Neddstark:
Inasmuch as this is harsh of the government, I may have to applaud this move. Last week a silly okada who was along a road in Lagos rammed like a mad man into my friend's vehicle and got himself badly injured. As my friend came out to try and even get the man to a hospital, that is how his colleagues stopped him. Over 20 of them attacked my friend's driver. Parked the vehicle to one side and set the vehicle ablaze.
Funny enough, this mob of okada men were all Northerners and Nigériens. This happened around Iyana Iba/Okoko area of Lagos.

Extremely an aplaudable move,
This people are not Nigerians, their influx is worrisome
They attack and kill at no provocation, coexisting with them is like living in the stone age
Anybody without traceable means of identification should go back wherever he's coming from

lanreHeda:
The fact that you think what you wrote, including the bit about boiled water, is considered to be normal behaviour is scary.

I bet you are not yet married

Marriage isn't a bed of roses
Every marriage has its peculiarities
People don't change people,rather get used to them, that's why it is adviceable to date, so as to know the character you will deal with for the rest of your life
And yes i will repeat it again, an angry woman can do the unthinkable which might be regretted afterwards

jagorinho:


There is a general cliche we need to revise, " forgive and forget", people can forgive ( not going for retaliation) but people hardly forget, no matter how we want to twist it, those words by his wife are strong and can break a man's spirit,

let me tell you, her outburst was not instinctively done rather it was cumulative, you cant call your lover handicapped and tell me it was just because you were lost in the heat of the moment, the mere fact she still see her husband as an handicap means the thought has registered on her sub conscious mind for long.

I am not an advocate of broken home but from now on, Op should have a firm grip on his house, being romantic is cool but "see finish " is bad, do not do something you can't replicate everyday for a woman because women do not remember what you have done the previous day,
for you to be warning her severally over a particular thing shows your grip on her is non existent, get a good grip on her!!!

About the text I know it hurts, it is a big betrayal on her part but just see her as another mortal that is fallible, just be careful with some things with her especially extremely sensitive stuffs.

I beg to differ a bit
OP tortured the wife to a point of contemplating suicide if she were to be a weak person
That was a real psychological trauma,
Those hurtful words were the last struggles of a drowning person, anything to make you feel what she was feeling

Afterall when she said she was done with the marriage and you added salt to injury by asking her to suit herself, did she leave you?
Rather she became scared and frantic
Your wife loves you very well,
On the issue of repeating an offence, marriage is a union of two different people, you may not be able to change her, consider taking her for who she is,

Lol, why were you angry, is your uncle not a juju man? accept it n move on biko,

Dont just make a.woman mad, some will pour you boiled water and still offer to stay out the time with you in hospital, when the anger dies down

RisenPhoenix1:
As usual, everything becomes tribal. And the whole thing has been incited by the unscrupulous attention seeking media, and enhanced by my ever shallow and ever gullible fellow Nigerians.

Deliberate targeting of an ethnic group is a hate crime; which is why the media doesn't (and shouldn't) accuse all Igbos of being drug dealers, or all Yorubas of being ritual killers for example; nor does it keep associating these tribes with these respective crimes in print. The Fulani herdsmen unable to come online to defend themselves, or because they do not control the media, is no excuse to target their entire group incessantly because of the alleged actions of some. When you incite hatred, you kill the innocent along with the guilty. Everybody in this case is complicit, even if you only stayed home and retweeted 'Fulani herdsman' news.

Criminality is criminality. If a crime is committed, secure the criminal and charge him to court without accusing his entire tribe of committing the same crime. Even a suspect is presumed innocent until proven guilty, how much more an entire ethnic group? This is how Rwanda's disaster started...with hate speech being broadcast on the media; leading to a third of the mostly innocent population being massacred. In Nigeria, that would mean 70million people.

If you think it's ok to keep up this tribal idiocy and risk the lives of so many people, then continue.

Is it impossible to ranch this cows, and save everyone of us the stress,
Innocent herdsmen are being killed in place of terrorists herdsmen,
Host villages are not safe even on their own soil
Farmer are killed and maimed on daily basis, thanks to killer herdsmen
Cant we adopt western method of cow rearing and enjoy peace

Inspiring

Best in 2021 topic so far

All this girls that are desperate for rich male attention
Where has she acted,

Flaunting your body shamelessly on social media explains just one thing

In the days of Genevive, Rita Dominic and co, did they become popular by exposing their bodies shamelessly on social media

This has to stop,
You are devalueing the acting profession

Call your mother, she is dieing to hear from you

Even your father will be glad to know you are still alive

Your problem is guilt not your parents

If you kill your self you are wicked and selfish

@AREWA

Do you believe this?

