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Savedday2:
Truly, truly, the man is a SIMPle man!

If he know how many guys for area don nack that girl yagayaha erh, e no go sit-down there they smile.

See weytin man open eye go marry!

don't underrate the manipulations of the female specie

Fearyourcreator:
You dey mind her , she just wanted to stylishly support her gender

one devilish part of women is jealousy.
When they realize that a man loves his daughter, they will start looking for a way to accuse the man of sexual abuse on the daughter

erad:
Must you always find a way to squeeze out negativity from everything?

what did he say wrong?
Is Nigeria not doomed?
A nation that claims to have have refinery and a lot of crude oil but a liter of kerosene is sold for 2600.
British company

Kalatium:
This is one of the hardest realities many men never prepare for.

It is not just the pain of what happened in the marriage.
It is the responsibility of explaining it to children who were not there, who did not see what you saw, and who will naturally hear the softer version first.

Because when things fall apart, children don’t hear everything.

They hear what is safe.
They hear what is simplified.
And most times, they hear one side.

Now imagine sitting in front of your children and trying to explain:

That you discovered their mother had a child before marriage and hid it.
That you caught her being unfaithful.
That she presented one character before marriage and became someone else after.
That there were boundaries crossed you could not accept.
That there were patterns you tried to endure, but could not continue living with.

How do you say these things without damaging how they see their own mother?

Because no matter what happened between both of you, she is still their mother.

And this is where many men get stuck.

If you speak the raw truth, you risk breaking their image of her.
If you stay silent, you risk being misunderstood and judged unfairly.

So what do you do?

You choose discipline over emotion.

You don’t lie.
But you don’t weaponize the truth either.

You explain it in a way that protects their mental space without completely denying your reality.

You say:

“There were serious issues in the marriage that could not be resolved.”
“We both made decisions that led to us separating.”
“It was not a healthy situation for us to continue.”

You don’t go into graphic details.
You don’t turn it into a courtroom.
You don’t recruit your children to take sides.

Because once you do that, the damage spreads beyond the marriage.

Children are not built to carry adult conflicts.

They don’t need every detail.
They need stability.
They need emotional safety.
They need to grow without being forced to choose between parents.

And here is the difficult truth many don’t like to accept.

Your children may never fully understand your reasons.

Not now.
Maybe not even later.

Because they did not live your experience.

But maturity is not about being understood.

It is about doing what is right, even when your story is not fully told.

You can carry your truth without turning it into a weapon.

Because in the end, the goal is not to win against your ex.

The goal is to raise children who are not broken by what happened between both of you.

That is the real responsibility.

you are trying to be diplomatic until your intelligent child ask you a question you can't answer.

Nuhu is the executioner of the police gang

Maybe I am too paranoid but the way I see it.l,health funding and it's baggages are weapons of mass destruction.
Sensible people must be careful of WHO.

Hhh4444:
lol

dey there na.
It will be a great relief to irresponsible men.

Irresponsible men are not aware of what God did for them.

It's like we will have to End Police

DomPerignon:
Don't tell him, but the Statue of Liberty is male and it is Lucifer.

it is androgynous.
The light bearer showing the light for Americans.
They always say, follow the light.
But it is a false light

stan4b:
Why were you the one nursing and cleaning her.
Is there no infirmary in the camp.

I have same feeling about that so called friend.
I don't have friends, since those I called my friends ghosted me immediately after graduation and nysc,I became a citizen of Oyo state(on your own)

France and NATO are sponsoring terrorists in order to take back freed African nations.
Let us say no.
All these terrorists are working for foreign interests in a way that will shock you.
They kidnap, kill and harvest organs of inferior black people to be used by superior white people.

Love800:
Exactly.
His wife was Genevieve. He kept on decieving her that his church was legit.

The Marine-queen(a spirit) who Ramsey associated himself with was inlove with him.
He got no choice.

Mehn thanks for bringing the memories.

do you know why I take some movies serious?
This movie exposed what was going on in Church when many were still blind.
It took up to two decades before we could understand it.

He was covering crime by killing the chief suspect

Dickson178:
My question is , why do they transfer him to Abuja?

you know whether he is repentant Boko Haram

Pls include broad

Layi4real:
WAR FRONT
Formidable force
State of Emergency

pls include broad day light
Sensational spy
More than a woman
Executive Crime
Desperados

Love800:
My best nollywood movies are the ones that either nkem owoh or Charles(the one that is featured in the johnsons) is usually in.

Then there is this nigerian movie titled "church business." I watch it when i was small. Recently am watching it again in youtube.

