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G0odharddick:
You have no landed property anywhere, otherwise you'll be the one to advise yourself that you want to sell it.

Life first! Sell one of your Land and recover some money except of course you're lying and deceiving yourself

Bro I don’t have anything to prove to u. I attempted to upload some of the documents here but was told the file is too large, I have 4 lands with the least being 1.2mil and that land today is worth over 3 meters. Tell me why I go sell am? Wen Naira de depreciate everyday. You funny o

chatinent:
Nice.

Let's hope your sis’ bf has the same mentality too. It has to be brutal.

Chai

Offpointng:
If you did all these for your mother then I apologise for my earlier statement.

Your girlfriend should not get you into a depressed mode. Do away with her for good and ur peace

Point to correct, she’s now an ex. I feel better and don’t hate her one bit, I will just channel the vengeance and start self development and getting closer to God.

Just seeing this post now. E make sense, with the way Naija de go be like that’s the way to go now. I will become celibate and draw closer to God. I need Him right now.

chatinent:
That's to say relationship is all about sex?

Not really. But sex is important from my experiences so far. Not just sex but brutal sex.

Fibroid is as a result of abortion? girls should be careful.

I just keep wondering what could’ve happened to warrant those heavy insult I got from her, cos I can’t remember what I did wrong except telling her I can’t send her cash. Mehn getting a wife in Nigeria is going to be a tough one. Once good girl enter school, friends go just virus her anyhow.

Kobicove:
Go and sell 1 of the landed properties so you can unlock some cash

Never bro. I won’t even contemplate that. “Na greedy person de sell he land”. An advise my father always sing to my ear. I already cut costs and preparing to move to my fathers compound once my rent expires. Only problem I’m having now is just my overthinking, sometimes I just take keke to my fathers house and gist with them a little before going home. I’m sure they already know what I’m going through cos my mom has been encouraging me to draw closer to God lately.

Offpointng:
It's all the males in ur family house that are Stvpid. Women are meant to be taken care of? says who? I can't expect anything else from someone that foolish to call his father a stingy fowl

Go and spend all your worth on women now since you want to be irredeemably foolish.

Don’t involve his family bro, but i support his view though, women are meant to be taken care of as long as you have the money to do so in excess.

osazsky:
a simp is someone who puts a hookup girl on monthly salary..that hook up girl is not ur daughter...a simp will place one stupid girl in a good apartment while his mum sells tomatoes in one village market and all his siblings are wallowing in abject proverty and gambling

My family are actually doing fine. All my younger brothers are well to do, na me still de try put my life in order. Like I said, my younger sister willl be my priority going forward, if u see the way she knelt down and prayed for me when I got her phone for her Mehn it filled my heart with joy. “Family is everything bro”

osazsky:
U stop yahoo or it's no longer paying cuz most yahoo guys in my area na so so corn them dey gather buy this period I begin they imagine this new thread...

Yes bro. I stopped. Jsyk once I set my mind to yahoo, it didn’t take me up to a month before I started cashing out. The white lady still checks up on me until I sold my iPhone 11 and just left with my 14pro max. If I wanted to I could’ve woke up the work, but like I said my conscience almost finished me so I had to stop. If you saw the way I was buying foodstuffs for those old people homes u would think a politician was sponsoring me but it was guilt. I can’t indulge in anything that will give me sleepless night again all in the name of making money. I’ve submitted my cv to a few firms and I’m hoping to hear from them.

Kelklein:
If only una dey remember to open one small shop when these monies were flowing.. if only you invest in your younger or older ones still in the universities or poly then.. you would have someone to cry to now at least at all at all.. but now the girl that helped you flex the money as a big boy is no more.. you are thinking suicide..

Better go and carry headpan and join them for that building site wey dey that street near you.. if real hunger hammer you, you no go even fit think wetin be suicide.

Bro I can’t do that, I am a graduate and learning to use my brain to earn, all this I am doing to take care of my family as the eldest son and also send my younger sister to the university. We are a family of 7 all are graduate except my younger sister, I’ve made a vow to myself to make this a reality for her. Na she still de gimme comfort whenever I see her I remember my vow.

Offpointng:
This is what we keep telling Simps but it'll look like we're being bitter. I can bet anything that you never did half of what you did for that girl to your mother and never gave ur mother 20k monthly. The value in money is when its earned. What has the girl done or what has she sacrificed for you to enjoy all those things you did for her??

Like why on Earth will a Sane person pay his girlfriend 20k monthly for Christ sake

Nigga you made the monster out of the innocent girl, shes not in anyway to be blamed. Go enjoy ur reward with joy and stop asking us to encourage you its annoying

Bro before I spend #1 for any girl at all, I’ve already spent #5 for my people. During the lowest of my lows that was around march I couldn’t have money to barb my hair. My mom noticed and counted 50k for me. I took 5k and rejected the rest but the word she told me touched me “if nor be u wen help me with money resurrect my business I for don close am by now” bro I practically gave her 1.5mil to inject foods in her store and I didn’t ask for it till this day, I gave my dad 800k to fence and gate our compound, I bought my younger sister iPhone 11 pro with two sims for 320k all these I did without looking back. I bought lots of landed properties and gadgets. I just gave my ex g.f then cos I could afford to part with them and I was the one who disvirgined her.

MotherCHRlSTMAS:
Maybe you are at the sapa stage... Move on and look for a Bible believing church to attend

I will boss. Thanks so much

calabaman:
Just curious:

What do you mean by pick up boot?

Uncle - some that have not eaten for two days are waxing strong mentally.

What's the nonsense about feeling suicidal?

I meant due to her pressure I almost re start yahoo again, but had to restrain myself. I know things will get better someday.

Holyfic:
Na journey you just get leave her behind, Jah bless your new path e nor easy but it's worth it, he go give you strength te carry on. Peace

Thank God say na u be the first commenter. If na the other comments I see first I for just go mix sniper drink. God will bless and comfort you also. Thanks

Nairalanders I need comfort from you all at this moment. I mean my girlfriend who I am older than with over 5 years just washed hell fire out of my body with insults upon insults just because I am broke at the moment. It all started cos I refused to do yahoo again, upon all her insistence for almost a year now. I did yahoo in the past and I cashed out massively I flexed this girl heavily even took her shopping and spent over 200k on her shopping and have even paid her rent in school and constantly sent :-her 20k monthly. Now that the money got dried up she turned to tiger and want to scatter my mental health. As I am right now I just need a warm hug from someone to help me feel better. Please I need encouragement from you all, both male and female I just need someone to tell me I am doing the right thing avoiding yahoo and instead trying to start legit although it is not easy. Due to her pressure sometimes I am tempted to pick up boot again and restart but I have vowed never to do it again after I saw the way it almost destroyed my last maga . She almost became homeless na her papa help her clear debts. My heart is heavy right now.