Webmasters › Re: Most Visited Websites By Nigerians - May 2025 by Flexymarketing(m): 8:33pm On Jun 26, 2025 |
I am reading this okay. I don’t have 40 words to write 🏧
Lies. This stat abi Westin dem call their names receive money in brown envelopes to publish and promote such things like this. |
Politics › Re: INEC To Conduct Bye-election Across 16 Constituencies On August 16 by Flexymarketing(m): 6:57pm On Jun 26, 2025 |
Why most are dead? Isn’t this a lesson to those there presently? |
Politics › Re: Benue: Governor Alia Finally Reconciles With Akume by Flexymarketing(m): 6:53pm On Jun 26, 2025 |
Yes. Akume now can get his pension henceforth from Alia the Rev Governor. |
Politics › Re: Fubara Meets Members Of Rivers House Of Assembly by Flexymarketing(m): 6:52pm On Jun 26, 2025 |
He meets them to settle and renegotiate the terms and conditions,sharing formulae and the entire Rivers money 💰 |
Food › Re: Balut: Can You Eat This? (Pictures) by Flexymarketing(m): 8:18pm On Jun 24, 2025 |
No way! Am not a fan of such kinda food. Those guys including china eat even 🐛 |
Phones › Re: Lebara Nigeria Rolls Out 0724 Phone Number by Flexymarketing(m): 8:01pm On Jun 24, 2025 |
Let’s know who they are. They are new to Nigerian market and they need to let’s know what they have to offer. |
Agriculture › Re: Heavy Rainfall Destroys Farm Of Journalist In Ebonyi State (Photos, Video) by Flexymarketing(m): 4:25pm On Jun 24, 2025 |
Flood of life. If everyone is to ask the govt for refund from flood ,then,the govt will be left with nothing for other projects. |
Career › Re: Retired Superintendent of Police Laments ₦2M Gratuity After 35 Years by Flexymarketing(m): 6:19pm On Jun 22, 2025 |
There’s something this man isn’t saying right? Pension is the monthly take home of retirees why gratuity is a one time payment for all govt workers.
So,if his monthly take home is 2m like he said (pension),then,it’s huge except if he doesn’t know what he is saying. |
Politics › Re: 2027: Northern Power Blocs Eye VP Shettima’s Seat by Flexymarketing(m): 5:58am On Jun 22, 2025 |
I really don’t care if they changed or not change him because the decision won’t affect the situation of the average man neither will it change the price of garri and shawarma. |
Celebrities › Re: Olamide Sets 2025 Record, Dominates Spotify, Apple Music With New Album by Flexymarketing(m): 5:39am On Jun 22, 2025 |
I didn’t spend 10 secs on each track. Must Olamide produce content when there is really nothing to be produced? |
Politics › Re: President Tinubu Reaffirms Commitment To Infrastructure Development by Flexymarketing(m): 7:39pm On Jun 21, 2025 |
how31391: This 40 character content requirement is very frustrating to say the Least. Mode,do your work👆This is against NL rule except if this acct is owned by a mod himself |
Politics › Re: Ebonyi Spent ₦551 Million On Hajj Pilgrimage For 33 Pilgrims - FIJ by Flexymarketing(m): 6:11pm On Jun 21, 2025 |
Lies. Inflated and doesn’t reflect what is in reality with what each benefited . They are rugged in taking from The government coffers .
Last time I checked,Ebonyi is a Christian state. |
Politics › Re: Tinubu Will Choose His 2027 Running Mate After APC Convention, Says Bayo Onanuga by Flexymarketing(m): 6:39am On Jun 21, 2025 |
So,shettima isn’t in the game any longer in 2027? |
Christianity Etc › Re: Man Steals From Church Offering Box And Uses Money To Play Sportybet, Wins ₦2m by Flexymarketing(m): 10:27am On Jun 19, 2025 |
I saw this but I refused to comment because it’s not in my duty to put mouth in this kind of issue. |
Politics › Re: SGF, George Akume Visits Yelewata In Benue State (Photos) by Flexymarketing(m): 6:28am On Jun 18, 2025 |
Why Benue?why the maiming? What end are they trying to achieve in these massive slaughter? |
Programming › Re: AI Is Now Coding For My Boss by Flexymarketing(m): 3:46pm On Jun 17, 2025 |
Honestly ,it’s has rendered a lot of programmers out of jobs |
Crime › Re: I Finally Reported Him!! by Flexymarketing(m): 4:45pm On Jun 16, 2025 |
NjaFoodie: I don’t care what you think. I’m def not a Nigerian in any way except for loving the country and the people. I sent you a pm ,kindly check it out. Thanks |
Crime › Re: I Finally Reported Him!! by Flexymarketing(m): 9:24pm On Jun 15, 2025 |
NjaFoodie: Why do I need to lie? & give me a VALID reason why you need proof I’m not from this continent and I’ll snap a corner of my passport. Must be a valid reason not just being extra nosy. Anyone can get any country’s passport and claim they are from that country. I know when I chat with a foreigner. You are a Nigerian with the way you chat. Stop claiming what you are not. xx |
Politics › Re: "On your dollar we stand": Tinubu may be life President with 10th NASS - Dalung by Flexymarketing(m): 8:46pm On Jun 15, 2025 |
lol 😂 “They are not rubber stamps; they are ‘Emi Lokan’ choristers.”