Ramsey Noah was a young pastor in Church business

GeneralOuki:
Teko Benson had PhD in daring adventure movies. The man did it like no one else.

do you know that you can use the operation plan of broad day light movie to carry out robbery operation today.
Teco was good, I don't know why he stopped

GeneralOuki:
This is up there for me too. Another one is Silent night, Felony, State of emergency, Taboo ( This movie was so good it deserved a sequel but the fact that it didn't have a sequel made it even more epic) and lastly is Untold, one of the most well made Nollywood horror movie.

am still trying to get that Untold.
I want to watch it again.
Any idea on how to get it?

Personal Assignment 1&2
Issakaba
A million tears

Says a failed father whose son is a disgrace

As long as there is repentant Boko Haram elements who are rewarded with military positions in this country, no Nigerian is supposed to be arrested or prosecuted

For now, Igbos should not allow a fellow Igbo to be president.
This is because, I noticed a trend and pattern.
Whenever a southerner becomes president, he trades away the freedom of the South.
For example, under Obasanjo's nose, they started Sharia, hisbah and Boko Haram and Obasanjo looked the other way because he wanted second term.
What a great price .
Gej was lucky he walked in under the shadow of yar adua but he was kicked out .
The one called jagaban sold Kwara to the caliphate.
What a great price for emilokan

truthera:
Peter Obi is a Nigerian politician, he is not immune to the systemic political corruption of Nigeria. It is glaring that Nnamdi Kanu had sensitive secret info on him before making that statement about him. I am not in support of Peter Obi's or any other candidate's presidential ambition because it is inconsequential to the problem of Nigeria. South west region states will soon be another Benue state and Plateau state, a killing field for the fulani terrorists.....What matters now is freedom! All indigenous people who value their future must demand for their freedom from the contraption in order to thrive..... IMO, it is only a revolution that will brake this vicious cycle and allow the people to totally restructure or divide the country to end fulani invasion, protect and develop their region....

sincerely I don't want peter obi to be president.
You know why?
Fulani sells that office for an expensive price.
For Obasanjo to be president, he let them have Sharia and consequently Boko Haram.
For Tinubu to have that office, he let them have Kwara State.
I do not want any portion of igboland to be ceded to any caliphate because of the 8 years tenure of one greedy brother.
Peter can sell Enugu or Anambra to caliphate, he is terribly desperate.
Do you understand why you can keep your presidency?

Emmanueledu:
You’re so wrong!
So long as Prof Nnenna Otii remains the VC of FUTO,those funds will definitely be used for what it’s meant for🤞🏾

o mmadu ge eme ya.
Great Amazon.
Nnenna Oti

One of the prophets of Baal.
Any prophet that eats from the table of Ahab and jezebel is a false prophet.
Kukah is a false prophet.

SixSeven:
Read for critical understanding and proper comprehension not for rage baiting and emotional brickstone.

when they catch you, you investigate them without emotional brickstone and rage baiting.

SixSeven:
The videos are doing what the uploaders want it to do but you have to take a backseat and ask some questions
1° Do you think the government is not aware of these things? These guys are bold enough to record their crime and share it online. Think about the effrontery. Most criminals want to hide their crime, that's why they hate CCTV, daylight and any secret recording.

2° Who is sponsoring these people?

There is no way you can convince me some people don't know what is going on and they know the games they want to play.

since everything is politics for you, they will catch you on day and in their net, you will help us find out these questions

greatseed:
Nigeria is not useless! Most of its leaders & main decision makers are the useless ones.

15 million useless people voted and revoted Buhari, and you say Nigerians are not useless

Benmsu:
How does the president sleep at night? What a shameless country we live in. Just imagine the trauma the families will be going through watching this while everyone else is concerned about election

the iron throne is not for humans.
It is for beasts, animals in human skin

Dalohad:
Nigeria is gone.

Look at that innocent child. How do you expect her to grow up to love Nigeria- a country where politicians that gives no damn about her safety and yet won't let her parents get a licensed firearm to protect her from terrorists?

How many of these people will come out alive?

Since it has proven that Nigeria is too big to policed and governed, why not dismantle the Lugardian British cage and let the constituent nationalities determine their own destinies in their own countries.

she will have to live with the Nigeria reality.
Igbos don't love Nigeria but Nigeria is existing. She will get used to the uselessness of Nigeria

Tinubu is a master strategist.
Before you know it, Tinubu will make bandits to kill Boko Haram, then civil defense will neutralize iswap.
Tinubu is a master strategist, jagaban himself, city boy....