I HAVE A BUSINESS THAT YOU CAN DO AND EARN 20K PROFIT WITH THAT MONEY EVERY 10DAYS . IF U ARE INTERESTED TELL ME HERE OR TYPE YOUR WHATSAPP NUMBER . I STAY IN CALABAR .
Zaheertyler: Use it and learn a skill ...then get a job that can sustain you till you finish P.S no be everybody go learn tech Think well of a skill you like and follow up Cheers
NA from the money him go de feed de pay transport to the place he's learning the work abi...! E be like say you don't know how small 200k is right now.
chazon: Am in my 30’s, My wife and I have been living in separate locations about 4yrs now. With intermittent visits 3-4months intervals. Few days back wen she visited, I exchanged one of my new fones with her so while I was checking out the fone so I could delete some stuff and familiarize with the fone(her previous fone ,now mine)I casually stumbled into her FB & WhatsApp and saw sex chats with different men including her ex. This will be first ever I would be checking her SM, calls, SMS or whatsoever. When I confronted her with these evidences, she rather than apologize to me, began guilt tripping me with how she’s been ignoring my own philandering (but no evidence, she’s just basing them on speculations). She dragged the fone in a bid to snatch it from me at the Mall in public. I told her point blank how disappointed & angry I am and am separating from her. I arranged for for logistics to take her to our house in the town she stays. She’s called my dad. I have no idea what she’s told them, but I got evidences. We do not yet have a child together.
Did I overreact?? How do I deal with this situation Mature advices will be appreciated from experienced people
DUMP HER NOW THAT GOD HAS EXPOSED HER ANTICS ESCAPADES TO YOU.
Saintinoo: I never knew that I will one day write about this, because, of all the advice I have been given, I taught it was love in the air.
Some months ago, I created a thread about how I can't get over my girlfriend and another thread where I confirmed that she was a narcissist. But now, I have not only confirmed that I dated a covert narcissist for four solid years, but I have come to learn a lot about narcissism and how to unmask them. Sadly,
we have more narcissist both male and female going into serious relationships. White you are thinking about the problems in your relationship, the fights everyday, the mental abuse etc, you might just be in a relationship with a narcissist and that is the worst thing that can happen to anybody.
HOW DO NARCISSISTS GET THEIR VICTIMS.
Be it male or female narcissist, they hunt for their victims same way. A narcissist targets an empath, they target people who have something they do not have, learn empathy from you just to use it against you.
They portray themselves as the best thing that can happen to you after egusi soup. Yes, my narc ex portrayed those traits, that wife material characteristics, godly and prayerful, dress decent and act same. Do not be deceived, they know that is what you want in a woman so they give it to you for the while.
They will always talk about forever with you, bring so many fairly tails and give you the soul mate feeling, this you will believe you have found a wife or a husband, then you start making marriage's preparation. They have successfully made you commit. Mine always use this word "forever is the goal". All these is to make you commit and when you have committed, they start the abuse stage.
The narcissist common aim, be it male or female is to get you trauma bonded to them. Trauma bond is a situation when you excuse abuse from someone, go back to your abuser because you are afraid to lose them. I cannot count the number of times I went back to apologize for doing nothing, that is trauma bond working for her.
The narcissist will never apologize for their wrong at the later part of the relationship, they will do wrong, and expect you to take it, when you try to speak up, they give you the silent treatment as a punishment. Yea,because they have groomed their victims so much through the various love bombing stages. I was given silent treatment every time, and yes,after going a week of waiting to see if she will apologize for her wrong, I end up saying sorry. I was groomed during the earlier days to not do without her.
The narcissist will love bomb you at the early stage of your relationship, this is not genuine love,it is a tactics to get you used to them and whenever you try to leave and think of the past memories, you will have no choice than to run back to them until they are ready to discard you. In my case,she calls every day to check on me, would spend over an hour with me on phone, gave me pet names and showed the world that she truly loved me. Those were all lies.
WHAT WENT WRONG BETWEEN I AND MY NARC EX.
For me, i thought she was the last bus stop, in fact I had been planning how our wedding even though I had limited funds at that time, I was ready to go against anybody just to wed my soulmate. But then, this problem keep coming. I felt someone was trying to control me, someone was doing wrong and do not apologize. We kept fighting almost every week, and yes, I kept apologising.
Early this year, I called her to discuss marriage plan, she disagreed with everything and went completely mute, I called the next day to resolve and ask for her opinion, she still went mute, the silent treatment increased. I vowed I am done and will not contact her again, went no contact. After two month, I saw her pic somewhere, and since I was trauma bonded to her and didn't heal completely, I went back begging her for over a week. That is was being trauma bond to a narcissist does, it completely makes you their slave.
During the cause of the discard from my narc ex, she knew that I have been trauma bonded to her and the sight of her pic will bring back memories, she used what is called " flying monkeys " to make me see her pics and believe that I will keep rushing back to beg her, because she enjoy all the abuse.