It’s possible . It’s all what dollar he can offer and akpabio is ready to accept the gifts . Money rules ✅💯 |
Crime › Re: I Finally Reported Him!! by Flexymarketing(m): 8:22pm On Jun 15, 2025 |
NjaFoodie: I’m not from this continent. & my job is remote, so it doesn’t matter where I live Okay,what’s the proof you are not from Africa? |
Crime › Re: I Finally Reported Him!! by Flexymarketing(m): 8:23pm On Jun 14, 2025 |
NjaFoodie: Finally I did it and I’m proud of myself. I reported my narcissistic, abusive, manipulative EX to immigration and he will be deported back to Nigeria. This will probably rub some the wrong way but if you know what he’s put me through for the past 3.5 years and what I’ve sacrificed for him, you would say “well done my sister”. Now I can exhale and move on with my life knowing I taught him a big lesson. This is at the end of the day very sad but most of it I didn’t cause or start. I’m just the one finally ending it. Are you from Ghana and if I may ask,what do you do that makes you able to get same job so fast when you switched countries ? |
Crime › Re: I Finally Reported Him!! by Flexymarketing(m): 8:20pm On Jun 14, 2025 |
NjaFoodie: Gosh I didn’t think anyone would want to know the backstory. Well. I gave up my nice upper middle class life, beautiful flat, my furniture, my new car, my family, all the clothes, shoes and handbags a girl could want. I gave away alot and sold some. I took on a 2nd job for a year to save and prepare for the move, ended up saving equivalent of 20k usd. I left my own country to move to Nigeria after 2.5 years of long distance. We planned for me to move to him because you know it’s hard for a Nigerian to japa. We were to get married, stay in Nigeria a while then switch countries. Not long after I arrived he started acting weird, like ignoring me and just being very different than the previous years of long distance. & yes, I visited him 3 times that long distance time. When I relocated, It was to rebuild again with him for us. We had some major issues adjusting to being together and I realized it was because he never really wanted a full relationship. He had always had situationships and this was his preference, even though he never said this. It was clear to me. But I was stuck, I had already gotten rid of my whole life and relocated. So I hung on, we stayed in and out, while he breadbeumbed me to keep me attached and he went on to keep exploring other people while also entertaining me and telling me he loves me, he wants us to be a family etc but we needed to “heal” he kept saying. Basically giving me a bs excuse of why he could t commit to me.
That went on for 2 years, we’re both living separately but still in and out together, he’s still doing what he needed to do to give me “false hope”. He went on vacation to another country, alone, to return in a month. After that month, he told me he was not coming back to Nigeria ever. So he left me in his country. I was of course devastated, almost killed myself tbh. And I lost probably 25 kg, so I was a skeleton. That was the lowest I’ve ever been in my life. A week or so later, I was investigating and saw he was in the new country boo’d up with a girl. So we fought back and forth and that was it, we did not talk or anything for 4 months. He was blocked everywhere and I was in Nigeria alone.
After 4 months out of the blue, he sent me 5 million naira. Then a few weeks later, he sent another 3 million. He was still blocked. After that 2nd transfer of $$, we started communicating again via email then I unblocked him. He sent $$ out of guilt I later realized. Long story short. He got me to go to the country he had Japa to and when I got here, we make up and said we’re re-starting with a clean slate, leave the past in the past, forgive and forget.
2 months went by, everything was great, perfect in fact. Then one day he got a call at midnight feom a number with a pink bow, now name. I asked him who that was and no answer from him. So my antenna’s went up again. He was storing one of his suitcases at my flat for whatever reason I can’t remember and when I saw that phone call and he was being secretive about it , I decided to open the suitcase just to “see”, nit thinking I would find anything. To my horror, I found printed pictures of him and the girl that I caught him with while I was still in Nigeria. I asked him and he confessed that he moved to the new country and started a new relationship with her within the 2-3 weeks AND when I arrived to the new country and we were supposedly starting anew, fresh start, he was still seeing her, juggling and rotating us, essentially having 2 relationships going.
So again, I wa devastated, distraught, so many things I can’t even put into words. So I retreated again. This time for 2 months. I was again in a foreign country alone, he’s with the girl. I spent Xmas & new years alone. Then after 2 months, he emailed me and begged me again. Now mind you, I love this man with all of me, so it’s easy to be dumb stupid when it comes to him. Plus my being alone in a foreign country worked in his favour. I wanted him around but I was trying to maintain some dignity for myself. So again, we got back together in February. We were good March, April and May. Then he got a new car, a new Mercedes, his dream car. Soon as I saw it, I knew what was coming next. The next week, we had planned a road trip for Saturday. Saturday morning he called and said he had drank too much on Friday night and he was broke. So I sent him $$ and told him to rest, drink water and we can reschedule the road trip.
