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CoolJul:
Ok. Well I quite understand you now, I was drawn to the 'complexity' you mentioned about childbearing. But in all procreation is a beautiful phenomenal order. If you look at it from the positive perspective you will see that the blessings outweighs the negatives you fear about.

Think of the joy, connection, love, companionship and fulfilment it brings. We Africans see child nuturing too much as a give and take affair. The " I'm taking up your responsibility now so you will take up mine later" kind of logic . This will now lead to unnecessary competition and pressure on the offspring even from tender age.

Whether some offsprings brings responsibly or complications, procreation is a circle of life. It's a natural responsibility, lol.

Yes some parents failed. (Lemme not go into this). Still some parents tried.
NOTE: I strongly support that whomever cannot do it should not venture it !!! Parenting is not for everybody!

I believe you ain't a parent yet and it's ok if you don't want to do it since you see it as
bothersome.

You won't understand. I've seen the ugly side of having children. People paint it as something rosy. It's not rosy. Some parents tried and it never worked out. I've seen enough. Joy, connection, love and companionship? Why do you have a wife or husband in the first place? The first purpose of marriage was for the above, not for procreation.

CoolJul:
Hey friend, what do you mean. I am super curious.

I mean, children come with massive responsibilities. Children can be a blessing, but it can also be a source of complications.

Children are a massive responsibility. You have to cater to their financial, physical even spiritual matters.

These responsibilities can impact a parents life negatively. Certain Decisions can't be taken, because you have to consider children

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TheStrongest:
You're not online Oga..

WhatsApp banned me. I'm on telegram. If you're on telegram Lets meet there. Or give me your number.

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TheStrongest:
can it go for 145k bro?

My number is 08084697651 let's talk whTs your number?

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