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I will invest it in my cassava and yam farm.

Definitely

Aduke00001:
Let me get this right, you were born in 1992 and you're dating someone born in 2007 😂 my ex wanted to do the same thing for me at 18, and Thank God I use my senses because by now the story would have changed.
I hope you can come back here in 5 or 6 years to tell us how the marriage later end. Let her explore first and annjoy her teenage.

I was born in 1991 actually! And yes we are going to go thru with the marriage rites not withstanding!

udemzyudex:
Mature in stature or what?

In stature and behavior

Nlfpmod please i need wider audience before i take my final decision.

Sucre6:
Lemme warn you for the last time, bro, u go regret am if u marry that girl, if u later goes ahead to marry her u will wish u never did but unfortunately u cant turn back the hands of time. Even a girl in her 23 or 24 is still too young for you, no say I no warn u

My girl is different bro she is one in a million, no jokes .

Peakdesign23:
Hope say you go marry am

Sure i will

OldNairalander:
Leave the innocent young girl alone to enjoy her childhood and teenage years. I know it's her pointed breast and tight tender skin that is pushing you. Look for girls that are ready for marriage, she has not discovered herself. If I know you I will arrest both you and the long throat mother that is collecting money to sell her young daughter to evade responsibility of sending her to school for further studies

Arrest me for what?

Did i break any law ?

Honesty our love is deeper than physical attraction.

Sirmwill:
Does she like you? ? ?



Does she like you? ? ? ? ?



Does she like you? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ?


If you think so

What has she done to make you believe she actually likes you?

She loves me bro.

She has done lot's of things i can't mention here.

Jerchance:
Does she know you are 33

Yes Sir, she does.

peanutbutterr:
i’ll be honest with you, dead any feelings you have for that girl. they are emotionally unstable, and very confused set of girls, but if you’re willing to wife and get her pregnant within the next six months, i’ll say go ahead, if you’re looking for long term, just abort mission for your own sanity.

Bro, this girl is very different and way matured above most of her peers. When she told me her age i couldn't believe and thought it a joke until i came across her birth certificate.

I will do as stated Sir, already making plans to that effect. Thanks alot 🙏

UyaiIncomparabl:
So, since you're sure with all the convictions you have that she's the one for you, why are you then here seeking for validation or second opinion?

If the majority of people here dissuade your motive about the girl, would you go ahead with their opinions?

You seem to have misconstrued life choices at 33.

I really don't see the need for your last paragraph, but anyways, a second opinion wouldn't hurt will it? And besides I'm the one to make the final decision so I need every available opinion i could get as this is a life long journey I'm about to embark on.

pansophist:
The age gap is not the issue, its the maturity.

For example, a man of 45 years can marry a woman of 30 years old and no one with see it as abnormal.

So the difference between an 18 years old girl and a 33 years old man is her maturity, and the consent of those who loves her, such as her guardians.

This is the kind of situation where arranged marriage is very important, because the responsibilities of vetting you properly is not something the 18 years old girl is matured or experienced enough to do herself.

With such maturity gap, there is a risk that an irresponsible man will find it easy to manipulate and marry a naive girl who lack the life experience to hold him accountable on anything, especially when it comes to providing and treating her good.

So if you must marry her, make sure it includes traditional marriage, which will involves all her family members, and their participation is an evidence to the approval of your union.

So not just court marriage that involves few people which you can recruit yourself.

Thanks alot for the advice Sir, Like i mentioned earlier, she is really mature for her age and her mum knows me very well and I've also told her my intentions towards her daughter. I also do help the mum with funds sometimes.

Jerchance:
Does she know you are 33

Yes she does

dkidd:
I'm trying to imagine what I can do with a girl who just finished her O levels but then to each his own. Whatever makes u happy bro and u don't need validations here so long as its consensual and by law 18 is old enough so what else do u want?

18 years is old enough and consensual I know, If u understood. I'm referring to the age gap not if it's consensual or not.

I posted it here because i need mixed views. Both Positive and negative before i take the next step.

carl90:
At 18 years , she is legally an adult .
So , you are on the right side of the law .
However , if you are looking to settle down and get married , is she the one for you ?
She will have dreams of furthering her education to the tertiary level.
Can you wait ?
Time and tide waits for no one ..

Yes she is the one for me, I just needed other people's opinion on the matter thanks 🙏

About furthering education. That will wait for a while. She is very understanding, cooperative and Obedient.

AllBlack:
are you ready for all the STUFF that lies ahead for a teenage girl going into her 20s?

Don't conplain later oh

What type of stuffs? Like i said earlier, she is very mature for her age. If you see this girl, you won't believe she's 18. No jokes

The10G:
It's about physical stature, if you don't appear too old than she is, then it's perfect.
After all if it was in the North, 12 years is old enough

She actually looks and behaves very mature for her age in all honesty. That was the attraction in the first place. And i don't look old too. I have a baby face and i don't keep much beards.

Like the topic implies I've been dating this girl for almost a year now and we are about to take it to the next level.

She recently finished her waec while I'm a graduate and served since 2017. I am 15 years older than her

Is the Age gap too much to call it quits?

Nairalanders help me pls

Editor: The pix is a file photo, not the girl's Photo

Farming is life

SavageResponse:
You sent me a PM. How can I be of help to you please?

Sorry, it was a mistake.

Chai

stealmatic:
Well noted,just be ready for us,u will have to prove it with evidence else ur type will go on compulsory vacation

Alright, I'm expecting.

Not funny

helinues:
Hands will soon touch you.

Alright I'm waiting.

helinues:
Can you provide the evidence in court if you are arrested to prove this?

Yes i can and my location is not hidden

Akinboboz:
Maybe Adeleke is the next Governor to crossover.



What's the correlation between this news Seyi and Nans president....

The NANS President was kidnapped, brutalized and detained by Seyi and his goons, and business is going on as usual as if nothing happened. A whole NANS President? Is Seyi Tinubu above the law?

Seyi Tinubu should provide answers on the whereabouts of the NANS President.

https://www.nairaland.com/8429315/why-everyone-silent

MindHacker9009:
In Matthew 3:16, “After His baptism, as Jesus came up out of the water, the heavens were opened and He saw the Spirit of God descending like a dove and settling on Him.”

What's your point exactly?

The Spirit of God descended "like" a dove so?

Does spirit have flesh and bones?