There's a Monika "AREWA"

He has been very silent on the recent happenings in the north,

Please arewa, what says thou on this matter

VicThoria:
Hi everyone .
Please i need help oo, i'm chocolate in complexion. I've been using bronztone cream for some months, i was on the second lotion when i started noticing dark knuckles,green veins, sun burn and I started getting too fair

So i stopped it some weeks ago and i haven't been applying anything on my body

I dont want to use any cream again for now. do i need to use anything to get back my natural chocolate color back? or it will come back with time?

Go and buy STC30. It works

[quote author=YorubaPrince post=96688620]If the driver is smart, he should politely refuse. It's gonna be a case of "an elephant in the room".

Knowing his true nature as we're all aware, he'll make the occasion all about himself . [/quote

I think Davido is popular both locally and internationally and does not need his own driver,s wedding to chase clout

His driver's popularity is credited to Davido]

osarog:
OP, are you from the north?

Lol

You can ask that again

Its fun to be in camp

Though the military officers incharge of parades and other rigorous exercises should be explained to, that these are only students not intending military officers, therefore should go easy on the exercise with them to avoid crisis

Some of them if not most lack the capability, strength and stamina to undergo military exercise

HitlerGaddafi:

Nobody is sacrificing you. Blame the drivers for tragedy like these.

This is more than a coincidence
11 deaths in 24 hours on same road

Igboariam community should pick their ritual sacrifice among themselves,

Leave innocent children out of it

The nation is observing

Sniper4real:
And some pple just siddon for auz collect 30m.

If we sum it up. It'll be 2m

Entertainment over education

Its not late to change the narrative

Say no to BBNja

Ignore the dirty show and see how less appealing it becomes

Nelly4you:

Nah my everyday prayer be that o, let his blessings come so I can help people . Some people think I'm stingy but they don't understand

Lol

Akube1z:
Six Gift/Power You Should Seek from God as a born again Christian. It's a free gift to you .

1) Power to receive Revelation and Visions.

2) Power of the holy spirit.

3) Power to Prophecy.

4) Power to Speak in tongues

5) Power to Heal the Sick

6) Power to Cast out demons in the Name of Jesus.

Evangelism??

danyero:
No longer a Christian.

Are you joking or you meant it
Some people might take you serious she
Jesus is coming back
That you believe it or not wont change what God has promised

Can some body help me with flip script location and address, i know its in lekki, where exactly, i have been trying to locate Chika with a proposal




Popular Nollywood actress and Flip Script CEO, Chika Ike, was seen in a private jet as she goes for business meetings, IgbereTV reports.

She shared the pictures on Instagram with the caption:



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Dayoebe:
Nairaland isn't the best forum in africa for nothing.


If your matter reach page 4 unsolved, even GOD cannot solve it.

Seun just saved a kirikiri victim. Thanks to Lalasticlala that moved it to FP and all others who contributed.


And to you all who contributed nothing - 600 years for you!

Please learn to honor God in all your conversations

Pious101:
Thank God....behold d power of social media through NAIRALAND.... All hail NAIRALAND

I hail Nairaland, i thank the Almighty God for this forum
I bless God for Barrister George, i am happy people like you exists, nairalanders make him your personal lawyers
Meanwhile we advice go and marry her now

Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr
Isoright



This niggarrr self.. ....... everything na just end time....there is no rapture niggarrr....we have been hearing that rapture Shit for too long niggarrr

You get luck say you nor dey stay with me
I for don use weed reset your brain....I go just cook indomie or beans with weed for you make you sleep for two days.....as you dey wake up from that two days sleep i go tie loud for you make you smoke
As you dey recover from loud i go Carry you go bar go give you ten bottles...then leave you for the bar make you stagger come house.....if your brain never still format completely then i go book hotel make two slim and beautiful runs babe come bang the hell out of you all through the night...with cow girl style....

