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RomanceRe: '' After Inviting Me Over, He Expected Me To Pay The Transport Fare'' by Eghostwriter(op): 2:51am On Mar 23, 2017
Ranchhoddas:
So you would have travelled fifteen hours by road, Nigerian road for that matter to meet a total stranger because of what he told you online

I swear you no get sense.

How do know he can afford to pay for a flight for you?
The lies he told you abi?

Now say after me
''Lord Jesus, anywhere my sense has been buried (that is if you ever had any), I uproot it by fire''

Say it 1000 times.

Make sure you are shaking that your empty head vigorously while praying this prayer.
You deserve to be used for rituals
Ode!!!
As annoying as that sounded, you're not wrong. Excluding the ritual part though.
RomanceRe: '' After Inviting Me Over, He Expected Me To Pay The Transport Fare'' by Eghostwriter(op): 2:49am On Mar 23, 2017
DozieInc:
The guy is probably a fake.
I don't really know..i should have noticed that from the videos.
RomanceRe: '' After Inviting Me Over, He Expected Me To Pay The Transport Fare'' by Eghostwriter(op): 2:46am On Mar 23, 2017
Love Machine:
I don't blame him.He may have got disappointed before in a lady he sent tfare to pay him a visit and the lady didn't show up after receiving the money.Once bitten twice shy.
Hmm. Maybe. But he could have at least asked me to borrow.
RomanceRe: '' After Inviting Me Over, He Expected Me To Pay The Transport Fare'' by Eghostwriter(op): 2:45am On Mar 23, 2017
Love Machine:
Abi.This geh wan collect tfare to go and buy herself clothes in a boutique.
No i really liked him
RomanceRe: '' After Inviting Me Over, He Expected Me To Pay The Transport Fare'' by Eghostwriter(op): 2:44am On Mar 23, 2017
majamajic:
Don't blame the guy, many girls do collect money yet will not step an inch . Me its either u borrow come and I balance u or u forget it . If I should tell my experience with one girl from oshogbo grin grin grin
Hahaha i thought of that too.
RomanceRe: '' After Inviting Me Over, He Expected Me To Pay The Transport Fare'' by Eghostwriter(op): 2:42am On Mar 23, 2017
Dojupyo:
Baby, e good like that.. You don't know what God may have prevented... Meeting strangers in their own house have left people or their FAM in agony...

#yhu knw wah am saying#
Yes you're right. Before person go shoot me or use me do ritual. Lol.
Romance'' After Inviting Me Over, He Expected Me To Pay The Transport Fare'' by Eghostwriter(op): 12:02am On Mar 23, 2017
I got chatting with this guy after he sent me a DM on IG. Voice calls, video calls, pictures exchange and things started getting emotional (or so I thought). He started inviting me over to visit (which he had done from the first day we spoke), but i was busy and couldn't find time. We continued chatting and after some time he invited me again and we finally fixed a date.

A day to the planned date i was so excited and had already packed my things. I was daydreaming about all the fun things we were going to do together but I was also worried about the fact that he hadn't mentioned anything about sending me transport fare. Now this is a journey that will take about 15+ hours so you can estimate the price. Even with the long distance i was willing to travel by road for just a 4day trip because i really liked this guy.

The night before i was supposed to travel i asked him if he was going to watch me pay the bus fare. His reply really shocked me. '' I'm surprised you're asking for transport fare. We'll chat when I get home''. He called back few hours later and we spoke like people who couldn't wait to see each other, but to my surprise he still didn't mention anything. The next day I was ready and waiting for him to call to ask for my bank details so I'll just go to the ATM before going to the bus station. He called later that afternoon (after i had gotten angry and unpacked), what he asked left me angry and confused, '' babe how far, hope you're already on your way?''. I just laughed and dropped the call. He sent me a message on whatsapp and I told him I wasn't coming because, one, as a student i can't use such amount of money to travel to see a guy. Two, I was going to travel all that distance for him and the least he could do to be nice and show we were in this together was to pay the bus fare. Three, he invited me over.

Then he started accusing me of not wanting to see him and acting Irresponsible. Out of anger i just replied yes. And that was our last conversation. What I don't understand is why he acted the way he did, because he's doing well financially to afford even flight tickets. Three weeks after and still no 'hi' from him. I hate when situations leave me confused.
Advice please.
RomanceAt What Point In A Relationship Should A Lady Start Asking For Things by Eghostwriter(op): 12:31am On Feb 23, 2017
Is there ever a right timing?
NYSCRe: Beautiful Corper Whose Backside Got Guys Talking by Eghostwriter(f): 2:40pm On Feb 21, 2017
Where are her legs?

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