He came to my place that Monday-Wednesday and that’s the last time we saw each other. I felt he was OFF again, his energy. So I investigated and saw that that Friday he went out, he had dm’d a girl on IG, for her an Airbnb for the weekend in the city, took her out to dinner, clubbing and whatever else. So that’s why he was broke and asking me for $$. Which is just low down dirty of him. So I contacted the girl and told her he’s not single. She didn’t care. She preceded to brag to me how much $$ he spent on her. Then I told all of his friends what he did becazue he told the girl I was a leech, lazy and crazy. She told me this. Which I am none of those things, I work and make my own money and I never ask him for a penny.
Some sought back and forth via text becazue he wasn’t man enough to even pick his phone, for about 3 days we fought then just blocked him everywhere again.
So this is the 3rd time he had blindsided me after begging me tio come back and making all these promises. Mind you, when we met, I was at the too of my Game, I made good $$, had a good lifestyle and i helped him to elevate himself giving him $$ every month before I relocated. When we met he was washing clothes in a bucket, living in a tiny tiny studio flat and he had no car. Before long, with my help, he had a new iPhone, new MacBook, a car and he was on his way up. And today, we have 100% switched places. I am the poor one, no car,no decent clothes, my flat is reddest and this is becazue I keep having to take A month or two to recover from the shxt he does to me. So The energy I would use to “build” was going to picking myself off the floor after he blindsided me. Today he had a new Mercedes, all designer clothes, lived in a high rise in the city and he had $$ in his bank account. It’s like he did Juju on me and sucked my life force and used it doe him. Becazue we are literally switched from what we were when we met.
So after some thought. I would normally just be the bigger person and walk away as I have done many times before. But this time, I feel I need to yeah him a hard lesson to not play with people and play with peoples life like he has done. Mind you, I can’t even write everything he had done to me here but just know, I am severely traumatised from him, I’m nervous all the time, like a scared abused dog shaking in the corner.
And why should I just walk away and take months again to HEAL from him while he goes on with his life with this new person. I want him to feel how it feels to lose EVERyTHING like I have.
So I decided to report him and have him deported. Then we are even, I have nothing, he will lose everything and be where I’m at and feel what I feel. I’ve never ever been in such poverty as I am today and it is because of him and his lies and manipulation. I hope this makes gives an idea of my WHY.
I’m not a bad person. I’ve just reached the end of my rope of being abused repeatedly. I’ve been good to him despite how he’s treated me. On what ground is he gonna be deported ? Front page ,this is a lamentation of a lover whose bf is a usurper |
Autos › Re: Distress Sale: 2011 Venza ( Panoramic Roof) by Flexymarketing(m): 5:34am On Jun 13, 2025 |
yungchap: Features
Thumbstart
Automatic transmission
Factory fitted ac
Reverse camera
Panoramic roof
Leather seat
Sound engine and more
Price: 14m
For more details call 08171952651 09059192508 You want to sell off cos you can’t maintain a v6 car anymore right? Who will now buy this for 14m and still fill up tank every 2 days? |
Politics › Re: 10 Key Facts About The Ogoni Nine You Should Know by Flexymarketing(m): 7:39pm On Jun 12, 2025 |
I am coming now to comment .i am yet to read the full post so let me be |
Business › Re: ICT Firm Launches App To Combat Fake News, Reward Content Creators by Flexymarketing(m): 7:57pm On Jun 11, 2025 |
Is Deji Adeyanju their CEO? |
Family › Re: Why Do You Divorce Your Child Along? by Flexymarketing(m): 7:52pm On Jun 11, 2025 |
This isn’t good at all except if DNA proves otherwise. |
Family › Re: Men Who Married Early. Do You Enjoy Or Regret Your Marriage? by Flexymarketing(m): 7:50pm On Jun 11, 2025 |
Over to them. Some of them have white hairs at 30 now |
Family › Re: Nigerian Women Are The Very Best For Mankind by Flexymarketing(m): 7:49pm On Jun 11, 2025 |
So true |
Family › Re: 4 Siblings Jokingly Decided To Take DNA Test, The Result Was A Shocker by Flexymarketing(m): 7:20pm On Jun 11, 2025 |
Lord,have mercy on the souls of that woman. How can she be this callous? |
Fashion › Re: Women Are Really Strong(photo) by Flexymarketing(m): 7:18pm On Jun 11, 2025 |
Yes,they are strong , my wife is stronger and she is a NL.
We met on this forum and we got married . This forum is a great place to find a lot of good things in life. |
Politics › Re: Senate Moves To Institutionalise June 12 Presidential Address by Flexymarketing(m): 7:06am On Jun 11, 2025 |
Does this impact into the people’s everyday life? |
Politics › Re: Wike's Aide Reacts As Tinubu Begins 17-Day Commissioning Of FCTA Projects by Flexymarketing(m): 8:37pm On Jun 10, 2025 |
👍 Let’s have more done |