Noah built the Ark for a period of 120 years, at that time, i could imagine the people of that generation making insinuations like yours, some even labeled him a mad carpenter, but then, without further warning "boom" the flood came,
Bros Jesus is coming again but this time as a judge, every work shall be brought into judgment, the first time he came to reconcile us to God, now he is coming to judge us based on the peace we have been able to make with God
Only a fool says there's no God because he hasn't made himself visible to the physical eyes, my dear his glory is soooo evident on earth for us to believe he exists

I will do just as you said
Thank you

RedPhoenix:
Spiritual


Whenever his weak, to even get up is a problem

Ask him to confirm his urine at many of these times is golden rust dark brown like rusted iron

OK I will donut that

Thank you

Good day Nairalanders and particularly doctors in the house,
My elder brother has this challenge of sudden weakness, he is a normal healthy fellow, even very athletic, but there's this sudden weakness that comes upon him and makes him loose his strength,
He said it usually hooks his stomach then his body system changes, most times when this happens he takes between 10 to 20 minutes before he recovers.

He has done series of tests to no avail, he equally believes his case is spiritual
Now we have been able to convince him to go for another test,
My question is what type of test should he be considering and which laboratory in Lagos can you recommend
Again has anyone in the house experienced such ailment.
Thanks as we earnestly await your responses

IduNaOba:
Only the heavens know the lashing this abike got after she tried to downplay the hushpuppi story the other time.
The lashing really went a long way to restore some parts of her brain yet she still mentioned an igbo name just to show off her tribalistic tendencies.
Yeye sombori

You are quite an intelligent person

merahki:
So, like the poster should bend over, just like that?
Not even to ask them why they would take the key when they know he is around? Not even to ask why the shop was opened without telling him? And more importantly, why they would set a date for his father’s burial without informing him? It doesn’t read right at all, and anybody who gets to know about it is surely going to support you!

Dear OP, how old are you? Where is your mom? You should at least ask them why did all those(even is it’s as a text message or email, even letter), to know the responses you are going to get, for tomorrow’s sake.
You obviously shouldn’t go breaking heads but you deserve to know these answers. And if, for any reason you don’t, at least you would have asked, and kept records of the asking, with or without the replies.
If you are less than 18, maybe your uncle is your legal guardian and in that case, this might explain his high handed actions. Is he? But if you are an adult (but maybe without means)? Just ask, they would respect you for that even if they don’t show it. More importantly, your father would respect you for becoming a man who can hold his own.

You said it all
How old are you
Where is your mother,

Much as we have fake men of God i tell you real ones abound look for divine protection

Smartwave:
hmmmmm, suddenly, we have different types of Igbo?

I think there are different igbos thou, the anambras go for servitude for many years and later established by the master, thats in a situation where there's no money or interest for education,
But most IMO people apart from orlu are extremely lazy and depends on their women

MrBrownJay1:
their god was in isolation.... he will be back after covid-19 lockdown...

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You think you are funny,
May God forgive you for you know not what you are doing

Your mockery of Christianity wont change the fact that Christ is coming again. But this time as a judge, are you ready

Onyi22:

Don't make fun of someone's predicament all in the name of getting likes and mentions on social media, it is God that gives children, at the appointed time, Adesua will surely have her own child (ren).

Amen in Jesus name

Numerouno94:
Wat kinda advice or discourse do u want frm nairalanders wen its obvious u hv made up ur mind not to inform ur mom?...

Honestly i feel like flogging u. God dnt let me get dis kinda dunce as a child.....Enjoy ur WWE.

Haba
What exactly is your point, he is only 17. The bully is 24 and very huge,
Lets be mindful what we advice he is already tensed, he is depressed and far away from the real people that love him

OP please call your mother its the best you can do, be prayerful God will help you, schools will soon resume

It depends on the need of the moment,
When you feel the need to communicate with your father, you need to revere him, worship him adore him like the king he is, you do this respectfully, this cant be done shouting,

When you have a need to be met, you still go in humility pleading for mercy and favor

But when devil challenges you , that when you rebuke the idiot and his associates, using the word of God. You cant rebuke in cool countenance, you may or may not raise your voice but the key thing is, you are angry in the spirit.

My advice to you is engage more in quiet time with God, you will experience the presence of the holyghost, burdens will be lifted and certainly God will meet you at the point of your need or give you grace to wait for his time so much so that not meeting your need yet wont matter to you