togeda.Taking back a cheating partner is a NoNo..I have being there and I know the major blow I suffered when I took back a cheating partner. I remain your experience master

Saintinoo:
I never knew that I will one day write about this, because, of all the advice I have been given, I taught it was love in the air.

Some months ago, I created a thread about how I can't get over my girlfriend and another thread where I confirmed that she was a narcissist. But now, I have not only confirmed that I dated a covert narcissist for four solid years, but I have come to learn a lot about narcissism and how to unmask them. Sadly, we have more narcissist both male and female going into serious relationships.
White you are thinking about the problems in your relationship, the fights everyday, the mental abuse etc, you might just be in a relationship with a narcissist and that is the worst thing that can happen to anybody.

HOW DO NARCISSISTS GET THEIR VICTIMS.

Be it male or female narcissist, they hunt for their victims same way. A narcissist targets an empath, they target people who have something they do not have, learn empathy from you just to use it against you.

They portray themselves as the best thing that can happen to you after egusi soup. Yes, my narc ex portrayed those traits, that wife material characteristics, godly and prayerful, dress decent and act same. Do not be deceived, they know that is what you want in a woman so they give it to you for the while.

They will always talk about forever with you, bring so many fairly tails and give you the soul mate feeling, this you will believe you have found a wife or a husband, then you start making marriage's preparation. They have successfully made you commit. Mine always use this word "forever is the goal". All these is to make you commit and when you have committed, they start the abuse stage.

The narcissist common aim, be it male or female is to get you trauma bonded to them. Trauma bond is a situation when you excuse abuse from someone, go back to your abuser because you are afraid to lose them. I cannot count the number of times I went back to apologize for doing nothing, that is trauma bond working for her.

The narcissist will never apologize for their wrong at the later part of the relationship, they will do wrong, and expect you to take it, when you try to speak up, they give you the silent treatment as a punishment. Yea,because they have groomed their victims so much through the various love bombing stages. I was given silent treatment every time, and yes,after going a week of waiting to see if she will apologize for her wrong, I end up saying sorry. I was groomed during the earlier days to not do without her.

The narcissist will love bomb you at the early stage of your relationship, this is not genuine love,it is a tactics to get you used to them and whenever you try to leave and think of the past memories, you will have no choice than to run back to them until they are ready to discard you. In my case,she calls every day to check on me, would spend over an hour with me on phone, gave me pet names and showed the world that she truly loved me. Those were all lies.

WHAT WENT WRONG BETWEEN I AND MY NARC EX.

For me, i thought she was the last bus stop, in fact I had been planning how our wedding even though I had limited funds at that time, I was ready to go against anybody just to wed my soulmate. But then, this problem keep coming. I felt someone was trying to control me, someone was doing wrong and do not apologize. We kept fighting almost every week, and yes, I kept apologising.

Early this year, I called her to discuss marriage plan, she disagreed with everything and went completely mute, I called the next day to resolve and ask for her opinion, she still went mute, the silent treatment increased. I vowed I am done and will not contact her again, went no contact. After two month, I saw her pic somewhere, and since I was trauma bonded to her and didn't heal completely, I went back begging her for over a week. That is was being trauma bond to a narcissist does, it completely makes you their slave.

During the cause of the discard from my narc ex, she knew that I have been trauma bonded to her and the sight of her pic will bring back memories, she used what is called " flying monkeys " to make me see her pics and believe that I will keep rushing back to beg her, because she enjoy all the abuse.

HOW DO YOU KNOW THAT YOU DATING A NARCISSIST; if you do any of those thing I did, you are dating a narcissist.

1. I beg for her attention when she gives silent treatment.
2. I felt like she is just the one.
3. I do not look at any other lady not even a friendly look because all my attention was around her.
4. Her eyes goes dark when she is angry.
5. She shouts and insults to any extent when angry.
6. When she wrongs me and I refuse to call and apologize for reacting, maybe for 5 days or a week, she rages in anger.
7. She belittles me when she is angry, this is a common trait with a narc, male or female.
8. From her story, during our love days, and from my findings her dad is a narc. Pls try and know your lover parent, narc is hereditary.


Did I talk about how I later confirm that my Darling angel was a terrible covert narcissist.

Early this year, I had a neighbor whose 2 years old daughter exhibited the same traits my ex exhibited, the anger, the manipulation, the gaslighing, everything.

Finally, narcissists are demonic, look for these red flags in your relationship and end the relationship the minute you confirm that you date is a narc, there is no changing them, I tried and got hurt. The narc know what he/she is doing.

Narcissism is hereditary and they are born that way, they keep getting worse by the day, so best is to avoid them.

Drops pen.

Evestar200:
Chelsea don me Surprise me with defeat ooo