HOW DO YOU KNOW THAT YOU DATING A NARCISSIST; if you do any of those thing I did, you are dating a narcissist.
1. I beg for her attention when she gives silent treatment. 2. I felt like she is just the one. 3. I do not look at any other lady not even a friendly look because all my attention was around her. 4. Her eyes goes dark when she is angry. 5. She shouts and insults to any extent when angry. 6. When she wrongs me and I refuse to call and apologize for reacting, maybe for 5 days or a week, she rages in anger. 7. She belittles me when she is angry, this is a common trait with a narc, male or female. 8. From her story, during our love days, and from my findings her dad is a narc. Pls try and know your lover parent, narc is hereditary.
Did I talk about how I later confirm that my Darling angel was a terrible covert narcissist.
Early this year, I had a neighbor whose 2 years old daughter exhibited the same traits my ex exhibited, the anger, the manipulation, the gaslighing, everything.
Finally, narcissists are demonic, look for these red flags in your relationship and end the relationship the minute you confirm that you date is a narc, there is no changing them, I tried and got hurt. The narc know what he/she is doing.
Narcissism is hereditary and they are born that way, they keep getting worse by the day, so best is to avoid them.
Drops pen.
IT'S LIKE YOU ARE JOBLESS....? WHY ENDURE ALL THAT BULLSHIT AS IF SHE'S THE ONLY GIRL ON THIS EARTH ?
jeromestarks: I was scrolling through my contacts tonight and I saw my ex's number so , I called my ex (...very dumb move).
We talked and talked about how we weren't meant for each other.
Our conversation read in part: Me: I thought you won't pick my call.
Her: why won't I? I don't have any problem
with you and you didn't offend me.
Me: hmmmm so, what can make you not to pick my call?
She: if you ask any of my sisters out.
Me: 🤣 . We didn't work. Maybe I and your sister will work.
Her: I don't want you around any of my family.
Me: This is why we never happened. You're too jealous. Okay bye. It's better we go separate ways (.... Foolish thing to say on my path).
Her: Better. If you don't want to talk to me anymore, fine. But I will still visit your mother whenever I want to.
I just said good night and hung up.
I feel like an idiot right now.
I don't know why I called her sef. I'm angry with myself. I shouldn't have made that call.
Please always delete your ex 's number and move on.
I NEVER KNEW I'M OLD MAN TILL I CALLED MY EX THAT IS NOW LIVING WITH ANOTHER YOUNGER GUY THAT PROMISED HER MARRIAGE. I JUST CALLED HER AND THE CONVERSATION WAS LENGHTY & WHEN I TOLD HER THAT I'D LIKE TO DIG THAT HONEYPOT AGAIN SHE SAID "e be like say you no want to respect your old age"
BELIEVE IT OR NOT, WOMEN MOVE ON BEFORE MEN. YOU HAVE TO MAN UP BECAUSE I'VE BEEN THERE. THERE'S ALWAYS THAT GIRL THAT BLOWS OUR MINDS. NO GIRL GIVES ME HEAD AND DOGGY LIKE MY LAST EX DOES BEFORE WE BROKE UP. SHE EVEN MOVED IN WITH HER NEW HUSBAND IN A HOUSE OPPOSITE MY CURRENT COMPOUND. WHEN IM PASSING AND SHE'S PEEING, I USED TO THINK MANY NONSENSE BUT I CONTROL MYSELF KNOWING FULL WELL THAT IF I MAKE ANY MOVE OR ADVANCES I'M GONNA RECEIVE INSULTS OR SHAMEFUL TAUNTS.
jesusjnr2020: Will A Sinner Who Pays Tithe Make Heaven?
If we go by the teachings of Jesus, he certainly won't make heaven.
Jesus said "unless you repent, you shall likewise perish!" Luke 13:13.
He also said no sinner shall make it into heaven. Matthew 13:41.
So do not deceived by those church leaders who preach tithing above the most important things in the law, such as, repentance of sins, that have made many sinners in the church think that it is more important to pay tithes than to turn away from their sinful ways.
They are blind leaders of the blind just as the Pharisees in the days of Jesus who did the same thing, but Jesus called them the "children of hell" regardless of their paying of tithes because inwardly they were full of iniquity. Matthew 13:15,28
So although paying of tithes is a good thing, if you don't repent of your sins, it cannot save you from hell!
You need to repent of your sins!
God bless.
EVERY SINNER WILL NOT INHERIT THE KINGDOM OF GOD.
IMAGINE SLEEPING WITH YOUR NEIGHBORS WIFE AND PAID TITHES & YOU ARE HANDED THE KEYS TO HEAVEN
Business / Re: What Business Can I Start With 200k In 2024? by FRANKOSKI(m): 4:35pm On Jan 02
